What would you do if your partner didn't care about your feelings?
By carolluvyou
@carolluvyou (460)
United States
April 3, 2009 1:19am CST
What would you do if you told your partner over and over how you feel and that because how things have changed, how unhappy its made you. But you really care about him, would you just deal with it if they are not considering your feelings and arent at all changing their ways to make you feel better? Or would you just say you want out and want to move on since what once made you happy with that person changed and went on for years of explaining how things have made you feel. Me, I have felt lonely, invisible, not important, not care about enough to want to make work. I would like to hear your opinion on this.
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@aisforgorgeous (24)
• United States
3 Apr 09
This is what I think...
If you're unhappy, and that person knows you're unhappy and has done nothing to change it, then there's not reason for you to stick it out.
You'll just make yourself miserable.
@carolluvyou (460)
• United States
7 Apr 09
You are absolutely right! I am trying to leave where its not a bad situation. Because every time i talk to him and tell him its over he starts getting really cranky and moody with me.
@job4ee (5)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I believe I would do some deep soul searching and try to identify if the pain has outweighed to pleasure in the relationship,which appears to be what you feel at this time. If your heart is aching after all the effort you applied to make things work out,without favorable results,is it fair for you to continuing suffering?
More than likely I would begin to ween myself away from the pain/love,as it is easier said than done to just immediately say goodbye to the love of your life.
In the interim scaling back your love a few notches may just invoke a better response and/or provide him with the opportunity to ultimately move on if that is his true unspoken motive.
There is a old saying if you love something set it free,if it comes back to you it was meant to be. It is a possibility you were meant to be his,but he may no longer desire to be yours. 1 + 1=2 right? What is 1 + 0? I believe it equals 1.
