online relationship.. is he really into me?
By ms_missy
@ms_missy (23)
Philippines
April 18, 2008 9:42pm CST
i'm so much into this guy.. it's been going on for more than 8 months now.. we text, chat, exchange emails all the time, lie a normal bf/gf would do. the thing is that we haven't seen each other in person. but as what he said, he's also into me. do you think he's just fooling around?? i'm afraid coz i think ive fallen inlove with this guy..
4 responses
@princesslee (158)
• Australia
19 Apr 08
It's so hard to have a relationship online as there are so many liars on it. Of course, there are genuine people who want a relationship, but you have to figure out who is genuine & who isn't.
You don't know for certain if your guy is being himself, or is he making a whole different persona? Is he only talking to you in this way, or are there others?
Are you far from each other? Is there a chance for you to meet? Maybe meeting is the only way to know for sure if this is a genuine relationship.
I really hope he is genuine, especially as you are falling for him. I wish you all the best with him.
@ms_missy (23)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
thanks for the response.ü
yea, i'm trying to figure it out.. i mean, it's been going on for like more than 8 months now.. and he's really consistent, so i don't think he's just trying to make a different persona or whatsoever.
we're just like 5hours drive from each other, and there really is a chance for us to meet.. we've planned it so many times, but for some reasons, its always getting postponed. as what he've said he's still saving some money, coz he had an accident (which of course, i don't know if true), so he has to stop from work.. yea, i could go into his place. but of course there is still this thing keeping me not to.. i mean, if he's really into me, he'd do anything for us to see each other right? what about some efforts..
@princesslee (158)
• Australia
19 Apr 08
If he keeps postponing meeting, you really have to wonder. Money is always a good copout. You're not that far from each other - you could meet half way. If he is genuine, then, yes, I agree with you that he'd do what he could to meet you.
@Alfie1970 (257)
•
19 Apr 08
i met my g/f in mIRC about 6 years ago and we were both with other people at the time and we met 18 months ago and got together, now we live together, gonna buyt a new house and are engaged to be married - she is the love of my life and me hers so she says lol!! Alot of people slag off internet dating but I have to say I followed my heart and judgment and have never looked back :))
@jofeli (502)
• Indonesia
19 Apr 08
well, if he's serious to you i'm sure he would ask you to meet him. i have a chatting friend like this and when he's about to be serious with me (he wanted to send me tickets to his country), i'm scared. probably because i'm not the type of person who can just believe in something i am not familiar with and know well. but if you do feel connected to him somehow you could maintain your relation with him.
@carolluvyou (460)
• United States
30 Apr 08
you never know if he is being honest or lying unless you actually meet each other in person and get to know eachother that way to see how he acts in person. I know from exsperance.
