Have you ever felt so hurt that you think you want to die?
By dhangski
@dhangski (3194)
Philippines
April 21, 2008 2:35am CST
I do. Whenever my husband shouts at me in the middle of an argument...small thing but it really hurts. Being shouted by the one you love. Just this morning, it happened to me, i was so depressed that I wanted to ended my life, but then I thought of my kids. I said to myself, I'll just let things be.
How about you? have you ever felt this way? Opinions and advices are very much welcome...
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5 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I have experienced being hurt several times in my life, by my friends, sister,parents,co-workers and husband but ending my life never came into my mind! I will just express myself and be honest on my feelings even if my honesty will hurt them in a way! That will help me feel good!But, if after the incident, I can't afford to talk yet, I will just lock myself in a room and stay away for a while , when I am ready, I will confront and tell them what I didn't like the way they were to me!
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Thanks for sharing. That's what I did, I just locked myself in my room. I was just so hurt coz he shouted at me infront of his co-workers. I got so embarassed so I just went offline. Until now I haven't talked to husband, I'll face him when I am ready.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I understand your feeling for I am also like that when my husband will slip his mouth and shout! I will wait until I am ready to confront him that I don't like to be treated that way. IN your case, just be open also, maybe he has also some problem in the office or whatever but ask him to be more respectful since no one loves to be shouted especially when other people are listening!
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Sad to hear that but you must not think of wanting to die just because your husband shouted at you. You know, I for one could justify a part of your husbands action. I wont deny it but I also become impatient sometimes that I could not stop but shout to my wife. I felt guilty at times but I know I am understood.
I hope you got my point. Your husband is out there alone, without you, without the kids. And its not really easy to be away from your love ones. If he shouted at you, it might be because hes beeing feed up there, or hes being pressured or he just simply missed you and the kids.
If no one else will understand your husband, it is you, you are the best person, expected to always understand him.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Thanks. I do understand his situation. But he too should be fair. He have to understand my situation too. It is really hard to be the only one taking care of our kids. I am trying my best to be a good mother. What really hurts me is the way he speaks to me. I was so embarassed being shouted infront of his housemates. It's ok if the only one that could hear our argument is just me and him...but it's the other way around. This is not the first time that he does this. He always did. Anyway, i just hope that things will be ok. But i'm not ready to talk yet...
@togakeroh (40)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 08
I do. When I lose with my friends playing Counter Strike.It was really hurt. My opinion...hmmm just be happy always even you hurt.=)
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 08
Hang in there one argument is not worth your life. I have been there and its no fun but sometimes people just lose their cool and go further than theyever intended to. Now if this were to continue I would suggest marriage counseling for both of you . Otherwise wait and ride it out. Your hubby is probably feeling rather foolish by now and will maybe want to apologize. If he does not and keepsthis up then you have to seek help with a counseler.
