Who will you choose...?

If you're after getting into a relationship, the answer is neither. But if its about love and love alone, its the person you love(even if he doesnt love you back). love is about giving.

ummm ive been in that situation before , it was a girl who i didnt like bu she liked me only thing was she wasnt my type ..period , so i kinda blew her off and never heard from her again , and like i always back in HS like the girls that i would fight for but they didnt show the same effection towards me ummmm i think still i would have chosen the girl that didnt show me any love over the one that had a thing for me ..why idk ?

I hope I'm never desperate or sad enough to "choose" either kind of relationship to be honest. As I'm in a lovely relationship of almost 12 months at the moment, I would be shattered if I became single, but I would never "need" to be in a relationship so much that I'd be with either someone I didn't have feelings for, or someone who didn't have feelings for me. I'd rather be single for longer and wait until someone with whom I truly connect comes along =) have a great day!

No, it's not hard. Both sides can be chosen. As long as you want to struggle for it. The most important is, you'll need to convince yourself about this candidate. When you solve the self-convinced part, then they will look at you as a reliable partner. No matter you don't love at first time, or he.she don't. If you don't then both sides may not be happened.

If I found myself in that situation I would choose neither! You cannot base a strong and fruitful relationship with someone if they don't feel the same way about you and vice versa. If I was involved with someone who I knew didn't love me as much or not at all I would rather end the relationship than get hurt or get treated badly. You have you look after number one no matter what the sacrifice and pain.