She is my friend,but I'm don't want to be her friend now.

iF you did not approach this friend about what you heard she had said about you - that is what you did wrong. Hearing the same story from numerous people that are not really connected to each other may be something to concern yourself over but I wouldnt take just one person's word about something said about me. Are you sure that this person that said so and so said this or that about you is just not envious over the friendship you have with this other person? Before you get yourself all worked up...get the facts straight..approach this friend..look her in the eye and ask her if she did scandal about you...watch her body language...getting fidgety or turning her eyes away from yours may be an inclination that she may well have spoken bad about you. Otherwise give her the benefit of the doubt...whats the saying you innocent until proven guilty???

I have had similar situations where the person is eternally sweet to my face but tears me down behind my back. Like you I also had persons tell me what she was doing. She is not a part of my life anymore. I did talk to her and made her know fully how I felt. I would not wrap a snake around my shoulders if I found out it would harm me and the same applies to friends. The term friend carries a certain meaning to it and I wish friends to be friends. It hurts when someone you consider to be a friend can be so brutal. I make no suggestions really but rather share my experience with you. (lol)

You should talk to her first before making any drastic actions. You may never know if you hurt her the reason why she's backstabbing you or it maybe the person who told that to you has another agenda. You used to be good friends and it's normal that you straighten out things before deciding to take a different path if it will do good to both of you. No hurt feelings afterwards.

I think the person who gave this information may be jealous about your friendship. And i think you should not trust unless and untill you are sure that your friend is doing this. You should talk to her because you may lose a good friend.

i don't see why u are asking if u did anything wrong. u r not responsible for her talking about you behind your back or her actions. if u feel that you have been a good friend to her, and you have kept your part as being a good friend. you have nothing to worry about. people that like that are insecure.

well, i understand what you feel. i think you should get a proof before making a decision. you should be informed enough about that, coz terminating friendship is a big deal. it will be good if you can communicate with her about that. confirmation and clarification is always useful.