Do you really trust your friends?

@shaara (77)
China
April 28, 2008 9:00am CST
I was cheated by my close friend today, she abused the trust i have on her. I don't feel like to trust people anymore!
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11 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
28 Apr 08
i do not know what your friend did to you that made you not wanting to trust people anymore. i have been through so much like that too but i have never lost my trust on other people who have not given me rasons not to trust them. i hope when you finally realize that not each and everyone of your friends will hurt and betray you... you will realize that there are some who are still worthy to be trusted,. till that day comes, please at least keep a little hole unblocked in your heart for others.
@shaara (77)
• China
28 Apr 08
Thanks for your response, i hope ,yea, i will find someone else who i can trust.
@bubblyapple (2653)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
of course i trust my friends..because i wont call you my friend if i'm not sure of your personality...so before i consider one person as my friend, i see to it that i will not waste my time with him, and that person will treat me as his friend also...so i guess it is really important that there is a trust in all friendship....
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
if you do not trust them, they probably aren't your friends.
@Bizziebod (3497)
30 Apr 08
I have one friend who I would trust with my life, she's proved her worth in a way and I feel I could rely on her for anything. I do have friends that I have trusted before and they've let me down - Sorry you're friend did this to you, but unfortunately there are some nasty horrible people in this world who couldn't care less who's feelings they've hurt! Hope you find someone you can trust in the future..
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
I used to be a sucker for this thing called friendship and I can take that to the extreme of even fighting to defend my friends. However, as is true in life, I have been betrayed many times and it has shown me that there are different kinds of people.
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
Yeah it's hard to trust even your closest friend. My roommate for 3 years whom I've like a sister took my money and disappeared.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I do trust a few of my friends. My best friend has shown me beyond doubt that I could trust her. There are a few I dont hink I can trust anymore, but everyone would have that
@TheDevil (840)
• India
28 Apr 08
I trust most of my friends with certain things ,to an extent .The only friend I trust with anything and everything is my best friend and we have the same rapport with one another.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
28 Apr 08
Of all my friends I trust some more than others but none of them fully 100%...not because they gave me reason (though a couple have) but because I don't trust ANYONE 100%...
• India
29 Apr 08
yes I trust my friends ...and they also trust me . If I can't trust some one , then he/she can't be my friend . thanks !!!
@4xmyworld (182)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 08
Hi shaara, I think trusting someone is an invidiual thing especially when it comes to your friends. If one friend has abused your trust, it does not mean everybody else will do the same. So think about it. If someone abused your trust, take it this way, she or he is not your friend.