I know how my ex died
By violeta_va
@violeta_va (4831)
Australia
May 2, 2008 12:21pm CST
I wrote few days ago that my ex boyfriend died. Now I learned how. To be honest I am not suprised with his stupidity what I am suprised is that he has not changed 1 bit since the day I last saw him. Few days ago he was involved in a car crash. The ambulance came he said he was fine no need to go to hospital. All he had was few bruises and cuts and he felt ok. 2 days later his wife woke up in the morning for work and there he was with a bit of blood on his face (I am not sure if it was the nose or mouth). He was dead. What the people are saying is that he had head injury and internal bleeding or blood cloth or something like that. And to think that had he gone to the hospital he would have been alive. He was always an idiot and now he prooved it again. I am sorry and sad about him and his wife and 2 kids.
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9 responses
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
3 May 08
The ambulance officer didnt say he was fine it was him deciding he was fine and didnt need no hospital or doctors. they told him to go to emergency if he felt any pain or if he felt sick
@Elixiress (3878)
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2 May 08
I am sorry to here that, but you can't really say he was stupid. He was obviously an optimistic person that wasn't paranoid that every knock was going to kill him. Many people don't like making a fuss over what appear to be little things. If more people did, more lives would be saved, but at the same time more doctors time would be wasted. It is a double edged sword.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
3 May 08
ok let me explain the whole story (you cant read macedonian or I would have send the links) the car crash was one where a 24 year old was killed on the spot. it was 2 car crash all but 2 of the people involved were taken to hospital 1 of them was my ex boyfriend because he was going to fight them and refused to go. So its not like the crash was a 20km/h bump on the road and it wasnt fo the lack of trying the ambulance didnt take him. He left a 5 year old and a 8month old kids and a young wife.
@Elixiress (3878)
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3 May 08
I understand that, but you said he only had a few cuts and bruises. He might have thought he didn't need to go and that he would be wasting their time if he did. If it was more than a few cuts then he is stupid for not going.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
3 May 08
it is really sad to hear about what is happening with your ex... if i have a car accident, i will definitely have a check up no matter what happened just to be safe... you will never know what kind of injuries you suffer and i don't want to risk my life... i am so sorry to hear about what happens with your ex...
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
3 May 08
you are 100% right expecially if its a serius car crash I dont know what he was thinking but whatever he was thinking did not turn ok at the end
@monishavakil (1019)
• India
2 May 08
thats real sad. how sad for his family. did he not get him self in the hospital whthere he has a head injury and would he be alive for few days if he did? may be there is something more to it...
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
3 May 08
no he didnt as I said he never went to the doctors he was too macho for that
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
2 May 08
That is so sad because he won't be there with his family and see the kids grow up. I hope his wife will be strong. Thanks. Good day.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
2 May 08
yes I agree with you I dont know his wife and I dont think she would apreciate me calling or sending a card or I would have done it.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
2 May 08
Yes, that is right... His wife may wonder so let us whisper a silent prayer that she and her kids will be fine and get through this. Thanks.
@justinmonty (11)
• Canada
3 May 08
wow i'm really sorry but guys tend to act tuff like that, amd its really sad that he had kids and a wife maybey he didnt want to worry them 2 much
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
3 May 08
if this was a one off thing than fair enough but he always did this I dont ever remember him going to the doctor
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
2 May 08
Hmm, honestly I dunno how to respond to this one. Yup, some guys are idiots. Am very careful to use the word "some." Wish I could use "all" but I know I might get murdered for it.
My ex is still alive and kicking. I want to outlive him.
Cheers!
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
2 May 08
well ok not all but take my husband as an eg. he has had a bloked nose for 2 years and finaly decided to see a doctor.
Anyway it is sad that it had come to this.
@cinderella2007 (2662)
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2 May 08
I feel sorry for his wife and kids. You cant blame that one on him, it was the paramedics responsibility to take to him to hospital as he may of had concussion. How was he to know if he had a head injury, internal bleeding or a blood clot?? They dont always have signs and dont start immediately.
This had nothing to do with his stupidity!!!
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
2 May 08
I dont blame them at all as I know him very well we were friends since I can remember and he was my 1 boyfriend. He could be kind to everyone but did nor respect uniform of any kind. He has a "proud" tuff man and would never go to the doctors. If he does not complain of a pain how would the ambulance people know.
@shannonjyl (421)
• Canada
2 May 08
hi violeta_va, what a terrible story! you sound a little bitter about it. i guess you do not believe we are all born with a set time in our life when we will die. when time is up it is up. no way to control it. i do not belive in it either but in cases like this is sure can help with the pain and anger! take care of yourself. it sounds as though you really cared for him , grieving is okay. make a pot of tea and honour your feelings for the afternoon. i hope you will feel better and can make more sense of this crazy world!
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
2 May 08
I am not sure if I belive in that to be honest when its something so simple as goint and checking with the doctors if everything is ok. I have known him for most of my life even if he wasnt romanticli linked to me I would have been sad because he left a lot of people in pain with his stupidity
