how do you deal with quarrels with your best friends?

I wont start a quarrel with my best friend, the only thing I will try to do is avoid anything that generates misunderstanding between us-the day I choose to quarrel after saying enough is enough, you know I would have made up my mind to end the friendship!

When conflict does happen and we end up getting into a quarrel, I try to work it out. I'll wait a day or so and then work out whatever needs to be worked out.

Stay a listner for ever, Speak at occasions very rare.

Friends and best friends are some thing whom we have to be considerate, they are the ones who are going to stand by our side in good and bad times. So its better not to get into quarrels with friends. It good to avoid any such situation which may result in quarrel between friends.

Hi taotao86! I have two best friends and we all became best friends since our elementary days. I think that is more than 30 years ago. We never really quarreled. We do have misunderstandings but it never escalated into a full grown quarrel. What we do is we usually talk about what bothers us or irritates us with each other and before it turns to worse, we always to decide to let it cool down for awhile. Usually the next day, we are all laughing and just forgive each other. I guess, the respect and acceptance of our differences made us more close to each other. Just my thoughts. Take care and have a nice day!

i avoid quarelling with my bestfriends...but sometimes there are times that we cant stop quarelling with each other because we had a misunderstandings. When we had a conflict we always talk about it to settle. Both of us dont want to destroy our friendship because we give importance in it and we treasure each other. So whenever we had an argument,we talk and open up to fixed the problem,we never let the problem grows until we resolved it.