do you think he's inlove??

I am never in love with any guys, so I don't know the feeling of in love with someone. I can just say what I think I will do. If I am sure I love this guy, I will tell him, no matter what will happen then. The worst thing is I really love him, and he has favor with me, maybe he has not fall in love, but he really favor me. Then I will regret to lose him just because I did't tell him my feeling. Maybe your friend is lucky and can find someone better later, but the one I did not get always the best one. So make the decision just following your heart, and never regret for any decision you make. Of course, think about the worst situation first. Good luck to your friend!

that is the disadvantage of being a girl because you can tell to the guy that she love him except if she is too much liberated and desperate. if she really love or feel inlove with the guy, she can make some techniques to force the guy tell his feeling about the girl.

Sounds like there is something going on between them. Guys don't make an effort to chat specifically with someone if they do not care. Not sure about him being in love though, especially as they don't know each other, but it sounds as though he is attracted to her. As to getting hurt, that's a fact of life. We can't have pleasure without pain. People are afraid of the word NO too much instead of just taking it into their stride. So what if he says no? There are tons of other guys around who would also fancy her. So one of them should say something. Like, Hi, I do like you, do you like me? At least they will know what's going on. Otherwise they will just be skirting round each other forever while they worry about saying something! That's no way to live. Better to find out one way or another so that some action an be taken or they can both move on.

I think she'd better write a letter or send him an email to him and asking if he has good feeling on her. If she doesn't do this, she will be hurt more. Why? casue if the boy loves her, that's nice, but if not? She is in the imagination of the love, and she sinks deeper and deeper in it. One day, she discovery he doesn't love her, but friendship, what would she do?

Hey Chubbychubchub, If this guy is treating other girls lets just say not so well or if your friend and the other girls are not getting the same Respect as females should get, (feelings or no feelings) this only means one thing. His charactor is saying much for any young lady. Therefore he won't treat your friend the way she should be treated either. If a young man shows a female less respect than the next one he's letting you know with his actions about how he feels in general (about how he feels a female should be treated). I feel he's playing with your friend because he already knows that she cares for him and her making the first step would be a get paid free card to whatever he wants to accomplish, understand? This is not his first trip down this lane. That's why he hasn't said to your friend how he feels about her. He's waiting to see if he can get your friend where he wants her and when the chase is over he will and (you can take this to the bank) move on to the next one. I could be wrong but what you stated in your discussion "the guy is nicer to her than the other girls" this sends up a red flag. One last thing if your friend is confused she isn't in love with this guy. Love is not confusing no matter what you define love as. The feeling you get when you're in love is a very nice feeling, not wondering what the other person is feeling, no doubts. One day when your friend is Really In Love she'll know it. She will feel like she's in love 100 times over. I say don't forget this experience take it in, learn from it and she will become a wise woman in her life to come. Remember when a guy is Really liking you he will let you know. He will ask you out, will be a gentleman to you in front of his friends or not he's not going to care about what anyone says. He will tear down a brick wall to get to you. Most importantly he will treat other females like they should be treated, remember that. If he's not then i say count your blessings, he's not the one for your friend. Good Luck to your friend.

yeah,i think the boy must have been in love with the girl,just only because he is shy to say love to the girl.so your friend need not feel agonized,she may make an opportunity to let the boy say that word.for example,finding a cause to date the boy out in a romantic night,only both of them...i think the boy must put forward that word.

it is not so easy to guess and tell from here. actually she is the one who can better guess it. may be the guy truly loves her. he is too shy to admit that.it can be also the case that they just its liking. the first step to love. tell her to keep an open eye.

Since you're still at a young age, I'm thinking yes, the guy likes her but he may not be ready for a committed relationship yet. Maybe he wants to have money first. Maybe he wants to finish his studies first. Maybe he hasn't developed the confidence yet to tell a girl that he loves her. If your friend really loves this guy I would suggest that she give hime time, like a few years. If he still doesn't say anything after that then she better move on. Meantime she can make effort to develop their friendship. There's nothing wrong with friendship.

you know sometimes guys are playing with girls you really never know. Just wait and see what he'll do next

I think that the feeling is mutual but she have to wait for the guy move before she show her true feeling to be safe. It's good to be more sure than to be hurt in the end sometimes we may misinterpret what we see and feel towards other so just wait for the guys move . She need to control her self and her feeling.

It happend with me i dont love that guy but he is my bestfriend at that time he says he can leave anything for my friendship. But one day i came to know that all this things are fake actully its just a bet to get me but god helped me alot. I wish this is not happening with your friend .dont belive on others belive in yourself and you will find the way. ALl the best to your friend

hello chubbychubchub, i dont want to discourage your friend but she have to remember that sometimes when we are in the love position we give meanings to someone's movement and even the way they look to us, it is common that we give every meaning to the one we like coz we are hoping that the person will return the feelings. i have many guy friends who will tell me back then that they cant believe such person think they are in love with her when he is just trying to be nice or he sees her as a sister or as a best friend who always understand him. the only way for her to find out his true feelings is either to ask on her own or if she happen to heard someone telling that the man likes her THOUGH such thing i snot 100% sure coz some people will tell you something that you wnat to hear specially if they know that you like this guy. it is hard to know really unless of course she will have the guts to ask him personally which i feel is more acceptable as it helps eliminates the long time waiting, wondering and the assumption only to find out in the end that she just fooled herself and it will hurt more than facing it now. i dont know, maybe some still see it as too liberating BUT make sure that if she will do that she is ready for the consequences and she should be able to differentiate the reality and fake. remember some guys will give in to what you say coz they want to take advantage of you. if she dont want this to happen then just enjoy the feeling of excitement of him not knowing anything at all and just be herself and not hope too much. i assume both of you are still teenagers or at least younger than me based on your post (hope im correct LOL) so just have fun in life and not worry too much about lovelife. takecare!

I think they both need to have an open forum or shall we say a serious talk about what they really felt for each other