What Are You Giving You Mother For Mother's Day?
By sunkissed
@sunkissed (4330)
United States
May 5, 2008 11:11am CST
well My Mother Lives 1,000 miles away from me. Last year I sent her a card with
some money and a bracelet in it. The card got to her late because the bracelet
somehow messed up the card. I was very upset, because I mailed the card out very early. So this year I will send her a card with only money in it. I just give
her money so she can buy what she wants with it.What are you giving your Mother
for Mother's Day?
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46 responses
@gemini_rose (16264)
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5 May 08
Well, we have had our Mothers Day in the UK, and as usual I made a mistake in choosing something for my Mum, even though I did not think that what I had chosen was that bad. I had bought her a bone china mug with a little tray and on it was a really lovely poem about Mums and I just thought it was really nice.
According to my eldest son who works with her, she was really upset about it because I had bought her a cup, this in turn upset me as she obviously did not read the words on it. Anyway neither of us said anything about it!!!
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
5 May 08
Well that is too bad that she was not pleased with your gift.I would have loved it. I too did write a poem for my mother to enclose in her card!!
@laglen (19759)
• United States
6 May 08
That is awful! It sounds like a wonderful gift! My daughter will usually make me something, or get something at the dollar store (she is 14). I absolutely LOVE anything she picks out for me because I know she put a lot of thought into it like your gift. Last year she got me a HUGE diamond ring at the dollar store! I put it on a chain and wear it as a necklace. This keeps her close to my heart! I don't think the day is about extravagant gifts, although I would love to give my mother something like that, it is about appreciating all she has done over the years and showing her that you love her!
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Yes, you are right, it is not the gift that matters. It is the thought behind the gift.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
6 May 08
It's hard to figure out what to give my mother. She says she doesn't want jewelry or clothes. She doesn't really need anything but of course we have to give her something. We found her a card and a nice gift set for her bathroom. It comes with candles and decorative soap along with a shell container. Her bathroom is blue with shells, this matches it perfectly.
I'd like to get her more but I don't have a clue what to give. If we ask she says she doesn't want anything or doesn't want us to spend the money but if we don't she gives the guilt trip of how all she gets is a card or a call. Maybe tomorrow when we are doing our grocery shopping I'll spot something else for her.
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Well thatgive sounds lovely, she will like it.my mom is the same way will not say she needs or wants a thing, and does not like me spending so much on postage, so I just send her the money.
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
9 May 08
I know how that goes. My mom is just around the corner so if I gave her just money she would wonder why. It wouldn't be the same as far as she's concerned. I wish a gift certificate would work out but she doesn't like those either. Makes it interesting that's for sure and her birthday is coming up too.
@zydecokitten (451)
• United States
7 May 08
Did you actually put the bracelet in a regular envelope and send it to her?????????? Or did you put it in some wrapping and put that and the card in some kind of padded envelope that is for sending packages? If you sent it in a plain envelope with the card I would have to say "what were you thinking?" I can't imagine that you would really think it would get there at all much less in tact. Also real cash is not supposed to be sent through the mail as it is very unlikely to get there because it can be stolen along the way. A check would be safer.
I hate to say this but your icon is of a nature that can cause readers to have seizures or people who suffer from migraines to suffer a serious attack. By the time someone sees your icon it is too late even if they close the window quickly. These people are not even aware often that this could be a trigger for their seizures or migraines but they may suffer for days after seeing this icon. I hope you will consider changing it to something less bright and not moving. if you have a question, please respond to this post and I am happy to respond with medical information. Thank you.
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
no it was not just in a plain envelope, and I did not send cash, it was a check that I sent to my mother.I have never had anyone complain about this icon before, I do have migrains and seizures.no one has ever complained about this before, but if it bothers peiople i will consider changing it.thanks for the response.
@dangnabit67 (2021)
• United States
6 May 08
I plan to take my mother out for dinner. She and I both hate to cook and clean. I figure she would like that.
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@dangnabit67 (2021)
• United States
11 May 08
Well since I'm short of funds. I got her a hanging plant basket and a card. She does like flowers.
@GreenMoo (11834)
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6 May 08
I would never send my Mum money. I'd just feel that it wasn't personal enough. I guess that's a personal thing, because sometimes receiving money that you can choose your own gift with is the best thing of all. I'd consider it for other people, but not for my Mum. Isn't that illogical!
I normally just send my Mum a card for Mother's Day. Sometimes I'll get some nice smellies or something too, but it depends whether I'll see her in person.
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Well i live 1,000 miles away I can not see her in person. postage is very expensive. I do not know what she wants or needs so I do send money to my mother because I do not want to buy her something that will collect dust.
@GreenMoo (11834)
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9 May 08
Oh I'm not saying it's the wrong thing to do at all! I don't live anywhere my Mum either and I absolutely see your point about not wasting money buying something that she may neither want nor need, but for some reason I just can't bring myself to send my Mum money. I think I could if I had a gift in mind, so I could send some & say take yourself out to dinner or something.
Weird isn't it how I've no problem with sending money to anyone else?!
@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
8 May 08
My mother is 83 years old and has more jewelry and clothing that she knows what to do with. She even started giving away her brooches. Also, the Wednesday after Mother's Day she is moving out of our house of 42 years into a retirement residence. She is getting rid of a lot of stuff including everything for the kitchen as she will only have a little kitchenette in her suite and eating in the dining room with the rest of the residence. And since she is moving shortly getting her flowers is not feasible.
With my maiden name being Bird my mother has a Bird collection. She calls it her Bird Sanctuary. So I have bought a couple of birds to put on her little tree, which I believe she will be taking with her.
This Mother's Day is going to be weird. I be my only family will forget about me because one kid has indoor soccer finals, the other is going to be away at an outdoor tournament, and my husband is running a half-marathon. I will probably be completely forgotten.
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Well I am very sorry to hear that your mother will have to move, but it is robally best for her, she will love the birds. you will not be forgotten this mother's day.
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
7 May 08
I just bought my mom a night gown which was nice. We were shopping and she said she liked this night gown so I picked it up when she was right there so no surprise but there will be a surprise. I'm bringing my kids to go have their picture taken b/c my MIL wants an updated picture of my kids and even though it won't be ready by mothers day they will still be happy to get it since we don't buy many pictures. I usually take my own and MIL doesn't use a computer so she never gets them. That and of course b/c she never really talks to us only when she has to.
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Well your mom got what she wanted anyway.And pictures are always great.
@kaleegirl45 (1515)
• United States
6 May 08
I live with my mother, and she loves Carnations. I will give her some and wish her a Happy Mother's Day. I'm always there for her. I know her by now, all she wants is for the family to call and wish a Happy Mothers day. She don't ask for much.
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
6 May 08
I'll be giving my mom an ecard and I'm not sure what else. It depends on my cash flow. LOL!!!
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Well I am sure she will be happy with anything you give her.
@tandy41 (16)
• United States
8 May 08
I always give my mother a card & a basket of flowers. And of course spend the day with her. I think she appreciate's that the most. She is the best mother in the world. I wish I had the money to send her on a cruise or something, but times are tuff! Maybe I should buy her a gas card. Now thats something we could all use!
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
My mother too is the beat!!Spending the day with her is priceless. yes you are right a gas card would be good right about now.
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
6 May 08
I got my mom 2 cards because I couldn't chose between two so, I sent her both. And, I also got her this cute cheese grater in the shape of a cone with a triangle of cheese on top of it and a mouse sitting on top of the cheese. My mom loves mice so, I thought it was cute and, while she probably won't use the grater, she can keep it on her kitchen counter top. It is sort of quirky and, I am not sure she will like it but, I hope she does. I normally feel confident about what I get her but, not this time.
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
I am quit sure she will love this gift, it does sound very cute.
@fajmarz (29)
• Philippines
7 May 08
the best gift I can give to my Mother on this coming Mother's day is my presence together with my two kids because she also lives far away at the province, I know she'll be happy to see us because she misses her grandkids. I'll also cook her favorite dish
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
7 May 08
i'm gonna give my mom some plant orchid because she really loves flowers and that's one of her weaknesses
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@AmberNormandin (883)
• United States
6 May 08
Usually i try and do something special for my mom, grandma and mother in law...but this year im getting them each a plant that will come back year after year instead of cut flowers that soon wilt and are forgotten.
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
That will be much better that flowers that will just die.
@whittby (3072)
• United States
6 May 08
Well, this year I'm sending her a really cute "Mom" t-shirt I got a JCPenney's. She'll like it and wear it. Other years, I've sent cookie mugs or bouquets or gone to Ebay and sent some baked goods from a few sellers on there that have really good stuff. In fact, I haven't mailed it yet and have to get off here and get to the post office.
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@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
6 May 08
The month of May for me is three fold. My wife is a nurse so she gets something for nurses week. It's Mother's Day right after that and then her b-day follows that, Whew! We call it the month of mom. She'll get roses, dinner, cards and I have to be on my best behavior for a whole month. ;)
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
WoW sounds like a very full month for you then. sounds like some great gifts too.
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
6 May 08
we do not have alot of money right now but i invited her over for dinner and i will give her a card and a small gift. wish i could do more but she understands.
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
Well being with you and having dinner will really be the best gift of all.
@jing_ocampo (135)
• Philippines
6 May 08
I would buy her her favorite chocolate cake and surprise her with it. In our family, we treat Mother's and Father's day as a special day. I feel though that you should make your parents feel special everyday, even it isn't Mother's or Father's day. :)
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
8 May 08
You are right everyday should be special for our parents.