What do you want done with your remains when you die?
By nancyrowina
@nancyrowina (3850)
May 5, 2008 11:48am CST
Do you want to be buried or cremated? Cremation is adding to the carbon problem apparently so now they are encouraging people to be buried again. This of course raises the issue of land use, eventually that will run out too.
I personally like the idea of a woodland burial, it's nicer then a church yard and surprisingly cheap. You get a hard wood plaque and a nice place for your relatives to visit, much nicer than a morbid church yard.
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19 responses
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
6 May 08
I want to be cremated and have my ashes divided up into two Etch-A-Sketches so my son and his kids have one and my daughter and her kids have one...That way the grandkids will be able to play with me whenever they want LOL....When I told my husband about that a few yrs back, he wasnt entertained but I LOVE the idea! LOL
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
12 May 08
LOL yea its morbid but thats so me!! My son didnt like the idea at first but he liked that one better than the Lava Lamp one and originally I was goin to just be put into ONE Etchasketch but then it'd be the arguement of who's house I'd stay at etc etc LOL I have to be fair to all my grandkids cause I wouldnt want any of htem (when I have them) to think I favoured one group over the other so I though well just make two of me LOL....As for scaring or creeping out the grandkids...LOL naw..they'll be just as twisted as me and my kids already are so I think they'd be fine....Just so long as they dont take me to school for show and tell I think it'll work out nicely!
@asereht1970 (424)
• Philippines
6 May 08
I would prefer to be cremated or maybe donate my body/organs but i know my family will not accept this. So maybe i will just be buried in a cemetery like the rest.
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
It's a shame if you don't want to be buried and you'd only do it for your family, but it doesn't really matter to you once you are gone does it?
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
6 May 08
i prefer to be buried when i die rather than being cremated... i want to be still remembered when i die and i want my children, grandchildren (hopefully i will live long enough to see them) and other family members to visit me in my grave when i already die... i don't know for certain yet actually... this is what i am thinking at the moment... i might change my mind as the time goes by... i just leave it all to God and see what happens... take care and have a nice day...
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
Yes you never know whats going to happen, they probably won't be able to afford to bury me by the time I die as the cost will keep going up as plots run out.
@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
6 May 08
I want to be buried I do not for any reason want to be cremated! My biggest fear is dying in a fire or being burned by fire so thinking about my body burning at a very high temperature all the way to ashes is my worst fear! Plese bury me.
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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7 May 08
I'd like to be buried too it just seems more natural to me to go back to the earth.
@bumbleflies (48)
• United States
5 May 08
I want to be buried. I also want to be an organ donor but I want to keep my eyes. I have a fear in the afterlife I want be able to see. I know that sounds crazy but I have always felt this way about my eyes.
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@ozzeth (940)
• Philippines
6 May 08
I watched that movie! Scary..Jessica Alba is great on that movie too. The donor of her eyes can able to see if what will happen in the future and mostly are bad incidents and who people will dye. But if you want to be a donor be sure your not like that girl! joke.. But you have a great idea. To be a organ donor. It can really a big help for those who need.
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@chirantani (1379)
• India
6 May 08
I would like to get cremated in a electric furnace in a closed room,it is cheaper, and also this mode doesn't cause much pollution.
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
It's good they are developing ways to make it more environmentally friendly to cremate people as it is the most common thing done when people die.
@stvasile (7306)
• Romania
6 May 08
I will probably be buried, as it is the custom in my country and religion.
The problem of land use is not so big. The custom is for the graves to be re-used after a long time. The former "tenant's" remains are put in a bag and put above the new casket, near the new deadman's head.
@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
That's a good idea for saving space, as there are graves now that are hundreds of years old in this country and the people in them have no surviving close relatives so no one would be bothered really.
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@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
6 May 08
I'd like one of those "green burials" that're growing in popularity now. Graveyards which're forests, and such.
They just wrap up your body in cloth and your family digs your grave, and they lower you down there, say a few words, bury you, and maybe plant flowers over you.
There's always stones around the graves marking where they are...but I've always thought that I'd prefer my remains to be able to return to earth more quickly than to rot seperately in a box in the ground...with chemicles pumped through my body.
It just disturbs me..the thought of my body not able to return to the earth until, and if the coffin rots long after what's left of me does.
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
I don't want to be buried in a coffin either I've found a place that does woodland burials, I'll have to check if you have to be in a coffin or not as I'd prefer not to be, and they use a wooden plaque instead of a stone which I like the idea of.
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
6 May 08
I will be practical on answering I want to be cremated. I want to save space of land as you said and i want to avoid problems in the future like if i will be buried and my remains will stole or not stole but will be displace and be lost. I hope when i die with the money i will save in the future my loved ones will build a nice place for my remains with my smiling picture.
@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
I'm sure it does happen, peoples remains do get lost and the family are just never informed. You can have your ashes buried in a nice place too so your family would still have somewhere to visit and it would take up less space.
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@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
5 May 08
i want to be encased in lucite and be made a huge paperweight LOL
seriously though,i think it would be cool to be preserved in that way.people could study me 200 years from now if they wanted to.
@nancyrowina (3850)
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5 May 08
Walt Disney has had himself frozen, and it's possible to embalm people and keep them as we saw in the film "Psycho" lol.
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@foundmyangel (607)
• United States
6 May 08
well I am a native by my family history and it is a right that I was able to choose to be cremated. ashes to ashes the bible says so ashes i want to go... and let my spirit soar in the wind...To me It is very morbid to think your remains are buried under the ground to sit and rot and to be food for little bugs and stuff like that. Nothing is eating on me after i am burned to cremation.and the they can scatter my ashes across the plains. to me it just sounds more complete than sitting in a box and rotting away.
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
That's how my mum felt she didn't like the idea of worms eating her, to me it's like going back to nature though and if I'm buried in a woodland the nutrients when I rot will help tree's and flowers grow I like that idea. They are starting to change regulations now so you don't have to be buried in a coffin, or at least not in a wooden one so that would speed up the process.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
6 May 08
hi nancy.
after my organs have been harvested for transplant purposes, i prefer to be cremated. i'll have my ashes placed in a nice little box and be placed in an altar in our home. the altar should have some of my pictures and be treated like a shrine.
cheers!!!
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
I was surprised by how cheap a woodland burial is, though it's still quite a lot of money and I haven't compared it to being buried in a church yard.
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@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
6 May 08
I want to be cremated. I don't like the idea of being put into a box and buried. It gives me the creeps. I also think that with population increases, we will start running out of room to bury people. There is a place, I think it's in California, where you can be "naturally buried" if you don't like the idea of being put in a casket. It's a little expensive, though. They wrap you in a linen swath, like they used to in Europe, and bury you without running formaldehyde through your body and taking out organs and such. This gives bodies the opportunity to naturally decompose into the land, also.
@nancyrowina (3850)
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6 May 08
I'd prefer to be buried like that so I decompose naturally rather than lasting for ages in a box, that idea isn't very nice.
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@scarywhitegirl (2766)
• United States
6 May 08
I'd prefer to be cremated, personally. Alternately, I'd like to be buried in New Orleans. Although it's crypt burial, within a year you are essentially cremated.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
5 May 08
I would prefer to continue being immortal, of course, but if I goof up then I'd prefer nesting in a little plot of land I acquired some time back that is way out "nowhere" and although it is unlikely that the land there will ever run out as most people consider it rather uninhabitable, anything is possible, I suppose. If they ever decide to irrigate the area and make it fit for animal (and plant) life, they maybe someone will plant a garden over me. I do not want to be cremated, but hubby says if I predecease him he will do what he wants with my remains. Hah! I would have him cremated according to his wishes, if it were to go the other way. When pinch comes to shove, I think he would respect my wishes too, but threatens this to motivate me to stay healthy as he would be quite lost without me. He is accustomed to my face...lol.
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@nancyrowina (3850)
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5 May 08
Yes I'd like to be buried in a country area like a woodland, it seems nicer than a grave yard somehow though it wouldn't make any difference to us once we're gone I suppose.
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@Deea48 (1166)
• United States
6 May 08
Well I am still going for the Cremation, I told my kids. To pick out one of my many lovely vases, put the ashes in there and take me to the family lake place, then just throw me in. If they want to keep some of my ashes, they can. But do not get the exspensive urns, again use one of my lovely vases to keep them in. I am also a organ donor, so it makes sense to me, to be cremated.
@nancyrowina (3850)
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5 May 08
That is a nice romantic image and I forgot to mention burial at sea too, let alone cremation at sea.
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@iamlord (21)
• Canada
5 May 08
I've always wanted some kind of crazy end to my body. Lately I've been thinking of some kind of Viking Burial, my familiy could put me on a small wooden boat with a lot of my personal things, set the ship on fire and put it out to sea.
I know a guy who wants his children to skin him after he's gone, and place his tattooed skin on their walls as art.
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