when he/she is everything you never wanted...

Yes it is very possible. We don't know who the right person is until we meet them. I doubt we would ever find the person we have in our dreams, but when the right one appears you will know it. My husband and I are complete opposites. He is very outgoing, can speak in front of huge crowds, and can be the life of the party. I'm very shy, can not speak in front of even a few people - the thought of it has me shaking. I would be standing in a corner by myself at a party. We get along very well and are very much in love. I think we kind of balance each other with our personalities. The Disney movie "Beauty and the Beast" shows how a beautiful girl falls in love with a beast.

Firstly, I like your discussion dear.. ;) It's true... I've seen a few whites marrying black people. My elementary teacher told us about her dream guy before, she said she wanted a tall guy, fair-skinned, and handsome. What she got for a husband is the exact opposite of her dream guy...hehe, :)