Would u still love her if found pregnant on the wedding day?
By KYANGA
@KYANGA (5)
Uganda
May 13, 2008 12:32am CST
Hi lot members, i found it worthy sharing with you my experience with my current girl friend. I am a Ugandan dv immigrant leaving in the U.S.A. I happen to have a girl friend whom i left behind during my relocation to U.S. On my visitation home lately, ofcourse i carried some few $US to throw a simple wedding then move her to U.S. Unfortunately, i have just discovered that she is pregnant one week to our wedding. I am confused, i do not know what to do. To make matters worse, i had finished making invitation to pals and relatives for the occassion. Please lot community advise.
3 responses
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
13 May 08
what a shocking news! well, everything happens for a reason. first ask yourself, will i be able to leave with it that the child is not mine?could i forgive my fiancee??(forgiving means also forgetting and not reliving the problem when both of you fight) can i accept the child and love him/her? if the answer is yes, ask her then if she is still willing to marry you and live with you for life.if yes is all to these questions then good for you coz' you will live a contented and happy marriage.
@rockvixen (894)
• United States
13 May 08
So, the baby is not yours or is something going on different? Wow, that is shocking to find this out, and especially since you worked so hard on those invitations. You know, you need to talk to her, don't become angry with her, just talk to her and ask her what happend. Ask her why it happend. Ask her if she still wants to marry. All this seems confusing. I just hope everything turns out for the best. I wish you the best.
