Would u love me if i lost my limbs in an accident?

You'll know how deep your partner intention is right here. Truly, actions speaks louder than words in here. But in return, we must have a will to continue our life. Laying on bed or hoping forever from others will make the emotional overwhelming. I suppose no woman would have the good mood every time. When bad mood appears, that will widen the gap of the relationship. What a shame, it's the Fact. Because if we don't face it, we don't know how huge the overwhelming pain it will bring. Seeking a solution is for this type a-must-have, such as earning from home, internet, and showing out the capability is the way. When he is capable of turning against the wheel, his partner usually provide the greatest love to him. Because she thinks, in the middle of physical/emotional crisis of her partner, he still struggle for it. He didn't want to burden her for the whole life. In him, he also doesn't want to look weak. An exception, if he is in comma, or injured to his head, or any serious incapability of doing activities. Serving forever -while he is capable to do something after healed- but he rejects to struggle, is not always the best option, either for him or for her. We are human, we must fit the right plug into the right slot. Fonder is a bad habit, it may create an emotional rush for a person who'd always given (person who treats) this type. This is the Fact. Laying in bed will also weaken the person's stamina. Lately, he will fall into a total laziness. It's still the Fact. Loving, rationally acceptable if the person is in total incapability, but not when he may gain recovery soon, and owns the capability. Such as, losing an arm, he may do daily stuff with the other hand, and he can walk. Losing a leg, we have another option, of using 2-wheeling-chair or fake legs. Eyes, he must willingly train himself to use the stick. And sort of limbs that will not bother his activity mostly. We looked after him, but not giving a fonder to him. I think this is the right statement to explain the situation. Now, I would like to ask a question to those who tells love is everything to serve his partner when has this occasion. How do you handle with your partner who had injured his nerves? He'd gone crazy everyday at home, that I consider as losing "limbs" too. I bet you'll change your love - s l o w l y - into hatred. Not a chance to send him to that "special" house? I myself cannot answer this, so I want your opinion too. Don't look as if it's an easy task, one of my friend ever experienced this, she underestimated the devotion, she said she loved him, she can treated him in the earlier weeks. At last, 2 years and 8 months later, she can't stand it anymore, he never healed after many treatments. She sent him away to 'that' house. Personally I think, it's a better option. She paid the house for the treatment, she properly works, and she also visits him once in a week. Can we count this as not loving him, because we're not treating him using our hands? It's the Fact.

Well, not just limbs, but even if he misses out on a few important parts and could not be normal again, then also i would not abandon him. I know im in love and if something like taht happens to him, i know i m always by his side no matter what....thats what loves all about isnt it?

I could say that in love that is true, there are really no limitations and you don't set the ideals because you tend to adhere to the reality. Genuine and unconditional love will solve that problem and situation somehow and it would really be nice that most people will practice it in any way or manner that they can. I must say that if I am involved in that kind of situation, I must admit that at the very first moment I will do have some certain sort of shock of what was really happening. Meanwhile and as time passes by, I will learn to accept the fact and truth that I do really love that person for who he really is. ^_^

true love is unconditional. if you really love the person, you should stick with him, through good times and bad.