Let's meet up

I think I would as I am a friendly sort and have not met many on mylot that I have not liked. Maybe the first time I might ask my best friend to go with me.I might ask them to my house rather than go to theirs. No I dont think I could do that as I am just too horribly honest but I know sometimes people on line can be other than what you think they are. I am a tad naive to the point that my son calls me a wuss but that is because I grew up around my dad who trusted noone and always said most people are out to get you. I dislike living like that as I find most people are not out to get you at all. and most people are just great. Pikefish if they are all anywhere as much fun as you I would love to meet them.lol

I guess that would depend on who it is. I have gotten to know some people on here that I would love to meet up with someday but i would meet somewhere first just to be safe. Do lunch somewhere is what i would do.

I will but I will not be alone, LOL! I will bring a friend with me, I learn to my experiences and always want to set some limit and not to trust fully anyone, even a close friend,I had bad experiences with close friend who became not a good friend at all and that made me always place some reservations. I know a lot of good people are here and I want to meet them personally given the chance but will always have that attitude not to trust fully! Just good to be careful! My opinion only!

Now I am disappointed - I thought that was a personal invitation when I read the title! I think it would very much depend on the person but for the most part I would definitely agree. My biggest problem would be the fact that my mobility was not great but I would make every effort to meet up with certain people and would feel safe enough inviting those to my home - I have my kids to protect me if anything went wrong! lol xxx

Hello p1kef1sh, Ideally, I would love to meet every single member here, I love to meet people, especially people on my friends list. But, I know that it's not possible or reasonable and may not even be desirable when considered practically. And add to that the fact that I have never talked to them, personally, or exchanged email, it would be a bit hard for me to consider meeting up. However, if I am called and someone from here asked for meeting, no matter who he/she is, I wouldn't say no, if I have time. I would just not invite them at my house but would rather meet them somewhere else. One reason for me not trusting fully before other forms of contact is that I have found people to be inconsistent. I am not trying to say that they are lying, it's possible that they respond with different perspective depending upon the state of their mind. But, it sure makes me a little careful. I have met many people whom I never knew but was told that they will meet by someone I already know. I have also met people whom I just met online and many are my good friends. But, in most cases, I had developed at least some minimum required working trust. There are people here with whom I have shared my email ID. And, to some, who asked, I even explained how they can reach my city here in the best possible way. I would love to invite many of my friends here, chez moi, that I trust enough not to worry about.

I would politely suggest that we exchange emails and phone calls first. I've learned my lesson. I won't go near anyone that I don't have enough of an 'off site' instinct about to trust. Just five minutes ago, a friend I've been on site here with, on other sites with and exchanged emails with called me on the phone. It's the first time that I've spoken to her on the phone and what a treat it was. At first I thought it was nova! That southern accent just melts my brain! LOL But as the call progressed, I knew that she was exactly the person I'd pictured her to be and that I could trust her. But we have a history now. And until I have 'a history' with an online friend, I won't agree to any off line meetings. It's scary enough for me to give out my email address sometimes.

There are one or two people I have met online who I would like to meet for real. I wouldn't invite them to my home but would arrange to meet somewhere. I sometimes wonder if people would be the same when I met them and I know they would probably think I was a different person to the one they met on line.

i would met my mylot friends in a heart beat. there are so many great people here. i have talk to a few mylot members on the phone and some in email. my good girlfriend terielee is going to come on down to the Big Apple all the way from Texas. her and I are going to get in all kinds of New York trouble!

I would not mind meeting, just in case somebody ask to meet up. But I won't invite them to my house, first time, nor would I go to theirs. Preferably wold like to meet them over a cup of coffe in a nearby cafe of restruant.

I think that as in all things in life, and people who cross our paths, it would depend on the person, and what kind of relationship we have established here. There are some people I have discussions with here that I would not hesitate to meet , then there is just the opposite. I think until you meet someone in a public place, you should NEVER bring them to your home. My most treasured things are in my home, my children. I would never risk them by bringing a complete stranger into my home.

I think that I would have to hear their voice before I met them, p1ke. I'd have to talk with them on the phone or on Skype with webcam or something like that. There's a lot that comes through the voice, I think, and I'd need to hear it. My intuitive sense would help me decide whether or not I'd want to meet in person. But there are a few people here who don't live all that far from me, and I would like to meet a couple of them, even without hearing their voice. I'd feel safe with either one of the two I'm thinking of, and one's a man. If I invited them to my home, I'd have to clean up first, so I'd probably just meet them somewhere for cocktails or coffee or both. And as far as you're concerned, if I were to actually physically meet you, I'd be hard pressed to let you go. I'd hug you to pieces. Then I'd give you a nice sharp whack on the butt. After that, you'll follow me anywhere. But I'm daydreaming again, aren't I? No, really, some people I'd have to talk to, others I'd just meet on the spot. It would depend entirely on the relationship I have with them on the Lot - how much we've really spoken with each other, and basically, how I feel about them, if I like them, if I find them fun and funny. But I'd do it, yup, for sure.

There are only about 4 of my myLot friends that I would even consider meeting face-to-face, and 2 of them live in England. As friendly as we are, though, I would have to consider my own safety first. I would definitely NOT invite someone to my home, or go to theirs, at least not for the initial meeting. If the friend was coming to meet me, I would suggest somewhere neutral for both our sakes, and I would expect the same in return. If I was supposed to be meeting someone and he/she didn't immediately suggest somewhere neutral, I would become suspicious and call the whole thing off. I certainly wouldn't go alone, my trip overseas would be a family affair. My husband and kids would go with me, and the trip would be a vacation with a stop or two to meet my myLot friends. There's only 1 of my myLot friends that I would consider asking to meet, but if the other 3 suggested the meeting, I wouldn't be opposed.

depending on the approach but definitely i will meet him/her but not in an isolated place because if she/he advice that something gone wrong with him/her. you should be careful in meeting people specially stranger, spammers are common nowadays so we must be careful.

I would like to meet with some of my friends on mylot, I would sugest we took a friend with us and met in a cafe, we wouldnt feel so shy if we took some one with us. I live by the sea so if any of my friends where in the UK and near where I live I would meet up for a face to face chat it would be fab dont you think!Realy top class post p1kef1sh?

No I wouldn't feel safe and I wouldn't meet them or invite them to my house or go to theirs. If it was a person I knew through mylot and we had became friends it is still best to meet in a public place because even getting to know people online or through the phone they could still be totally different in person because online they can be anyone they wanted to be. You would still have to be careful and let others know where your going or have them there watching for a just in case and have signals to let them know when to interuppt and get you outta there. You can never be to safe when dealing with a situation such as this..You wouldn't want to visit me anyhow p1ke I live up a holler and nothing to site see town is 10 miles away and it is small and the most excitement we have is in October when we have our annual October Apple Festival. And a few times we get Wrestlers to come to our town to wrestle which is rarely.

Welcome back p1kefish! I would probably meet them depending on who it is. There are a few that I would love to meet in person - who knows maybe one day it might just happen.

Last winter when a mylot friend said she found a kitten as was going to take it to Walmart to find it a home, I said that I was coming down to San Antonio to get him. Since then, she's been to visit once, to visit the kitten - of course. We still have the sweet boy, Tony, and we still send her pictures of him.

Well, I guess that depends on who it was. Were it you, absolutely I would meet you along with several others on this site, but I have to admit there are a few I would have to give a bit of thought to meeting with. There is probably only about 5-6 people I would REALLY entertain meeting with.

Hi p1kef1sh, If one of my myLot friends were in my area, I think I would meet with them. I realize that people are not always what they seem, but I feel sure I'd be up for it. Probable meet somewhere for lunch. Blessings.

I might meet them depending on how well we knew each other,ect...If I met them I would take my spouse with me and meet in a public place...You can never be to careful...