My first date
By jawaharks
@jawaharks (590)
India
May 15, 2008 10:07am CST
Hi friends,
Im planning for my first date next month. The girl is really nice. I never want to miss her. she said ok for the dating. But im nervous and dont know how to approach my first date. If your a experienced person, give me some tips. that will help me and others.
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7 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
16 May 08
I agree with all the people here, but would like to also emphasize all of their points. Make sure you do compliment her, listen to her and things will start to get easier between the two. Talk about your interests.
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@jawaharks (590)
• India
16 May 08
Thanks... I accept your idea of compliments. What kind of compliment suits for this?
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
16 May 08
I agree with all + what you said but i must add:
Be careful not to compliment to much (resume to her wearing, or other simple thing , meaning do not exagerate, and most of all be careful NOT to ask her if she has a boyfriend, or if she wants to be your girlfriend. This may look silly, but many guys tend to do that on the first date. Of course she does not have a boyfriend, otherwise she would not have dated you in the first place.
And most of all, don't be nervous, she is not the last girl you meet so you have nothing to loose.
Respect yourself and respect her.
Good luck to you !
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
16 May 08
Well, see if she is wearing different earrings than usual and say they are beautiful, or you could compliment her new haircut (if she gets one for this occasion) or you could compliment her cloths if they are different than what she usual wears. If none of this works you could relate to something in the environment to connect with her eyes to get the desired compliment. See ? I am referring to simple things.
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@triptadasgupta (900)
• India
18 May 08
hello friend ....thats very nice that you are planning your first date and i wish you all the best.well friend when your girl is nice and everything is fine then go ahead.All my best wishes are with you.There is no need to be nervous.But take care that dont be too hasty in your dealings go slow but steadily and you will surely reach your goal.
have a nice day...
@jawaharks (590)
• India
18 May 08
thanks for this gupta.. that was helpful. i think i have a great success in this first date. thanks again.
@goodhappens (671)
• United States
15 May 08
Hi Jaw, congrats and good luck. Just remember when your on this date to be yourself, that is why she accepted, so many try to be something they are not and that never works.
Have fun, if your having fun that will show and she will too, good ol fashioned manners are very much appreciated, open her doors and that sort of thing. When she talks, listen to her, dont just hear what she says, listen and share, most of the time she will then in turn do the same.
Most of all be yourself and have fun :)
@jawaharks (590)
• India
16 May 08
thanks for your valuable comment. It looks cool and i follow this.Thanks again.
@lexibethr (53)
• United States
16 May 08
First try not to be too nervous the girl will pick up on it and most girls go for confident guys, Be open and honest with her but try not to tell too much about yourself on the first date. Tell her some things about you but let alot of the conversation be about her and if she runs out of things to tell you then make sure you are prepared with some back up questions or conversation topics. Also be attentive but not over barring, girls dont want you in their face constantly but they like it when they feel like there the most important thing to you at that moment and they also like when you notice little things like if they feel uncomfortable. Good luck with the date
@jawaharks (590)
• India
17 May 08
Thanks.. These are the useful comments. this will help me lot. Thanks again for your valuable tips.
@lady11eve (311)
• Philippines
17 May 08
ei...
i been to lots of date...
one thing i dont like with a guy is acting as if we are already on...
just show respect and dont be too fast,sumtimes us girls like courtships...kinda treatus special and show us we are really on your thoughts...
and ofcors...dont forget to bring your sense of humor,and it would be effective to show your clean teeth and fresh breath...smile as often...
goodluck!
@muralirv (572)
• India
16 May 08
Hi,First try to get close to her as a friend then talk to her very affectionately and with lots of passion.she must know that you care for her a lot.Now your side is ok.Now she must be impressed with your speech.The same passion will turn towards you whatever you implied to her.At last you can arrange for the date for a good place.let me know if you want a good place;i will suggest you in the next post
@jawaharks (590)
• India
16 May 08
thanks murali. I didn't chose the place yet. yet to decide. Tell me your suggestions. Thanks again.
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
15 May 08
hi I am 31 years old and I ve been dated bunch of guys before i got married, It will be classic but try to be yourself do not act and be polite to a girl, I am sure it will help a lot. Girls like funny guys so bring your some jokes with you :) Good luck