Whoom you valuer more?
By as2006
@as2006 (5040)
Israel
19 responses
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
16 May 08
Hi as2006! I can't decide on who I value more if it is my father or my mother. I have held them both with much importance in my life that being one without the other makes my life incomplete. I love them both although they are not perfect. I value my mom because of her nurturing love and I value my father because of his wisdom. I value both because both have made me complete as I was growing up.
Take Care and God Bless! Happy Mylotting!
@welshdai (77)
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15 May 08
i would say i value my father more,because he was the one who raised me,did stuff for me,took me on holidays and still does me favours.
sometimes it not right to said you value one parent more than the other
but because i only know my dad and i know hear stories about my mother it harder to try at value her at all
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
15 May 08
I always valued my mother and father the same, but when i was a child I could talk to my mother easier than I could to my dad, he was more quit than my dad was.He worked alot, so really we always went to my mother when we needed something. But when we grew up, I could go to either one of them when I needed advise or help.But my father passed away in 2000.I really do miss him.so now it is my mother that I go to.
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@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
16 May 08
Well, my father passed away 20 years ago, and my mother just last week, but I still value them both equally. Though they are both gone from this world, the things that they taught me will be with me for a life time. They each taught me different things and some of the same things. I value them all.
@ryshawneo (405)
• Philippines
16 May 08
well, when I was a kid, I have never liked my mother.. But, now that I have my own family, have a son, I have realized how important she is to me.. Now, i realized and know how she feels before.. I love my mother now much that before.. :)
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
17 May 08
Both my parents are deceased now but I had a better relationship with my father. He taught me so much about life and was a great role model. I still miss him and he's been gone about 15 years now. I was daddy's little girl since I was the baby and the only girl. Life goes on and my memories of him will always remain in my heart.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
17 May 08
I dont value either of them..and have no reason to..They were and still are abusive ppl who by their actions and words over the course of my life made any chance of respect, love etc from me nonexistant
@Petercheung (681)
• China
18 May 08
Hi as2006
Yes,it is really hard to say,who is my valued,my mother or my father,they are both helpful to me in my life,even now.I love them both,but I love talk with my mother about my study and life,so if i must choose one who i am valued,I choose my mother,thanks As2006 and take care )Peter
@Petercheung (681)
• China
18 May 08
Hi
your discussion reminds me that I would go home and stay some days with my mother and my other family members,'COs have a long time did not see them.thanks :)
@Lambchoper (538)
• United States
17 May 08
They are neck in neck. I feel exactly the same about both of them. When I was younger I was a daddy's girl.
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
16 May 08
That's a tough question. I'd say I value them both equally because they raised me together. While it is true that I spend more time with my mom by shopping together and doing girly stuff, it doesn't mean that my dad hasn't made a huge impact on my life just because he's always away at work. My dad taught me to be strong and to have good moral character. My mom is more pampering because she coddles me sometimes, so it's my dad who's the disciplinarian at home.
In a way, I feel lucky to be loves equally by both my mom and my dad. Other families have one good parent and one bad parent or even 2 bad parents which is something that I do not want to deal with.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
16 May 08
It's not a matter of valuing one more than another, it's a matter of the unique values they hold in my life. If one was so much more valuable than the other, I would not need two parents. The act is, they are both valuable to me in their own unique way.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
17 May 08
Both my dad and my mom were the persons whom I respected the most. Though I loved both of them very much I found I still spend most of the time together with my dad as he was rather amiable and could tolerate my bad tempered behavior when I was younger. But sad that they had left me forever many years back.
@rupturetissue (114)
• India
17 May 08
i dont really know..i am a bit confused on this topic...very difficult to answer this question
@chivolaski (969)
• Philippines
17 May 08
ever since my parents separated my mom stood up as both my mother and father, though sometimes she gets on my nerves i still love her...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
17 Aug 10
I love both my parents, they play role model for me in their love, hardwork and responsibilites!