SECRETS.....you need to keep from your Husband !!!!

I dont feel the need to hide of keep any secrets from my husband. We are living a life together, raising 2 children. We both need to be on the same page in order to live our lives and raise our girls the way we want. I feel like if you have to keep something from your spouse to have a peaceful marriage then, your marriage is damned anyway. Honesty, openness and communication is key and without those, your great marriage isnt really worth anything. Not to mention, your children are watching and they see how their parents interact with one another. The take in much more than we think they do. If someone can sleep at night knowing that their marriage is a lie then more power too them. But I prefer to have a life with absolutley no drama.

there are a thousand and one ways to tell. tell a secret or a lie.... however, in a married life it is the greatest challenge to accept the best and worst of your pal. IF your husband seem to be so secretive, that will definitely tell you to do the same. If you open up things to him, he will learn to see himself you trust him. If he comes to know there are things you have been or hiding from him, he may ask you directly or keep it to himself then hide things form you. by then you will both be equal in his mind. YOu can't ask faithfulness and trust if you withhold things he needs to know particularly things that matters with the family and your relationship. You just have to find the right time and means to tell. - but not hide it ... one day they will always find a way out .. just like smoke you know. there are no secrets in this world. just like what you are asking now... find that strength and courage to tell. your r/nship will be much better.

Some husbands prefer to skip the details rather than to float it up to the surface. But some will tightly bind his wife must not keep any secret. Each type has its own benefit, but different in the treatment. A wife should notice how great his husband willingly bears the emotional-burden it will bring before the secret is out. A good approaching in the right time and right timing, is the way to detect the readiness of your husband. Not every situation may include for the slot to tell out your secrets, even though you feel safe about it. My advice is, no matter when you want to tell it out, you'll need to accept the pain-side it will bring. Along we must prepare for plan B should if the fire cannot be extinguished. Even more if it's a secret that is not favoring for our side. Don't worry, my friend. Everyone does left a small portion of the destructive-secret that's suggested to be left alone. It's the greatest wound they have, it's a black-sheet in their heart's journals. Because mostly, telling them out doesn't add a benefit to your relationship, yet it may add an emotional fracture in your relationship. Lastly, the perfection is a lame, because the more perfect a matter, the more imperfections we may see on the peak, furthermore not everyone can fetch that, once it's fallen. As long as your relationship greased in a normal and lovely situation, don't damage the hinges, some secrets has no value-adding to the relationship. Filter them wisely. Good luck.

Some people feel like they are keeping things from their partner if they do not tell them everything but there is sometimes not enough time in a person's day to go through every single thing that went on in your day and that is why it is only reasonable that somethings are not mentioned especially if they are not worth mentioning. Anyway it is not really matter especially if you are not really hiding anything major or doing things that will hurt them if they found out.

I do not think there is to be secrets in a relationship whether you are marry or not. Sometimes these secrets hurt the marriage/relationship. Even if you have done something years before you meet him/her. If you know that it will affect your relationship it is best you let the person know about. There are mischievous person out there and if they know that you happy they will use it against you. I am total against secrets

Well, i guess that depends. If its nothing that matters it's okay, like you've had a nose correction but your husband doesn't know it. But if it's something big like cheating on him... It's a different story! But, i'm someone who thinks honesty is very important in a relationship, secrets are out of the option with me!

I don't keep any secrets from him and he doesnt keep anything from me. We are very open. See we were friend for 5 years before we started dating so we know everything about each other. If you have to keep secrets then either you dont trust spouse to be able to handle it or you are just to embarrased. I will say that secrets always come out at one time or another.

I am a very open person so TO ME if one needs to keep secrets in a marriage or long time relationship they need to re-evaluate that relationship....I dont have any secrets from neither my bf or my husband...Of course there are things they may not know but only because its not come up..if or when it does I'd share openly and honestly..I have no reason not to...

I never kept any secrets from my husband when he was alive nor him from me. We trusted each other explicitly. We were each others best friends, and confidantes and lovers too . there was never any need to lie about anything at all.

Some people believe that you should tell everything to your partner for him/her to understand. But, sometimes, keeping secret is a good thing to keep the marriage alive and harmonious! But, I believe that there is no secret that are kept forever! Time will come that secret will be revealed! Some, do believe that keeping it is cheating! why not be honest? There is a saying Honesty is the best Policy! hehehe :)

uhhm i used to have a live in partner...and ofcors treated hima s my husband...i never hide anything from him...am so open coz i know im not guilty on to sumthing...and i think i dont want him to hide sumthing from me too...its just that i want us to be bestfrenz too,that we can talk anything under the sun...