Do you approve every myLot friend request?

i just approve them by the number of post that they have. it means that they are an active member here lol

Yes I do! I can't see any reason not to. Why turn down a friend? Can you have too many friends? Some myLotters periodically go through the friends list and prune out those inactive friends. I can't understand why anyone would bother? A friend can come back to myLot and be active anytime. Why be critical of age? Age is just a number that's in constant Change. A friend in need is a Friend indeed! Would all those who have too many friends please Stand Up!

Yes I do accept every friend request . some time I visit profile and some time don't , but I accept every request .... Thanks !!!

i don't approve everybody,but most. i guess it depends on their profile.if i see a lot of arguements,or topics i don't agree with,i may turn them down. one had a bunch of "women this,women that" gripes and...ah..didn't think was in my best interest

I don't approve every request I get but I do approve most of them. I don't think age is a factor or what their myspace pic looks like. (I've heard that one too) For me it is what kind of responses have I seen them giving, what kind of questions have I seen them posting. What kind of person are they coming across as being. I think everyone has something to share and learn but I want to have people on my friends list that I am going to enjoy getting comments from. I want to enjoy reading their discussions. Because I get all of this in my email. :) If I haven't seen them around much or don't recognize the name I will go look at their profile and see what discussions they have participated in and read a little of what they have said. That gives me an idea of what they are like and if I want to include them in that list of people that I see a lot of.

Is there a reason as to why I shouldn't? If the quality of their post is a problem, well, I'd like to think that it doesn't really affect my discussions...does it? Also, I don't reply to every single discussion they make, and most of my friends are pretty selective people as well (or so I like to think). So I don't see a problem with accepting friendship requests; in fact, I welcome them. No harm in making more "friends".

whenever i receive a mylot friend request, and the username or avatar doesn't ring a bell or look familiar at all, i check them out first. i even go to a few of their discussions and other posts just to read what and how they write stuff. sometimes i even check out the friends in their list. just trying to find out if we have common friends (especially if they are new members of mylot without much posts to their name). i have approved all friend requests i received except for 1. that exception happened because he doesn't have friends in his list and not a single post to his name. and that was several months back. i check his number of posts every now and then, but just remained 0 over time. so i never got around to approving this 1 friend request. i guess when approving a friend request, i would want to at least see that the member has participated in mylot discussions. that would be at the bare minimum.

hey gitfiddleplayer Approve or deny of friends request depends upon lots of things. Before accepting friends request I first check their profile, certainly age, from where they belongs and many other criteria. pkc3000

With me it depends on what we have in common, age, etc. Doesn't make sense to have someone as a friend I don't have anything to talk about with

I always look at the person who has requested profile first and then look to see what discussions they have started and commented on to see if I could relate and answer to any of these myself. I also look to see if they have responded to any of my discussions or me theirs also else I wonder why I have suddenly received this request. I generally approve but there have been one or two I haven't. Youngsters don't bother me as long as they are over eighteen because sometimes I can relate to them through my own daughters who are 21 and 17. Ellie :D

I approve all friend request. It doesn't hurt anything, and if they say something that isn't right or make me made I just delete them. But I give everyone a chance.

Currently..M quite new here N my Friends List too seems to be very empty:( So currently..I jz accept all the friend requests that i am receivin:)

I approve most but if I see they are just here for junk, I delete them. I like having a lot because it helps me find discussions that I may not have found, otherwise.

i always approve it, theres nothing to lose anyway if you do, i dont realy know those who sent me the request and i usualy dont hear nothing from them other than the request but so what, hey you like checking out other peoples website, can you check out mine? please? and if you think its interesting, then join, they are going to pay in july, and thats just what, days away, the link is in my profile, ill try to add you as friend so you would check it out

yes, generally all. till date i have not denied any friend request. i even do not see at the profile. but sometimes its good when new friends reply to my discussion.

I approve all my friends.. I mean if they added you i think they have intentions of being good.. why seclude myself from the communnity and be a meanie??

I do not approve ever mylot request. im not here to add everyone that i dont know... im here to meet and talk about discussions i am comfortable talking about with people who have the same views, as well as people with other views. i dont not add anyone until i look through there disscussions and decide whether i can trust this person to have a civilized conversation i can deal with without feeling uncomfortable in the meantime.

I accept every single friend request cause i think i don't need to think either this person is good or not. Sometime I just don't like to think too much.

So far yes i have added everyone thats requested to be added. I have only had a few so far in the few days i've been on here. I may get more selective as time goes on though.

I pretty much add everyone who adds me. This is only my second day, but I don't think that I have room to be picky :p... I guess if my friend requests get out of hand one day I will have to start being selective. Until then, I'll still accept pretty much anyone. Is there anything wrong with that???