What will you do if a close friend gets mad at you?
By shanshyne9
@shanshyne9 (49)
Philippines
May 19, 2008 6:32pm CST
My friend since high school is mad at me. She said that I was inconsiderate for her feelings and did not even care about her. The only thing that I know I did to her was when I changed my number and did not tell her right away. well, I do have my reasons for doing so. I've been texting her almost everyday and I am not receiving any replies at all. I thought that she is not treating me as friend anymore. Now, she had find a way to put the blame on me. I already said sorry but she is not answering me. I know that I've been a good friend but I don't want to be blame for something that I did not do. What should I do?
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6 responses
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 May 08
Shanshyne, forget about that friend of yours! She is is so immature for behaving that way over petty thing and I think she does not deserve you. Just pray for her so that she will find the right way to treat friends like yours. I could very well see that you have done nothing wrong so why could she not understand your reason. She is a difficult person and continuing your relationship with her will only give you further problems. Look for better friends, there are many out there. God bless!
@shanshyne9 (49)
• Philippines
22 May 08
I have already thought about forgetting her but I don't want to be the bad guy again. But since she is avoiding me, it's better if I give her space and let her do her thing as long as she is not messing with my life again. Thanks for your advice salonga! See you around! :)
@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 May 08
its again something as misunderstanding. I can say i do not understand why guys do not think where it hurt more. when you changed the number and did not tell her, it hurt her so much. may be you texted her, but no you already hit where it pains most.now whatever you do, she is bound to be felt neglected.
One thing should i tell you? If you do not mind?
I think its more than friendship. Just listenwhat your heart says.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
24 May 08
let the wounds heal itself. i know at first this is difficult but letting the time to make her change is the best. i have friends also who get mad at me but i didn't return back what he did to me, until such time we meet again. she asking my forgiveness of what he did, of course i am not mad with him so we exchange immediately news about our doings and undertakings. don't mind the situation now. wait the exact time for you to be good again.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 May 08
Getting the silent treatment is a lot more hurtful than if she would just yell at you, isn't it?
I think you need to give her some space. You've told her your side of the story and I think you need to just give her some time to accept it.
And you may need to accept that there's a possibility that she won't...
@shanshyne9 (49)
• Philippines
20 May 08
yeah, I know that it is also possible that she will never forgive me. I just feel sad because I don't want to lose a friend like her. we've been together since high school and we've shared alot. Yeah, you're right. i need to give her the space she needs. Thanks for your help! see you around! :)
@crimsonshock (37)
• Philippines
20 May 08
Well well well, who do we have here? hehehehe Sometimes the people that we treat as really good friends are the ones who would turn away from us. But don't let her get you. If the two of you would have enough time to talk it out, hear her out, know her reasons for being mad at you. And since you've already said you're sorry, its no longer your problem and be burdened with it. Just give your friendship a lot of time and space. Soon she'll realize her loss of a wonderful girl like you! naks! yihiiii!
@shanshyne9 (49)
• Philippines
20 May 08
wow! Thank you for that wonderful advice! I am feeling good now because of what you've said. Thank you so much! I will surely do what you said. I won't let her get me again! hehehe...:)
@techsavvy999 (178)
• India
14 Feb 09
Try to explain your situation. Explain why did you changed you number and why you did not intimate her about this. Try to convince her what went wrong.
