do you choose your friend? when can you say that this person can be my friend?

Philippines
May 21, 2008 11:02pm CST
i am not a very choosey person i can get along with different types of person even if we do not have something in common i can get along with them just fine. all the people that i have met and come close with are treated as friends. Do you choose your friend or you can become friends with someone you have just met for the first time? share your experience guys^_^
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ayessa
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
30 May 08
I don't choose friends. I welcome everyone who wants to be my friends. But there are some times that I don't like the vibes on certain person, that is the time that I gave a warning to myself to be careful on that person. So far I haven't been wrong on my intuition.
ayessa
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
30 May 08
You're much welcome friend!
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
30 May 08
good for you..^_^ thanks for the comment my friend!!
HULYO
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
29 May 08
i am very flexible person but in terms of friendship i am very particular, although i meet many friends but few of them i considered a real friend, some of them are flowers only of my life that i didn't give my full trust.
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
30 May 08
hmmm..yeah there are really only few whom you can really trust and call your true friend..thanks for the comment.^_^
raijin
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
22 May 08
Not really that I choose, but I am just careful in doing this. Most of the times, I can relate and blend with people because I like to learn something new from them. And if we both find ourselves comfortable with each other, then a relationship starts -friendship, that is. But if they don't like me, then so am I and hopefully no loss for the both..
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
22 May 08
i also think there will be no loss because you dont like each other
wanghefei
@wanghefei (23)
• China
22 May 08
i choose my friend sometimes, but commonly i also can get along with different typers of person. only they do somthing to hurt me, i could choose them
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
22 May 08
oh that sad to hear. I do not like hurting my friends.
sissi320
@sissi320 (328)
• China
22 May 08
Yes,I choose my friends carefully. There is a saying a friend in deed is a friend in need. Friendship is very precious, and I treasure it. So all my friends have the common interest as me, and we can help each other whoever is in difficult.
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
22 May 08
yes they are indeed precious and a treasure to keep
Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 May 08
Yes, kaezy_kulet, I do choose my friend. It's nice to have many friends but make sure they are not bad influence. There is a saying that birds of the same feather flock together so beware of getting associated with people of bad reputation.
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
30 May 08
yeah..i to do believe in that saying..^_^
rirbry
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
i became friend with all kinds of people but after a few things that i know i dont like about them i will start avoiding them, i always got stabbed back by own friends that why if they starting to make something that annoy me i just leave them behind =0
kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
22 May 08
well yah that is'nt nice getting stabbed behind by your own friend.. thanks for posting^_^