Can some one help me with my shack-up-phobia to my dear girlfriend?

i can't give you any helpful suggestions coz i havn't shacked up with anyone to date.but in my opinion,to get along well together with anyone,you two should adapt each other in many areas and always respect others.

i suggest you should consult with her if she intend to get a job in your city. that's the point to decide if you have a independent live.of course,the fanance is not the sticking point of loving couples but a indenpendent living mode will be the base of love.keep liveing and keep the level of live when you relationship break down is a responsible attitude for each other.especially for male, we need more objective to think about everything upcoming happened.that's also the responsibility of us. goodluck!

Are you sure? I would suggest you talk to your gf and tell her that you are unsure if you are ready, and that you are worried about all the expenses and other things that comes with living together. Talk it over and be sure that you are clear on all of the expenses and how everything is going to be split before allowing her to move in. Be aware that women do have different bathroom and kitchen habits then men.

hei guys,come on,you should be more brave! fristly,talk with her,exchange your ideal of life. secondly,prepare some neccesary interesting thing then when you are boring ,you know what can you do?