Two Girls Are Hot????
By twoey68
@twoey68 (13627)
United States
May 23, 2008 10:11am CST
Theres a lot of controversy on homosexuals and the gay lifestyle. I don’t want to turn this discussion into a battle of who’s right and who’s wrong but there is something that I wonder about. I’ve noticed that whenever I talk to men…regardless of whom they are…one thing is always the same. They all say two women together is hot…two men together is gross. Why the double standard? I’m not saying either one is right but I do wonder why ppl seem to accept the women and not the men.
Personally, I don't like seeing either one so I guess it’s a good thing I’m not gay. I’m not going to jump into a big pool of my opinions on gays and all that besides most ppl here know how I feel about it. I just wondered why one seems to be acceptable and the other isn’t.
Do the men you know have the same outlook? What is your outlook on it? Why does one seem allright and the other doesn’t?
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18 responses
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
23 May 08
Yes, why is that?! Hubby will turn the channel quick as anything if a movie is moving toward two men getting affectionate/romantic.. but not as quickly if it's two women, but I will gently remind him of the double standard.. (as I don't really care to view it either, which must be somewhat of a "natural" reaction). I love gay folks and have friends or relatives of both sexes.. but too much display between them I find uncomfortable.. Don't like to see too much display of it between heterosexual couples either! But there's a certain amount of (I can't think of the right word) I hate to say, but revulsion, but isn't that natural too, as they say homosexuality is natural.. I hope no one gets angry at me! I don't believe in discriminating against, or disliking or being anything less than respectful to all people, and I love gay folks! I just see nothing wrong with a little honesty, instead of always having to say the acceptable and politically correct thing.. blessings!
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
23 May 08
I don't have a problem with anyone being homosexual. I do agree with the general sentiment - woman are prettier than guys and I would rather seem them naked LOL That has nothing to do with me being for or against gay men though. I am all for them being gay, I just don't want to see naked men (I have my hubby and that is about all my eye can take LOL)
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
23 May 08
That is because they probably have always had the fantasy about having two woman, But the idea of having two men is just unheard of in a straight guys life. I think even my hubby has thought that two woman is hot. Some woman even straight have thought that also, two woman with one man. But it is different if it was two males and one woman, they possibly be a fight. Alot of men have doube standards they like a clean house but won't help in keeping it that way, Men are strange sometimes I think that is is more acceptable in society to see girls on girls maybe because it is happening allover the world in strip joints and television so it just becaomes more natural and acceptable to see.I also think that since alot of men have fantasies about it that the accept it more because if they thought it preverted then they would then be preverted and so they accept it as normal instead of being preverted.. confused yet? I just about confused myself..lol.
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@nannacroc (4049)
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23 May 08
I feel that both are unnatural but find two women even more disgusting than two men.
Having said that I know people who are gay and as long as they keep their private life private I have become friends with a couple of gay men.
@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
12 Jun 08
I've always wondered the same thing!! And once i was joking around with hubby, and told him, ok, we could have a threesome..he said really? although knowing i was kidding...then i said, with another guy! He said NEVER!!!!!!!! which comes back to the same thing...two women would've been hot, but two guys no! I guess cuz two women together is a fantasy most men have, like that of a threesome with two women, instead not many men fantasize about having a threesome with another man.
@Destiny007 (5805)
• United States
23 May 08
For me, when I see two girls together I am looking at the girls and two is better than one.
Of course then I think threesome and sandwich and yeah... that seems kinda hot...
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 May 08
Of course straight men would find two women hot. It is double of what they like.And if a guy is straight, he wouldn't be into men period.I have seen two men and it is hot. I am straight so it double of what I like. But I can see two women being hot too.
@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
8 Jun 08
My personal stance - most people are ignorant and insecure.
My brother (who is a homophobe and complete bigot) once told me why this is true - I don't agree with him, but I don't care. He says that what 2 women do together isn't very different from what a man and a woman can do together. He says that what two men do together is just wrong. That's his perspective. And that's the perspective of a bigot, homophobe, and i suspect someone who has latent homosexual tendencies - because he spends way too much time thinking about it.
My husband's take on it... because the 15 year old in him thinks that maybe, just maybe, if 2 girls are kissing, they may ask him to join them. That's what he thinks is hot - the distant possibility that both girls would want to be with him.
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
24 May 08
That's a very good questions. I personally didn't know people felt this way.
I don't mind gays as long as they don't hit on me, because I'm not.
They have their preference and I have mine. What they want to do with their life is up to them. As I do with mine.
I have had neighbors that were gay, females. And they are really nice ladies. Very friendly and good neighbors. Just as you would expect from any person.
They have the same needs and problems as the rest of us.
I also use to know a male person that was gay. He was at conflict with himself. Not knowing what to be. He finally married.
I just try to treat everyone a person first. Be good to me and I'll be good to you.
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
24 May 08
I've heard it said that mean find the idea of two women to be a huge turn-on but I don't get it. I does seem like a double standard, doesn't it? I guess guys like to look at undressed women no matter what they're doing...lol. Myself, either makes me feel uncomfortable, not because I'm against homosexuality, I just don't really feel comfortable watching them.
Annie
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
24 May 08
I guess it depends on who's viewing who? If they are man naturally they wanted to see two woman and if tey're gay well like I said it might be different