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ShannyBananny @shaggin (72125) • United States 15 Nov 11

So my mother told me that although she knows my boyfriend does not like kids and I dont want men around my kids that my boyfriend is welcome to come with me to Christmas dinner if I want him to. I told him and he didnt react very...

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moondancer Mine did as well and all they had was me but I can tell you I wished so many times that they had had a man in their life as a role model to look up to and to do things with. I was all they had as we didn't live near any of our family. It was hard for all of us...

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Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 16 Nov 11

A week ago my mother in law passed away. The hubs and I went to Alberta immediately to see to the arrangements and get a date for the service. My MIL wanted to be cremated and her ashes buried with her mother back in Ontario. The...

respect in death

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moondancer Oh hun, I'm so sorry to hear about your MIL, you should have called me or written. I am here for you any time you need to talk you know this. I feel bad that I wasn't there for you. I feel so bad that you both had to go through that fiasco. It's so sad how...

17 Nov 11

ShannyBananny @shaggin (72125) • United States 15 Nov 11

So my mother told me that although she knows my boyfriend does not like kids and I dont want men around my kids that my boyfriend is welcome to come with me to Christmas dinner if I want him to. I told him and he didnt react very...

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moondancer I know what you mean and I know about their father. That is a hard thing to lose ones father at sure a young age. I feel for them. I do hope that you have other men for them to spend time in their lives with them though like grandfather and uncles. They just...

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fjclolazy @fjclolazy (859) • China 14 Sep 11

Hi,my dear friends! Today I want to talk about myself.I'm not kidding now.I wake up and think about many things.My friends called me:Hey,I will get marry next month.Ok.I felt happy first,but then I felt sad for myself.I even...

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moondancer I do have lots of good days with my little boys but I do still miss my big boy. He helped to raise the 3 small ones so I know they also miss him. They changed a good bit in the way they do things since he left us. Especially the youngest one misses him. He has...

16 Nov 11

ShannyBananny @shaggin (72125) • United States 15 Nov 11

So my mother told me that although she knows my boyfriend does not like kids and I dont want men around my kids that my boyfriend is welcome to come with me to Christmas dinner if I want him to. I told him and he didnt react very...

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moondancer I'm sorry hun but I can see trouble already. He is not open minded enough to know that not all "families" are bad. Not all families have problems, not all families are dysfunctional. Just because he and his family don't get along does not mean others are the...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 14 Nov 11

So, I told my sister in law I could not come to her daughters baby shower. She was really mad. For those who did not see the other convo. She never talks to me until it's close to the holiday. This is her daughters 3rd baby....

baby shower

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moondancer Good for you! Stick to your guns and know when to let them down just a bit. But never throw aside completely what you believe in. It's okay for the sake of another to set something aside for a moment but never stomp on your values in the process. Your MIL was...

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ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 14 Nov 11

I want to thank everyone for their prayers & well wishes since i have been sick & in the hospital. I love all my friends on Mylot & have missed not being on here much but hope to get back more soon.Thanks cynthi for starting the...

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moondancer It's good to see you back. I do so much hope you are doing better. I know only too well that healing does take time. I know you miss being able to get online if you are anything like me and so many others so you get on even though you truly don't feel up to...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 14 Nov 11

So, I told my sister in law I could not come to her daughters baby shower. She was really mad. For those who did not see the other convo. She never talks to me until it's close to the holiday. This is her daughters 3rd baby....

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moondancer I would have told her that "IF SHE" has put something affordable on the list of needed and wanted items and had not thrown the invitation AT me then I probably would have bought something and would have felt welcome to go! Then I would have turned on my heels...

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ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63594) • United States 14 Nov 11

Did you know SEARS hires wussie boys for deliveries and repairs? Two guys showed up. They took the water hose off the back of the old fridge then drove away - whining about the "bad smell." We spent all bloody weekend...

bad service

cowards

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moondancer When I first moved into my home in Tennessee I got an air conditioner for the house from Sears that's when I found out they hire the job out to a contractor and I got charged twice what the would have cost with anyone else so I learned a hard lesson. I will...

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mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 9 Nov 11

I just got the second ticket of my life. With all the crime out there today, this cop had to give me a ticket while I wasn't even moving! Okay, here's what happened. I was out shopping in a strip mall with my son today. I...

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moondancer Oh I've seen the cops breaking the laws that are written, many many times but they think they have the right to do so I guess. But they DON'T!!!!!! lol

14 Nov 11

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 9 Nov 11

I just got the second ticket of my life. With all the crime out there today, this cop had to give me a ticket while I wasn't even moving! Okay, here's what happened. I was out shopping in a strip mall with my son today. I...

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moondancer You have certainly done your homework and the judge will be impressed, they love it when someone has researched what they are there for. Take all of what you have and state your case. I bet you get off. The officer will be there they are suppose to be and they...

14 Nov 11

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 9 Nov 11

I just got the second ticket of my life. With all the crime out there today, this cop had to give me a ticket while I wasn't even moving! Okay, here's what happened. I was out shopping in a strip mall with my son today. I...

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moondancer I am so glad to hear you are in the right. Yes, many cops do take advantage of their position especially the new ones. Oh I could just slap the crap out of them. The way they act and carry themselves. They puff out their chest...

14 Nov 11

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 9 Nov 11

I just got the second ticket of my life. With all the crime out there today, this cop had to give me a ticket while I wasn't even moving! Okay, here's what happened. I was out shopping in a strip mall with my son today. I...

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moondancer Well first of all I would go online and see if I could find an officer and ask him or her. Getting an officers opinion may help clear it up for you. This happened to my first husband once...he sort of stopped at a stop sign according to the officer. He...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 10 Nov 11

Have you ever written anything fictional that has come true? I have on a couple of occasions and it has really crippled me about writing. In my younger years I wrote a series of poems and they have all pretty much come...

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moondancer I understand, you need enough info to know what you need to do. I have kept my husband, my cousin, his pregnant wife and myself pregnant at the time from all dying in an accident so yes I'd say it's worth messing with fate at times Joni. But like I said most...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 10 Nov 11

Have you ever written anything fictional that has come true? I have on a couple of occasions and it has really crippled me about writing. In my younger years I wrote a series of poems and they have all pretty much come...

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moondancer I don't write poems about them but I do "see" things that are going to happen. I can can things sometimes if it's going to be a bad thing by doing something to change it. My family and friends have known I "know" things that will happen by seeing them in...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 8 Nov 11

I have a sister in law who only talks to me when it is getting close to the holidays. Each year we have Thanksgiving at my husband's uncle's house and then we trade off on hosting Christmas. Well, I have tried to be a part of...

baby shower

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moondancer In that case it seems there is nothing you can do. You have tried and it does no good. Why put yourself out like that just to have to deal with her and her petty idiosyncrasies? I wouldn't do it. Like your husband says, just leave it be and don't go or get...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 8 Nov 11

I have a sister in law who only talks to me when it is getting close to the holidays. Each year we have Thanksgiving at my husband's uncle's house and then we trade off on hosting Christmas. Well, I have tried to be a part of...

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moondancer What I would do is try to get in with her daughter ans see where that goes since she really shows no sign of truly wanting to let you in the group. I'd try to instill my way in and take a gift to the mom and tell her that her mom threw the invite at you, so...

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syoti20 @syoti20 (5292) • Philippines 8 Nov 11

I was in my big brothers place. I visit him today. I was taking a bath there when I heard a voice in my neighbor that are calling for help. She was bitten and the male is saying bad word against that poor woman. I want to report...

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moondancer I commend you for wanting to help the woman as not many would want to get involved. Here we would call the authorities, or police. I will do it. I have even went to the house and knocked on the door or yelled that I am calling the authorities, that will...

8 Nov 11

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 2 Nov 11

I like to write. I have been told all of my life that I should write a book. And I have always wanted to. Thing is, I can't figure out what to write about. They say to write about what you know. And so,I dwell on that and I...

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moondancer I think that writing about your life's trials and tribulations is a good thing and if lessons are there for others to learn from then all the better. Some people can sit down and write a book in a few weeks and other take years so it's not how long it takes...

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Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 2 Nov 11

I get bored very easily and so I have decided to learn more new things each year. I set my goal of at least 2 new things every year. And most of the time it's in the arts and craft lines. This year I have added a little bit of...

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moondancer Well, in my opinion you are right. I have always said if I learn one new thing everyday it's been a good day. What I mean by this is anything I may not have known if I find out something new, the meaning of a word, a new word and how to use it anything useful...

2 Nov 11

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