I'm still a single lady!Whose fault?

I'm sure it's not that you have any problems. You are a lovely lady. You are picky about who you are with and you should be. Don't settle just to have someone around. I was 34 before I found my Mr. Right. We have been together all this time. I'm glad I let my life go along as I did. I focused on my job and doing what I needed to so I would have what I wished to have and needed. I did not wish to rush into another relationship after being married and having 3 children. I lived for my children and my job. That was it until I met the man I'm married to. Many people rush into married or relationships and they don't work out. Take your time, get your life the way you wish it to be financially and get a house for you, if you wish. Make all things happen for you now because when people get married their needs change and many times they let what they want go to the side and never do what they wanted to do. Women mostly do this because they start living for what their husband wants, or boyfriend. May I suggest that you travel and work and have a good time in life and do things you'd love to do. Your friends can get married, that's okay. Your day will come and you'll be happy for that and be happy that you had time for yourself and did things you wished to do before that. I don't know what kind of work you do but maybe you can travel with it to other countries too. If your friends ask you again why you don't have anyone...tell them because you aren't ready yet. That in your own time when you have done things you wish to do then you will settle down. You have plenty of time to find someone to be in your life. I wouldn't worry about it. You are in University still aren't you? Finish your schooling and make a good life for yourself and enjoy your time you have to yourself. Then later in life you can say, at least I did this or that and I had a life of my own for awhile.

Well, first off you are a very pretty girl. Second, you are young yet. Don't stress over finding the right person or getting married. Enjoy your life right now. Believe me, I have been through the mill and it is not nice. I would love to go backwards and change everything. Let your friends get married, watch them and see, learn. It will change how you think. I personally like a girl that is pretty but has to have substance. Meaning, I do not like air heads. I like a woman that I can talk to, have fun with and joke around with. In essence, a real person. I found my real person and I am happy now.

There is nothing wrong with you. You are amazing and you will get the right person, you just have to make some premeditated socializing.

Hi, Do you think that you are old aged to get into an affair. As long as you are busy in studies and just got into the college life. I think you have a good time ahead and there is someone to like you and vice versa. I hope the avatar is your only and I found anything wrong in the photo of yours and you look beautiful as well. Are you really disappointed as you don't have someone to love? I think no need. You are still young and when you get matured enough to be in with an affair, it automatically happens. When you saw someone and feel like make him your partner, it works out. Similarly, when a boy sees you and he feel that you are the girl made for him and he looks at you or looks in your eyes thinking in such a way, it will get transformed or translated into your eyes and mind, the line is getting fully drawn. In such a way the desire among both of you will start and by Nature's choice you both are the one to be live together, it happens. In other way, someone comes to know about you and their parents or a broker proposes with a boy and it will get in progress, when all are get fulfilled, the marriage takes place. But in your case I still tell you that don't get disappointed or frustrated. You looks so young and low in age as you are in college and busy on studies. So, it is my request you to concentrate more on studies and come up with a better results. It will make you more fame and more in demand and need. So, there is a handsome boy for you somewhere and when the time comes up, he will appear in front of you and hold your and and will fly on high ..... Best of luck, Thank-s

Don't rush into any relationship, girl. Just let it flow on its own. Maybe your time has not come yet for you to meet the perfect Mr Right. Don't worry, you are a very pretty girl, I'm sure you will meet someone soon.

Correct me if I am wrong here, do you want to marry? I asked it because i checked your profile and you look very young to be thinking about marriages. Don't you want to enjoy your youth and enjoy the privileges being single for a while. NOw, if you want is just to be in a relationship, then I think it won't be long before you land into one. I took the liberty of looking to your photos and you are not ugly. I tell you, you are still above average. Maybe just a little more socialization, meet new friends and soon enough you will meet your "Mr. Right".

I understand how you feel. I'm the last to get married among my college friends. Some of my cousins younger than me get married way earlier than me. My aunts never failed to ask me before when will I get married in every occasions. It is a bit annoying considering I am single back then. I've felt a lot of pressure but I don't want to have a boyfriend just because I wanted to. I want to have someone to be with me because I enjoy being with him and not because I'm getting older and needs to get married. I'm glad I've waited and didn't give in to the pressure. I am now married to a very sweet and caring guy. Someone is out there for you. You will either find the right love in the right time or it will find you.

First of all being single is not a fault. There nothing WRONG with being single. Im single and loving it. As for you maybe you just havent met the right person yet. Relax and enjoy your life as it is now. If you rush into a relationship or God forbid marriage it could be a big disaster. So as long as you are free and single ENJOY!!!

Being a single is something precious, you should enjoy your single life more. You are still young, why so worry about tying yourself with commitments. From your photo, you have a pretty look, so I guess there are quite many are queuing up after you, I think you must be quite choosy or elegant or you always show cold shoulder to guys, that is why all guys are afraid of you.

I am single too and I don't know if it's my fault or not. I have this friend who tells me I don't give enough chances to love. He tells me I push away people who show interest in me, which might have some truth in it. Anyway there was this friend of mine who I fancied. I like him, but more than that I liked our friendship. I was scared my confession would ruin everything so I just kept it to myself. It's been couple of years now but lately I haven been reminded of him. I don't know why everything is back, it so eats me up and pisses me at the same time. I have no idea what is happening. Anyway I hope you can find your Mr. Right soon. I have heard, you meet them when you least expect them. Good luck

Don't worry about having no boyfriend since there a lot of advantages of being a single like you have your own freedom to choose your boyfriend and best thing about single is you are not committed to anyone. Time will come you will find your Mr. Right or Mr. Clean =D

dont blame your self, dont blame the situation but for while take a rest for thinking wwhy you still single, ask your self....

Hello friend, Im older than you but im too shy to mention my age hahaha. But Im still single and everyone around me is annoying me with question when are you going to get married. All my friends and cousins who is as age as me or younger than me already married and has kids. If i dont get married soon, my parent is going to arrange me a marriage with someone I dont know if my parent is joking or they are being serious. I still love my x-bf and he still loves me but we cant be together because we have so many problems but I have a crush with another guy hahaha I wish my parent arranged me with my crush. So you are still young, you need to enjoy your time, dont worry you will find him at the right time.

You do look lovely and I'm sure one day, when you least expect things, you will probably meet someone you like much and they will probably feel the same for you. But some things do take time and some things are fated *smile* and maybe then you will be quite busy with your new relationship then

I hope that you don't think bad about yourself because you aren't married. I know that in some cultures it is considered to be unacceptable if a girl doesn't marry, but you should really follow your heart. If you don't find "the right guy" you shouldn't just go and marry someone just to make someone else happy. I never married and I'm 51 now. I never had kids and now I can't since I had a hysterectomy at 43 because of ovarian cancer. But I know that I will never go through the heartache of a divorce like what my brother and sister went through. If you are happy with your life then don't let what other people do have a negative effect on your feelings. I'm sure when the time is right that you will find the right guy and then you will be happy. Have a great weekend!!!

Do not rush into marriage before you're ready. If you feel that you need to get married because everyone around you is, then that is not a good reason to be married. Where marriage is concerned you need to be patient to find the right one for yourself. But sometimes what you're looking for may be right in front of you.

Same with me, except with me it's 1) a lack of aggressiveness on my part (I'm not "trying to be used by the system" enough) and 2) a lack of aggressiveness on the world's part (no one out there is "needing me to be used" enough). I don't know enough about your situation to say exactly, but I'm guessing that 1) you're not aggressive enough and 2) the world isn't demonstrating its need for you enough.

Hi fjclolazy! You reminded me of my friend who is annoyed with some of her friends and acquaintances about her status. Yes, like you she is still single. She is in her late 30s. I understand why you felt a little sad upon hearing some of your friends are tying the knot. I have another friend who wrote and told me that sometimes, she felt so alone because most of her friends are married and they cannot go out and hang out like they use to. So, you are not alone. There are many who felt alone and sad sometimes when they are still single. But I think you have a strong personality. I admire the way you handle your singlehood or single blessedness. If you really want to settle down, then, there is no need to rush. Love will find you, all you need is a lot of patience. Maybe you haven't met the right man for you, your soul mate. Just wait and be patient and I'm sure you are going to meet him soon!

Hello my sweet friend,how are U there? I too m still single and no need to be in a hurry to find yourself a boy friend or soul mate. Your another half will come along sooner or later..As for myself I too m looking for 1..hihi,so got any1 to introduce to me..ha ha ha..just joking. maybe U ought to ask your friends to introduce some nice or good looking young men to U..

hey?? don't worry you are not the only one experiencing this kind of situation. I even do not have boyfriend since birth. But I do not blame myself. Just believe in God's plan. And try to dress up. Be who you really are and be patient.. And lastly, list the things that you like in a guy. It's nice to know what kind of person you really like and it's good to know what are your standards are. From there, you would have the basis in looking for THE ONE. Good luck in looking for him girl. Wish you all the best!