moondancer

@moondancer (7431)

United States • Age 68

Joined myLot 17 years ago

everything happens for a reason and what goes around comes around

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A Question of Propriety

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 16 Nov 11

A week ago my mother in law passed away. The hubs and I went to Alberta immediately to see to the arrangements and get a date for the service. My MIL wanted to be cremated and her ashes buried with her mother back in Ontario. The...

respect in death

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moondancer Oh hun, I'm so sorry to hear about your MIL, you should have called me or written. I am here for you any time you need to talk you know this. I feel bad that I wasn't there for you. I feel so bad that you both had to go through that fiasco. It's so sad how...

17 Nov 11

How would you feel if your boyfriend told you he would NEVER meet your family?

ShannyBananny @shaggin (72204) • United States 15 Nov 11

So my mother told me that although she knows my boyfriend does not like kids and I dont want men around my kids that my boyfriend is welcome to come with me to Christmas dinner if I want him to. I told him and he didnt react very...

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moondancer I'm sorry hun but I can see trouble already. He is not open minded enough to know that not all "families" are bad. Not all families have problems, not all families are dysfunctional. Just because he and his family don't get along does not mean others are the...

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Thank you.

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 14 Nov 11

I want to thank everyone for their prayers & well wishes since i have been sick & in the hospital. I love all my friends on Mylot & have missed not being on here much but hope to get back more soon.Thanks cynthi for starting the...

love

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moondancer It's good to see you back. I do so much hope you are doing better. I know only too well that healing does take time. I know you miss being able to get online if you are anything like me and so many others so you get on even though you truly don't feel up to...

14 Nov 11

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update on the Baby Shower mess

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 14 Nov 11

So, I told my sister in law I could not come to her daughters baby shower. She was really mad. For those who did not see the other convo. She never talks to me until it's close to the holiday. This is her daughters 3rd baby....

baby shower

sister in law

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moondancer I would have told her that "IF SHE" has put something affordable on the list of needed and wanted items and had not thrown the invitation AT me then I probably would have bought something and would have felt welcome to go! Then I would have turned on my heels...

14 Nov 11

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Bad Service!

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63643) • United States 14 Nov 11

Did you know SEARS hires wussie boys for deliveries and repairs? Two guys showed up. They took the water hose off the back of the old fridge then drove away - whining about the "bad smell." We spent all bloody weekend...

bad service

cowards

sears

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moondancer When I first moved into my home in Tennessee I got an air conditioner for the house from Sears that's when I found out they hire the job out to a contractor and I got charged twice what the would have cost with anyone else so I learned a hard lesson. I will...

14 Nov 11

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Is "No parking" the same as "No stopping"?

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 9 Nov 11

I just got the second ticket of my life. With all the crime out there today, this cop had to give me a ticket while I wasn't even moving! Okay, here's what happened. I was out shopping in a strip mall with my son today. I...

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moondancer Well first of all I would go online and see if I could find an officer and ask him or her. Getting an officers opinion may help clear it up for you. This happened to my first husband once...he sort of stopped at a stop sign according to the officer. He...

14 Nov 11

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Have You Had This Happen

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 10 Nov 11

Have you ever written anything fictional that has come true? I have on a couple of occasions and it has really crippled me about writing. In my younger years I wrote a series of poems and they have all pretty much come...

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moondancer I don't write poems about them but I do "see" things that are going to happen. I can can things sometimes if it's going to be a bad thing by doing something to change it. My family and friends have known I "know" things that will happen by seeing them in...

10 Nov 11

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What to Do

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 8 Nov 11

I have a sister in law who only talks to me when it is getting close to the holidays. Each year we have Thanksgiving at my husband's uncle's house and then we trade off on hosting Christmas. Well, I have tried to be a part of...

baby shower

gifts

users

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moondancer What I would do is try to get in with her daughter ans see where that goes since she really shows no sign of truly wanting to let you in the group. I'd try to instill my way in and take a gift to the mom and tell her that her mom threw the invite at you, so...

8 Nov 11

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I want to report a Mental and PhysicalHarrassment for Women

syoti20 @syoti20 (5292) • Philippines 8 Nov 11

I was in my big brothers place. I visit him today. I was taking a bath there when I heard a voice in my neighbor that are calling for help. She was bitten and the male is saying bad word against that poor woman. I want to report...

harass

report

woman

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moondancer I commend you for wanting to help the woman as not many would want to get involved. Here we would call the authorities, or police. I will do it. I have even went to the house and knocked on the door or yelled that I am calling the authorities, that will...

8 Nov 11

Writers Block

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 2 Nov 11

I like to write. I have been told all of my life that I should write a book. And I have always wanted to. Thing is, I can't figure out what to write about. They say to write about what you know. And so,I dwell on that and I...

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moondancer I think that writing about your life's trials and tribulations is a good thing and if lessons are there for others to learn from then all the better. Some people can sit down and write a book in a few weeks and other take years so it's not how long it takes...

2 Nov 11

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Learning new Things

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 2 Nov 11

I get bored very easily and so I have decided to learn more new things each year. I set my goal of at least 2 new things every year. And most of the time it's in the arts and craft lines. This year I have added a little bit of...

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moondancer Well, in my opinion you are right. I have always said if I learn one new thing everyday it's been a good day. What I mean by this is anything I may not have known if I find out something new, the meaning of a word, a new word and how to use it anything useful...

2 Nov 11

I'm having issues with the computer!

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63643) • United States 30 Oct 11

So, I was drinking some iced tea and manged to spill it. Most went on the floor, down my front, and on to the chair, but some got on my keyboard tray and suddenly I'm having issues!x xx Take those 'x' for example... that's what...

keyboard

water

wet keyboardx

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moondancer We usually take a hair blow dryer and put it on low and dry the components. It still may still now and then because tea is sticky. I wish you good luck with it being better when it dries.

31 Oct 11

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How can anyone afford it??? I'm talking about Medicare Part D

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 29 Oct 11

I've been seeing commercials about Walmart's Medicare Part D plan through Humera. I decided to check it out since they made it sound like it was such a fantastic plan for those on Medicare. First of all, you MUST be on Part B...

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moondancer My mom checked them out and the one that works for her because of her medicines is Humana. I think they are all expensive no matter who you go through but this one was the least in cost she could find for her needs.

29 Oct 11

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Living and enjoying life!

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 29 Oct 11

Hi, everyone! I am back again! I hope that you all are doing fine. Life is forever changing with me. Right now, I am visiting my in-law's and I will be leaving from here, possibly by today. Plus, I will be moving to...

changes update

living and enjoying life

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moondancer Hi cream I'm glad things are coming together for you. Take care and many blessings to you and your family dear.

29 Oct 11

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How do you make friends now

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 28 Oct 11

I am finding myself in a friendless situation practically. Most of my friends were work friends. I worked so much that I had little social life. My job took me to another state for a while and when I came back most of my work...

clubs

friends

meeting

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moondancer I was a work-a-holic and worked 12 hrs 7 days a week so I had no time for making friends outside of work. Then when my body said no more work, it just gave out. I had no one, no friends ans no family around. Most of my friends were online and still are. I...

28 Oct 11

How Do You Cope

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 28 Oct 11

I am wondering how other people cope with their anxiety attacks? Sometimes I wake p with them. I hate it because they are so unpredictable. And it gives me social anxiety as well. People don't understand it. They say it's all in...

anxiety attacks

fear

social anxiety

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moondancer I have always tried to focus on something anything...go do something that is a nice and good thing to do not something I have to do but something I would like to do or enjoy doing. For the last few years I even put me a slot in my calender to do something for...

28 Oct 11

What do you do when someone tells you "why don't you drop dead?"

Joni @joni1215 (394) • United States 22 Oct 11

Life has been very stressful for us for a while. I have gone through a lot of personal trauma in the last few years. My husband is emotionally vacant for me most of the time. We have a very unusual relationship or at least I think...

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moondancer joni I feel bad for you. I have been in the same situation before and it's not an easy place to be. How long have you been with your husband? The reason for asking is if you have been with him for over 10 years then he would have to give you spousal support....

22 Oct 11

New Volunteering Opportunity

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 19 Oct 11

So, I used to volunteer for a dog/cat rescue, but since I have started working nights again, and going to school full time, I have not had the time to do anything for them. And now I'm working the nights that we have our volunteer...

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moondancer Recues are happy for anything anyone wishes to do in the form of help. They understand that you just can't make it there now as you are trying to better your life as well as making a living. You have no reason to feel bad about this although, I know you will....

19 Oct 11

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