When someone doesnt give up

I agree with most here. Theres' no block button, so just leave it pending. I have one pending. I keep checking with her posts and discussions. She presents herself like an airhead, and that's not what I'm here for. If her discussions pick up and she has something substantial to say, I'll approve, if not she'll stay in the pending list.

You will not leave just like I won't because guess what and that is all I am saying to you Sweetie you can guess So you will just sit tight here with me ok And you will just leave it there now as you say they can't request again I am having the same prob starting today so Sweetie we are together Love you Hugs xxxxxx

Maybe he or she is an angel coming to you with heaven music to play.... I am with you. No more trouble. Once again, I think that people are confused with Mylot and social networking site. HUGS

Terry non, I had that happen some time ago, and I knew it was a person that had been banned, I finally just gave up as you are doing and left it up there, eventually they got bored and left me alone, and I think left mylot again cause I have not seen that particular nick around any longer. Another problem I have is with young Asian men with whom I have nothing in common with and do not want to have them in my list, sometimes they are persistent. I have added them long enough to type off a PM telling them I have no interest, and then delete them.

From now on i don't have a guts to ask you to be my friend...

Being new here, I just can't see why some people would want to stir trouble for you. I have only a small handful in my friends list. I have only requested to be a friend to someone once and that was after I responded to a few of their discussions. I like what they write about so I asked to be included on their list. They accepted and I was very happy for that. A block or ignore button would be a great asset to myLot it seems. I'm sorry for your trouble and hope they get bored quickly and leave you alone so you can enjoy this site as you deserve to do.

That's one of the good things about Yuwie! You can block people and it seems that this option is desperately needed here on Mylot, I hope that Mylot take note although I won't hold my breath, we shouldn't be hounded, there is such as thing as privacy and being able to block people should be an option on here, it works well on Yuwie and it stops the nastiness, the trolls and the stalkers, we should be able to enjoy these sites not have mindless idiots who's only enjoyment is to hound and harrass others. I would drop a line to HQ sweetie and if you want me to I will to as well and I will explain to them that it works well on other social networks, this is not on!!!

I have had a few people try again and again to get me to confirm their request for friendship. I ignore them for a while and eventually deny them. What triggers my decision to deny is what discussions they start or comment on. I agree with Wolfie about the ignore/block button. It would be beneficial to everyone on MyLot as well.

this is happening to my sister but not in this site in another friend gaining site. some of her friends during college days that she was not even close with are very noisy about it. they even send messages to my sisters friends and asking what is wrong why does my sister dont accept their request. just like you my sister is really pissed of with that kind of attitude. why dont they just read between the lines. it is more painful to say it right to their faces. my sister just ignore it. maybe they will stop bugging her if she ignores it. because if she accepts it the bugging will not end it will be just the start.

wow! I never thought someone will be that persistent! I have not tried that but for me better to ignore it and hopefully like yahoo, there is a way to block the person from your list so that his/her request will never reach you!

If I were you, I would report it to the Mylot administration. That sounds like harrassment to me. You do not have to accept anyone as a friend that you do not choose to. There have been many times when people have requsted my friendship and I have had to deny them. Sometimes I feel really bad, but I do have standards when choosing friends on here. As a matter of fact, you just reminded me that there is a guy that I need to delete from my friend's list. He responded to one of my discussions and contradicted me about my beliefs and I had to go behind him and correct what he said. With friends, I do not want to have to do this. At the very least, you should just leave that person on your request list, so they don't keep harrassing you.

Honey other people can still put in friendship requests even if you have one sitting there - I have 4 waiting at the moment as they have not posted or responded to anything since they put in a request several weeks ago - I think that is the best way to deal with someone who just keeps putting a request in and will not take a hint! I do hope they are reading this and I also hope they will now leave you alone! Please do not let them drive you away as you have many, many friends here! Hugs xxx

Some people just can't take a hint! I think you are doing the right thing by just igorning the request now because if you say no again they will most likely just ask you again. Sorry you are having trouble with someoone. Its to bad that mylot does not have something where the person can't ask more than once like a block or something.

This is only the second social networking site I have visited and I saw this same kind of thing on the other one and I don't really understand it, maybe someone here can explain it to me. You say this person cannot be trusted..Trusted with what? What motivates some people to exclude others from their friends list? What motivates some people to insist that they be included on other peoples friends list? I'm not sure if I am missing some valid point to any of it but just in case I thought I'd ask you all.

Sorry this is happening to you, terry. I wish there was a way to block friend requests. Hopefully this perosn will give up and leave you alone!

I have not had that happen to me yet Terry. I hope they have stopped bothering since you posted this.

Sounds like someone is really trying to start trouble for you again, Terry. I would just leave it as a request so the person can't keep asking. Maybe contact mylot about it but may not do any good.

The problem is your such a sweetie! who could resist that baby puppy? Well just ignore these people they will give up, they will find someone else to bother?

hi, TerryZ, please dont leave myLot just for that person. Ignore it and don't reply to his/her request anymore. Or, I suggest you to report that user to mylot administrator. And request to ban the person. Hope this help you.

never hapend to me before, im new here, but i always acept frends invite, but like in most sites that im in, after acepting it, i hear nothing from them anymore