Do other MyLot members make mean remarks about you for no reason?

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Do you always respond to mean remarks from other MyLot members? Have you ever had another MyLot member say something mean about you? Maybe they showed up at one of your discussions and just dropped a rude bomb-shell on you, out of the blue. And, you wondered, what the heck was that all about? Did you strike back and defend yourself? Did you let the remark go? Recently, that happened to me. Some MyLot members get really upset when they think I'm just posting and running off. They think just because I post quantity, that I'm not taking time to update. Not true! Of course, the officials at MyLot have never complained. And, to those people, who say these things, I have one thing to say. Don't judge me until you've lived my life. I'm dealing with my own stuff, too. They don't understand that I have a life and am a busy full time mom and I don't have time to hang out on MyLot, all day. My kid needs me too. She is my number one priority. And, I won't apologize for that. I am not retired with kids in college. I don't have a stay at home spouse who takes care of my kid. I'm not a teen, so my mom doesn't take care of me. It's all on my shoulders. My situation is not much different than many other moms who hold down a full time job and still care for everyone in the household, too. Except my paying and non-paying job is based at home. If I don't work, then I don't get paid. I try to update discussions as often as I can. Most times, that's usually around midnight, just before I fall over into bed, after a twenty hour work/Mom day. I can cover 20 or 30 discussion updates in a hour. But honestly, not every response is worthy of counter response, especially when people are being mean or spiteful. And, honestly, you don't get paid for updating your discussions constantly. I've been here a year. And, I've tried it out. And, that's what I've found. You get more pay for posting insightful and intelligent (or funny and thought provoking) discussions that other people respond to. But, you have to post a lot of them. Some people don't like the idea that they're not making a dollar per discussion. Well, noone pays a dollar per discussion. And, if they do, send me the link. The reason that I update discussions is not to increase pay. I update my discussions simply because I love talking with friends online. Or, at least people that act friendly. And, I want them to drop by again. And, the mean remarks? Well, I just skip right over those comments and move on to people who really deserve an answer. Those mean responses are certainly not worthy of my time. What did I ever do to justify anyone's spite? I wish those people would just get a life. How do you handle rude or mean remarks that other people make about you while on MyLot? Do you face them head on? Do you rant? What do you do?