Is it Easy for you to forgive to people who hurts you?

I may be able to forgive...but I don't ever forget.

Hi celestial, Forgiveness is often very difficult, but also very necessary. I feel that it depends on how great the hurt is. If someone says something that hurts my feelings, their just saying sorry is enough for me to forgive them immediately. However, if someone spreads vicious and completely untrue rumours about me, and refuses to say that thy are sorry, it is more difficult. Becoming angry, and holding a grudge can be very bad for your health, that's why forgiveness is so necessary. Many people think they are hurting the person that they are angry at, but such is not the case. We hurt only ourselves when we refuse to forgive. Blessings.

Well, the way I handle hurts are of two ways. First if I get hurt I will have to talk to them on the spot and if the fault is their, then I will have to scold them and clear out my mind.Then after than I am clear and I can forgive and forget them and will have a normal behavior. Secondly, if I couldn't talk or scold the other person, grudge remains in me and could not forgive till the time I talk or scold them. But which ever is the way, main thing is to talk to that person and take out my grudge in words. So, I think most of the people are of that kind. It may take time but all depends upon the situations.

Fore me , its really not easy to forgive any one , who has hurt me at least once in my life . I always believe in remember those and take revenge, if I will get chance . But to forgive without asking is worthless ... Thanks !!!

For me forgiving and forgetting are different. I can forgive. I rarely forget. So if the person who offended me wants a genuine reconciliation he/she needs to take concrete steps to correct the wrong that he/she did. Otherwise the issue will keep on popping up in the future.

I will not forgive someone if he or she deliberately hurt me. Because I afraid they would hurt me next time.

it really depends on the situations... i usually am a forgiving person as i don't want to make enemy and just want to live in harmony with one another in this world... take care and have a nice day...

no it is not easy for me. there are also many levels of hurt. still i think i just can't forgive so easily. there is someone who cheated me big time. i really was fond of that so called friend. now taht ha shurt me bigtime.

Hello,celestial52506.I have a bad memory,so i often forget the things happened last night.Like what i ate,what i told my friends,what i did ect.SO if i did something and hurt someone,maybe i don't know it and still speak as usual.Fortunately,my friends all knows my character and know i m not mean to do it.So they get used to it and still like me.If someone said something wrong to me and hurt me,i will feel unhappy for one or two days,then i ll forget this things.Like a child?once i quarreled with my friend,the next day i get up and see her,I pretend ignore her and thinking what had happened ,why i have to angry with her.LOL.We should remember things happy and write it on stones ,forget things unhappy and write it on beach sands,just let the sea tide to wash it.

If someone really asks for forgiveness and means it I will forgive them, but otherwise no. I don't go for those fake apologies either, like "I'm sorry, but" or "I'm sorry if" is NOT an apologly, it's an excuse, a way to sound apologitic without actually taking any responsibilty.

it's really hard to forget, so it's too hard also to forgive :)

its always a good thing if you forgive others. If your angry its not easy to forgive it takes time to heal dont rush, because it will not be pure if you push yourself to forgive even if your not ready..

every one is not jesus!!! but following jesus is the best way to avoid unhappiness!. forgiveness based on the attitude of the indviduals. in most of the time when i was hurt by words, i will pray the jesus to give that man good thought and i will not speak to him. automatically the person who hurt me realises his mistakes and tell sorry to me. words are sharper than the knife. once the wrong words hurted the person - he never forgot it eventhough you forgive him. when ever he saw you the first thing in his subconcious mindes hints him about the hurt words you used to him oh god give peace to every one jana

To be frank with you, I think forgive people who hurted me is easy when I know their reasons. Of cause most of essential reasons are based on human nature of those negative sides. And everyone of us are borned with those negative or selfish nature more or less. So forgiving people like ourselves is easier.

Yeah, just forgive them. They realized they had made mistake. So, why must you take time to forgive them? Control our temper is the best way to protect any relationship from being broken up. By the way, it doesn't mean that we allowed that person to make any mistake in future. Warn him/her, to be more careful..