Small Town Gossip
By JudithP
@JudithP (295)
Canada
May 25, 2008 10:50pm CST
I live near a small community here in northern Ontario. I went into town today to do a bit of shopping and found out I was at the center of the gossip circle.
As I wrote in a previous discussion my partner and I moved into the house just a few months ago. We took in two roomates to help out with expenses. It has worked out very well so far. As I was standing at the cash with my hubby we overheard another couple behind us talking about the new people in town and how they had taken a man into their home as a boarder who prefered other men. Hubby and I just smiled at each other and the cashier who does know us winked.
The couple behind us continued with the conversation loud enough for everyone to hear. They saw my partner looking at them and brought him into the conversation. With a very serious look on his face, he told them there were a few men in town like this. With shocked looks they asked him who they were. He leaned over very discreetly and said, "Kiss me and I'll tell you." The looks on their faces were priceless. In a matter of seconds they realized they had been had and dropped the topic. I thought the cashier was going to bust a gut.
My question is, Would you rent to a man or woman who's preferences were different from your own? I don't worry about the color of a persons skin or what their personal preferences are. We are all equal. I think it's time for everyone to put away preconceived ideas of others and just get on with living.
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@vicneedscoffee (1259)
• United States
26 May 08
That is too funny...lol. Kudos to your partner. To me a person is a person regardless of all that. We all enter the world the same way and leave it the same way. I choose my friends by how they treat me and other people, not other things. I live in a small town, too. In small towns they talk about everything and everyone who is the slightest bit different than them. If they would make their own lives more exciting they wouldn't have to gossip about everyone else.
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@JudithP (295)
• Canada
26 May 08
I've never been one to worry about what others say and I'm not about to start now. I always figured if they were talking about me they were not hurting anybody else. I've actually gone out of my way at times to give them somrthing to talk about just because I like to cause a stir. My partner says I'm an instigator. Hubby says we all come into this world drooling with no teeth in our mouth and peeing our pants and we'll all go out the same way. Our roomate is a great guy even if he is sometimes a bit strange about his dishes but that's what makes him unique. He has a great sense of humor and he loves to garden which is a major responsibility off my shoulders. I think I'll keep him.
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@vicneedscoffee (1259)
• United States
26 May 08
All that matters is that you all get along :)
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@bubblyapple (2653)
• Philippines
26 May 08
I think that whatever a person's preferences is, we don't have to use it to judge him/her quickly.
To answer your question, I would rent to whomever I see fit as long as their extistence in my own house is according to the rules that I have set out and that he/she is not bringing any trouble. As with your situation, you rent out because you need the money from it to help you with expenses, so if it is serving its purpose, what is his/her preferences has to do with it?
Gossip mongers are everywhere. You can't please everyone so just don't mind them. They would go on forever because they have nothing else to keep their lives interesting but that- talking about other people's business. If you defend yourself, they would just see it as a way for you to cover something. If you have nothing to hide, why waste your energy into those silly things?
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
30 Jun 08
It's funny how people are so worried about other people's business like it's their own. Kind of sad. I don't think preferences matter because we're all human. Everybody is trying to make their way through this world and we don't really need the extra stress from ignorance. You're right when you said that we should all just get on with living. Well put JudithP.