My Girlfriend Don't Trust Me??!!!

This question your girlfriend asked may have sounded stupid to you but from her point of view it was just a question, she probably needs some piece of mind and reassurance that she's the ONLY one for YOU! your girlfriend seems to be insecure at this point everyone gets this way at times, I dont see this as a trust issue, if this is something thats on her mind and its worrying her, you should try your hardest to make her understand that there is nothing for her to worry about, just show her how much she means to you, thats if you really do want to be with her!?! you say you dont want to tell her about your past with your ex because the story's too long.... if you really want to ease her mind maybe you should consider sitting down together and tell her why you wouldnt think about taking your ex back I know this may be hard on you bringing up your past but it may be the only way to fix this issue, ~good luck

She was just curious. She wanted to know what you will do and she wants an answer that you will choose her over your ex. So just laugh and say "why would i leave you when you're the only reason why i am staying." or something like that. Every girl needs to be fed with confirmation of your true feelings for her every now and then.(^^,)

Hi there kurtavish! Well, if you love your girlfriend, then you two should have a talk about it and settle it once and for all. Answer her questions and tell her exactly how you feel. Tell her that you need her to trust you to make your relationship work. But make sure that you will never break her trust. There are women who are insecure by nature and every woman needs constant reassurance that you only love her and no one else. Be really sweet sometimes, and don't fail to show her and tell her that you love her especially on the times that she needs you the most. Good luck.

I don't think that it's so much that she doesn't trust you as she is just jealous. Maybe she is scared you will leave her. Is this relationship new? If so, then this may be why

insecurity. especially if you're new with your gf and you have been in a relationship with your ex for years. my bf went back to his ex a few times after they break up (once he was with me but he went back to her later so we broke up). i learned to accept their 6 years of relationship (plus a couple of years being 'just friends') compared to my 1 year plus of friendship/bf-gf relationship confusion yeah, i still ask my bf if he's going to be with her again (blame my past experience with him for the insecure feelings i have). he admitted that he still loves her. but good thing is he said he's not going back to her do whatever you can to make her feel secure. then she'll stop asking

tell her actions speak louder than words. tell you can only show though time that you will not hurt her. tell hurt talok to you and you really listen to her. then the next day after this conversation bring flowers. then start doing small things that matter like calling when your late. Sounds whimpy but it works

Sounds to me she is just a bit scared and insecure. After all your ex was an important person in your life at one point and she could be worried that old feelings might not have gone away and could come back. I'd just talk to her and try to calm her fears the best you can.

thre can be two reasons. either she is just a person who likes to think so much wishful thinking and check what will happen if taht is the situation. or she does not trust you. may be she is thinking too much. just assure her.

Maybe she is just looking for a little reassurance, I think quite alot of girls worry about their boyfriends ex partners. Girls just like to know that they are your number one and that there is no need to worry about the ex. Girls often feel threatened by exes as that is someone you used to have a connection with. I am sure your girlfriend does trust you, she is probably just a little insecure at the moment. I am sure if you tell her that she is the only girl in your life, she will soon forget about the ex.

In the first place why do you have to break up to your current girlfriend if you think that you love her a lot but she did not trust you? Why do you have to return to your ex if you hate her? I think the only thing you can do is that you must show how much you love your current girlfriend and show it to her that you are suppose to be trusted. Maybe you are lack of showing your affection, you can't explain yourself very well, you are a type of a guy that is really easy to go with even if you already had a girlfriend you are still flirting with other people, your a type of a guy that wants to give joke to your girlfriend or making fun to jealous your current girlfriend? That is case to case basis maybe the two of you are lack of communication also and yet you rarely see each other? Maybe your current girlfriend has attitude problem too that she is really possesive and yet insecure that could be the reason why she is just being jealous. Could you just show how much you care? And as much as possible you must show evidences so that your statements are really clear.

Not trust a bit only. Hi, buddy. You are actually doubt. Girl are always talking nonsense, they like to ask stupid question and make us mad. Get tough man, take it. Go ahead with current girlfriend and tell him how much you love him 80% or 100%. That's.

I think that she dose not trust you. have you done anything that would make her not trust you? Maybe one of her ex's did something to make her not trust men. I could never trust my ex cuz he was always on the phone with other girls & didnt want me to know...

maybe she is scared you will leave her,I think she love you very much,she worry lose you and lose you love,if you real love her,tell you felling to her anytime ,cost more time with her

no,it is wrong for you to think so. probably she had any traumatic incident in her past or in her childhood that has left her shattered. she needs that extra bit of love and comfort from you. she is feeling insecure and that is why she asks this question. just tell her that her ex-girlfriend is absolutely out of her life. and make her feel special on a couple of ocassions.this i think will solve all problems. and first of all, do not preserve any mementoes of your ex. if she gets her hand on any of these, you are doomed. all the best.

If you really love your girlfriend prove to her that you love her by simply being honest. Because its better to tell the whole truth than to tell a lie just to make her smile.

just love her as yourself.. all woman wanted that.. :)

I asked my husband the same question. I know that he loves me, but I just wante to be sure that he wouldn't go back to her because she is around a lot and they are still friends. Your girlfriend probably just wants some reasurrance. Woman are very insecure by nature and she probably just wants you to let her know that you love her and only her. You may love her very much, but she is still going to ask these questions. She just wants to know that she is loved. Tell her that you love her and only her.

I used to ask my boyfriend the same question, he told me he will not return to her. After several month, i found out he couple with 3 girlfriend while he to gather with me. I'm glad your girlfriend found such a guy like you who love her a lot.

i can't agree with u...........because she might be possessive with ur love.she don't want to miss u.she is too affectionate.i think she is very sincere in her love.

It is normally for a girl to feel that way. After all, I feel that girls are sensitive and should not be neglected. It is not that she do not trust you, she just wants constant re-affirmation from you! If you don't trust you, she would have left you long time ago. So do not think negatively.