Do you accept life as it comes..!
By alienstar
@alienstar (5142)
India
May 28, 2008 1:57am CST
There is one saying evrybody might have heard it " Take life as it comes" isnt it? do you think it is that easy like this way? it's easier said than done isnt it? poepel tend to get more depressed when in severe problems of life and even if they believe in this above line, when the problem comes they really get more depressed and will find it hard isnt it? do you have any simpler way to handle this problems coming in life than taking ita s the line goes....
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@vaivhav (355)
• India
28 May 08
I don't think there is another better way to make life more living than what the proverb says. "Take life as it comes" to me means that never worry about the future, live the present moment. As Bob Marley said, don't worry, be happy. You never know when life will end, maybe we will die today itself, who knows. so it is better not to take life for granted, it may end anytime, so let every moment in your life be the start before the end. And remember, if you ever feel low, there is always a hug from a loved one. Peace, love and freedom as they say, and everything takes care of itself.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Its easier said than done most of the times isnt it as evrybody seems to agree on this line and when things are really bad, it's also difficult to accept the life's facts and finding out ways to solve it keeping ourselves positive all the time is real test isnt it..!
@vonkristoffer (833)
• Philippines
29 May 08
meeen this world is full of despair.. how can you manage it by your self... no one can help you.. except God.. :)
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Dont be so pessimistic and be positive and believe in god and yourself.Work hard and pray god and accpt things as tehy comes and teher will be somethings which you cannot handle and teher are otehr things which can be handled and it's all left to you how you tackle it....
@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
29 May 08
Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and wel preserved body but rather to skid in broadside thouroughly used up totally worn out and proclaiming wow what a ride!
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Yes, life is a journey and one wilgo through many phases in life as it all provides so much fun, adveture thorughout isnt it? if one takes it positively how nice thsi life would be...life is beautful and worth living
@apple1982 (42)
• China
29 May 08
Life is ample,including happiness\sadness\opportunity
\difficulty and so on.when the happiness come,we should enjoy it,when the difficult come,we should confrone and try our best to overcome.we should remember that " change what we can change,but accept what we can not change".
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Your last line is more perfect and we have to accept the hard facts life provides us in between and there is no other way tahn accpeting ita nd move on with life and each and evry indiavidual living here will ahve their share in evrything here in their life time
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Dont keep that pessimistic approach in life.I know this is easier said than done but still life is a struggle and one has to understand it and also life is beautiful and this also one should understand and one would thank god for providing us an oportunity to live in this beautiful world
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
We shoudl never regret things in life as things ones passed is gone and thinking like we could ahve done somethings better or thinking on some bad things wil go onkilling time and youw ont be gaining anything in thsia nd instaed get into actiona nd be positive and live life in full force and enjoy life
@mocking (6)
• India
28 May 08
well.. personally, i follow the saying 'whatever happens,happens for the best!'
you never know whats gonna happen tomorrow so whatever happens..accept it,and move on.
well.. thats what i do atleast :P
another thing.. an example! : when you know theres a problem coming up, getting pissed about it isn't gonna help you at all.instead, think of what your gonna do to fix the problem.
well thats all i have to say on this topic.. so.. adios!
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Its easier said than done and this line doesnt mean that yousit idle and accpet things as it comes to you...you have got it wrong here.What i meant was in thsi life happiness comes to evrybodya nd these are not at all testing times and in other times even sadness comes and here the real test wil be theer for you to solve that problems and in some cases you may not be in any position to tackle soemthinga nd you just have to accpet life as it comes at thsi time keeping yoursle positive and i hope i have cleared your things here
@Samanthavv (1380)
• United States
29 May 08
Well, what other options do you have? You can't just plan out every moment of the rest of your life, can you? Just take things as they come and roll with the punches. That's all you can really do.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
I really dont know whetehr you have accpeted thsi line given here or not..! life is a struggle and we got to struggle a lot even if theer is a smal problem coming our waya nd soemtimes these problems which comes will not be in our ahnds and we only ahve to accept it and nothng else can be done and kepeing ourselves in right spirit with hope is important at those times
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
28 May 08
It's definitely hard to do that. At least, in my book it is. I try to take the good with the bad, but I'm usually stuck with mostly bad things. And I don't know why. I am one of those depressed individuals and it's hard to climb out of your negative space. I think if you try too hard to keep the negative issues away they'll just keep coming at you at full force. I guess it's just easier to accept things and try to find a balance between staying positive and being who you are.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Its always easy for anyone when the happier times are theer in life when tensions are less and teh real test will be when bad times comes and how you are handling these are importanta nd keeping positive attitude and moving on with full force is very important in life
@anujain75 (1059)
• India
28 May 08
It is not easy to take life as it comes,but I think it is the only way of happiness.I mean to say eternal happiness.If we accept our circumstances then we will remain happy.If we will happy then we make others happy.
Why we become unhappy?when the people around us not reacting as we want than we become unhappy.Again for them we are not right people So who will change whom to become happy.So better take life as it goes on.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Well said and i also agree and once we start accepting life even during bad times and work hard more and more to get the better times again, we will enjoy life as sadness and happiness are part of everyone's story and we only have to accept it and move on with hope..that is life
@Lambchoper (538)
• United States
29 May 08
Life can be like a rip tide, if you struggle against it you will wear yourself out. Go with the flow. Swim with the current until you are clear of the pull.
"Acceptance is not submission: It is acknowledgement of the facts of a situation. Then deciding what you are going to do about it."
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Well said and everyody can live in thsiw orld happily if everything god hapens to him and infact life is so spicy that it gives all kinds of situation for us to go througha nd all kinds of struggle, probles,situations do come and we only ahve to solve it, live ita nd move on with more nergy and that is life
@naseeha (1382)
• India
29 May 08
I feel that you have no choice but to take life as it comes.
there is no use being bothered about why this should happen to me or it would have been better if it had happened that way.
Then wat is the use of questioning the happenings in life?
It is better to accept what life throws at us and move on
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
This doesnt mean that you ahve to accpet everything that comes to you and you have got it wrong here for sure and i meant only that theer might come some situation where on emaynot be in a position to do anything or you cannot do anything only on that occassion and there you only ahve to acccept ita nd nothing else and otehr times and all you ahve to struggle to enjoy life
@bobbalooi (73)
• United States
28 May 08
IF you accept life as it comes, you will be a happeier person. I learned this about 45 years into my life. Accept the things you can't do anything about and stop wasting time and energy on something you can't change. That is my motto.
Some things are out of our control. We should focus on the things we can do something about.
Learn from mistakes and move along. Keep a positive attitude and be grateful for what you do have and life will treat you better.
It works for me!
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
You are speaking my lines perfectlya nd i do believ in all of your lines here.well said and i also had bad times before and now i enjoy withouit worrying about anythinga nd i alsow orld hard to achieve success and teher are times wher we go wrong or bad things comes and maybe we cannot do anything at thse times also and we only can hope for best and move on enjoying life keeping positive attitude
@Allie_xoxo (1063)
• Canada
29 May 08
I take life kicking screaming and battering with all the energy a ram is supposed to have! Im a very passionate person, it isnt my style to take it as it comes.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
Life is a struggle and it is not that one has to struggle and other one is well placed as if you look into veryone's life there is sadness, happiness, tensiosn,stress....problems..solutions all are equally distributed and one has to struggle a lot to move on keeping himself positive
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
28 May 08
Hi there alienstar!
I do take life as it comes. I try to be prepared especially where our son's future is concerned but other than that, I rarely worry about things that I can do nothing about.
I think that helps in making fun memories of each day and making the most out of life.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
You are leading a perfect life as you seems do be doing things perfcetly without worrying about things too much as sometimes theer might be soemtimes wheer we cannot do anything more and we just have to accept ita nd stil enjoy life isnt it? thats the way to go baby....good way
@suz1000 (159)
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28 May 08
I tend not to take life as it comes. I am very much aware that good things and the things we want dont always just fall into our laps, we have to work for what we want, so no i dont think i do that, if im not happy with something i work to change it, sure if something good comes along then i make the most of it, but most of the time we make our own lives what they are it doesnt just happen.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jun 08
This doesnt mean that evrything will fall onto your laps is you sit idle.What this actually means is one has to struggle hard for success and soemtimes bad things do happen even then and we only ahev to accept thsoe things and move on keeping the right spirit as this is the way to lead life....