Have you ever intentionally spitted on someone?

Thats kinda gross if you ask me. Why would you want to spit on anyone? That seems childish to me. No matter how mad you get at someone you shouldn't spit on them, slam the door in his face maybe, but not spit. Should the husband leave her for it? I think he should leave if he's cheating on her. Nevermind her spitting on him...lol.

I do not endorse such actions. It only lowers down mutual respect. Anyway, it is not that much grave at all that the husband should leave her only for this. If the wife has committed one mistake, the husband must have done ten times more.

Wow! This woman must be really enraged to spit at someone. I think spitting at someone is totally gross, and I would probably never do that. If I'm extremely mad, I'll probaly throw something, maybe in very extreme scenario, try to hit or scratch..but that is like when things really went out of control. Domestic violence can be a crime so be very careful. Spitting, on the other hand, usually conveys contempt, as if the person is lower than a dog. As for the husband, it is up to him if he can bear to stay with someone who spit at him.

Nowadays, spitting at someone can be the crime of assault. Best not to get that upset. Best to leave him, if you're sure of it. Or if you've been married a long time, wait till he leaves because it makes him look very bad in court, even in no-fault states.

if he leave its rediculase he can nor leave due to arguing .

For me honestly it is rude and unmannerly to spit on sumone farless your husband... it could have been solved some other wayy.. like talk it out or some other way... maybe you are just insecureee but good luck

I can not exactly picture myself spitting on anyone for any reason. Is it grounds for divorce no but cheating would be. If the husband that is being accused leaves because of a wife spitting I would say he was probably guilty in the first place. I am not sure how I would respond to someone spitting on me though. I don't think it would be pretty.

Personally for me, it is wrong to spit t anyone much more that to our partner. I can shout,and throw things by means by I will not spit.But,it is also immature for the husband to leave just for this reason.Things can be talked and settled but running away is not a solution not unless, he really wait for an argument like this to make him have the reason to leave. I have not tried spitting to anyone and I also don't like the idea.

I am not condoning the act of the wife, but I feel the husband should first understand why the wife behave thus. I feel it would be very immature and petty of the husband if he were to leave the wife because of the spit.

Hi cream97! I wouldn't spit at my hubby or at anyone else even if I am very upset or angry. However, I don't think it could be a valid reason for husband to leave his wife. He may be angry with the spitting but he should think why it has to come to that point. Are the accusations hurled on him true? He has to look inside him what made his wife acted that way. But I am not justifying the wife's action of spitting on him because that is very demeaning and childish. No one would take kindly on being spit at. Take Care and God Bless!

I dont think so. i dont think I ahve ever spit at anyone. If my spouse spit on me I would probably leave him. Tht is extremely disrespectful and something that animals do. I think I would promise the husband I would go to counseling.

of course it is never right to spit on someone no matter how angry you are. but i think if someone do this, he is really controlled by his emotions like anger. i don't think it is already enough reason for a husband to leave his wife. leaving someone for just such an act is just a very shallow reason.

I can't picture myself spitting on my husband...throwing something if I were really mad but not spitting. I don't think it's a valid reason for leaving your partner though and would convict the husband of cheating on those grounds.

I am ashamed to say I have. A long time ago, a girl and got into a fight because she was bullying one of my friends and she thre a drink at me after spitting an ice cube out of her mouth andinto my face. So my immediate reaction to her action (which did not make me any better than her) was to spit back at her. I don't think anyone should spit at anyone, yes it happens and you can't take it back, but it is disgusting by itself just for someone to spit, but then to actually spit at someone, it is really dirty, not to mention, not at all lady-like.

No I have never spat (or spitted..) on anyone. Have you? Are you the wife.

no,i haven't but if that were me,he'd be lucky if that's all i did no,i wouldn't say he should.i mean,sure he might be insulted,but that's pretty minor in the scope of things.

no indeed I have not as spitting on anyone is a vile disgusting thing, and I wou ld never do that even to someone I hated,let alone to a husband even if he was cheating.No the husband should not leave her for that as it was done in anger but she should have known better. spitting on someone ranks right up there with slapping someone in the face. Its a vile,evil thing to do to another human being.If she was cheatingthat would'be a whole different ball game.

No, I have not and would not ever spit on anyone, no matter how mad I may be at them. Thats just gross. I think that its just wrong for anyone to spit at anyone else. I don't think that if the husband is considering leaving her for one bump in the road that they stand much of a chance together.

I dont like spitting for any reason, I think it is dirty, but I could not imagine a husband leaving his wife because of it. He might be very angry and not speak for a while, but there must have been some thing bad going on for a wife to spit on her husband. He must have said some thing very bad to her?

I don't care how bad the fight is there is NEVER a good reason to spit on someone. That is so beyond disrespectful it is vile and disgusting. I can't imagine ever spitting on anyone and I would certainly not tolerate it happening to me.