Dogs barking all night
By Amy
@artemis432 (7474)
Abernathy, Texas
May 30, 2008 2:42am CST
I have a very nice neighbor - she lives in a little casita on the same property I do who has a large dog. She recently starting letting him stay outside while she's away - which is often and 'till late at night often. He has a bark fest all day and all night. I swear, I think sometimes he doesn't stop to have a breath.
I left a message on her machine, letting her know it was getting in the way of sleep. And we talked about it when she came home and she apologized.
Have you ever had a problem like this - were you upfront about - but nice, did you go behind their back and call animal control, or did you try to ignore it?
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
30 May 08
So, after you talked to her did the dog stop barking? Or does she still leave him outside? I think you handled it correct as long as it stopped barking. I couldn't leave my dog outside if I knew he was barking. I hate when dogs bark, and even if I wasn't home (which I don't let him be outside unless someone is home) I would still want to know. I have searched my neighbors out to ask if my dog barks while I am not home because when I leave he runs up to our bay window and barks like oh where are you going without me you know I am suppose to go with you.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
I would talk to her again because lately its happening again, but we're moving to another house my landlady owns.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
30 May 08
She's not going to leave him out so long. She was experimenting with leaving him out so she wouldn't have to come back so often - with work and social life.
Your doggie may stop barking when you've been gone awhile though. And indoors its not so bad. :)
@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
30 May 08
That's good, at least you won't have trouble sleeping at night. It's nice when everything works out good. My neighbor says he barks for about 3 minutes after we leave. So I didn't think that was too bad.
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
30 May 08
I have been on the other end of the situation. Our neighbors once called us and were really ugly to us because "our dog was barking" and bothering them. By that time in that dogs life he was very very old and he never ever barked anymore who they heard was the neighbor behind them who had a rather large dog--they even called the police on us, even though it wasn't our dog!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
She keeps him indoors more now that I've spoken to her.
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@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
That's horrible - should be a show called - neighbors behaving badly. Nope, I know its her dog, she lives on the same property as me and I can see him barking in his fenced in area constantly. :)
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@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
31 May 08
It sounds like you have a good relationship with your neighbor, so calling animal control would have been a bad idea. You did the right thing by talking to her and letting her know - chances are she didn't even know the dog was annoying people.
Sometimes when I let my dog out, she does bark at people, lights, other dogs... I get her in the house quickly so that it doesn't bother other people. I did have one neighbor that would antagonize my dog and she would bark at him all the time. He called animal control on me and after that I just let her bark at him all she wanted to.
We now have a neighbor that has a rooster that crows ALL DAY LONG and ALL NIGHT LONG. The woman has joked about it to us and is very rude. Her and her husband yell at each other all the time and the kid throws objects over the fence at our dog. We called animal control on them, the rooster should be gone in a week or so.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
Oh for me, I know calling on her would have been a bad idea - even though I think its cruel to keep a pet alone as much as she does - and to live him outside.
Your story is horrible! Glad he'll be gone soon.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
31 May 08
In the trailer park where we used to live, we had a neighbor across the street that would leave her dog tied up all day while she went to work. One of the park rules was your dog couldn't be outside by itself for no more than 1/2 hour. Legally, the park manager could of took the dog to animal control or have them come out to get her but being she was such a huge animal lover, she couldn't do it. I went over every few hours to make sure she had plenty of fresh water to drink. She would bark non-stop all day cause she was lonely and bored. Eventually, I started bringing her over to our place and letting her loose since we had a fenced yard and she got along with our dog. No more barking from her then. I talked to the neighbor about it and she was happy I was taking her in and from then till she moved, Lucky came over every day in the morning and stayed till her mom came home from work and picked her up. We ended up giving her a loving permanent home soon after the neighbor moved cause Lucky was just beside herself and causing her mom major problems. She was a husky/shephard mix and was very active and got bored easily. Now that we are out in the country on our own property, we have no problems with barking dogs.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
I think its wonderful that you did that. If people get dogs, they should be sure they can care for them always. If they are going to need to leave for long periods and expose them to the elements and leave them bored and lonely, they should reconsider.
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
30 May 08
I am sorry to hear that the dogs barking was interfering with sleep,where my parents live we have only a couple neighbors,and they are all very nice,the farm across from us has a couple dogs,but they dont ever cause any problems,the only dogs that do are our own chihuahuas,who like to run through the house in the middle of the night barking.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
There are ways to stop barking - like putting on a special collar that sprays them (as you're supposed to do for a cat)and the harmless spray distracts them. Its not good to have a barking dog at night...inapropriate.
Have fun mylotting hellcowboy!
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Thats true,there are always ways to stop a dog from barking,and those sound like really good ideas,have a great day,good luck in your life,and Happy Posting to you too.
@heleni0 (322)
•
30 May 08
When I first got my dog we left him outside when we went out and when we left he was barking. We were only gone about an hour but when we got back my dad asked our neighbour (whom we have a good relationship with) how he had been while we were gone and he said he barked the entire time. After that we started leaving him inside the house and there was no more excessive barking. It's good to be able to talk calmly and politely whenever there is a problem.
A few weeks ago I had a nasty run in with a man who lives in my mom's street. Fifteen minutes after I arrived there with Max this man came banging on the door, and hurled abuse at me because my dog had been barking for two hours straight and it was setting all the other dogs off. Obviously it had not been Max because we had only just arrived. I tried to explain that but he wouldn't listen and just hurled more abuse as he was walking away.
Anyway, because he was so aggressive towards me I did as he said and brought Max inside out of the garden. Then my grandma asked me to bring the bins in so I went out of the back gate and Max followed me. The man was standing outside his gate and as soon as he saw Max he came striding over, hurling more abuse and telling me that if I didn't get him inside now he was going to poison him. Of course this was punctuated with a lot of pointing and very bad language.
When my brother came home he was so angry you could see in his eyes that he wanted to go over there and beat the guy to a bloody pulp. We would have called the police if we didn't think we'd end up with a brick through the window.
The next day my mom spoke to another of her neighbours and she said that there has been a dog barking but that it had obviously been coming from further away than my mom's house.
The thing that infuriates me the most is that he just wouldn't listen to what I had to say. Furthermore, his two dogs are allowed to roam the area unattended and when they see you coming they run up to you barking and growling and they scare the life out of my three year old niece. Who is he to talk about unruly dogs?!
Wow, that was a long rant. Pushed my buttons there!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
There is something seriously wrong with your neighbor. I was nice about it and knew she would be equally cool!
Sorry that happened. Isn't it illegal for dogs to roam unattended?
@intel0614 (25)
• United States
31 May 08
get ear plugs.... or buy here a shock ing thing so thay dont bark
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
I have a child - a baby - ear plugs are out of the question. :)
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
30 May 08
Talking to the owner first is the best way to do it. If you called animal control before you called or talked to her she would then be more inclined to strike back at you if something should arise in the future....if the problem persists though.....I would take it to the next step.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
No, I knew she'd be cool about it. Now my landlady's neighbors - used to be mine when I lived on the casita on her property - their dogs were out in the elements (sometimes well below freezing 24/7 and in addition barked all night long. She finally called animal control after talking to them about the barking repeated times.
@grasshopper5257 (438)
• Canada
30 May 08
I think that you handled it perfectly! I also have 2 dogs and on occasion they will bark as I am pulling out of the driveway. I am pretty certain that they will quit when they know I am really gone. But, if they don't, I would really appreciate my neighbors telling me about their bad behavior! Rather than getting the law involved.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
Yes most definitely, commication is important. There are usually always ways to solve things in this way rather then resorting to calling the police - animal or people police!
@sun2day (1062)
• Virgin Islands (U.S.)
30 May 08
Some folks are very tolerable others are not. That was sweet of you to tell her and she was nice to aplogized.
My daughter had a similar problem with her dogs also.
They were out to work daily, and they would leave the dogs at home; one of the neigbours repoted them to animal control and they received letters from them about the dogs disturbing the neighbours. They wondered who would complain them rather than coming upfront and telling them.
There were other neighbours but they never complain.
They were not very nice people from the get go. They were military people who worked 5 fays a week. Had they told them they would have done something about it before.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
Yes the neighbor should of talked to them first. I hope their dogs weren't left outside to the weather though....
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
30 May 08
I think you did the right thing by talking to your neighbor and being nice about her dog barking all day and night. The dog was probably lonely looking and hopeing someone would come to him for attention. I wouldn't call animal control on the person for I wouldn't want it done to me. I would try to ignore it and wait til they got home to talk to them.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
30 May 08
Thanks Remembering. He was lonely and he barked at every noise and ran up and down the fence along this little stream we have between houses every time he heard another dog bark or someone passed - kids and such walk up that thing all the time - its a hangout place and a short cut.
I agree about animal control - unless you've nicely mentioned it several times, offered any help you could to the matter and it still goes on.
You're great - happy mylotting!
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
30 May 08
at least your neighbor is like that. My neighbor yelled at me for stirring up things, when what I only said was I can't sleep for a few nights because her dog is howling like a monster wolf..All neighborhood and up to the block can hear it. Worst is, when her dog starts howling, the other dogs howls with him too. My son got scared coz it sounded like a witch or a monster is coming and the dogs are welcoming the monster....She yaks and yaks and we ended up in the nearest police station because that time all the other neighbors complained too..
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
That's terrible. Neighbors like that don't work well with others and shouldn't be in a neighborhood where neighbors are close together.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
31 May 08
My sister and I had a dog before.
We went out of town years ago and we have nobody to take care of our pet. We can't let him stay inside the house because for sure he'll bite all of our benches and slippers. So we left him at the garage with lots food and water. The garage is open though, just in front of our house.
When we came back few days after (less than a week) we recieve a letter from the management (village mgt.) that we have to take care of our dog because they recieve a complaint from our neighbors regarding our dog that barks all day long.
From that moment of incident, we never left him alone anymore.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
That's good. Barking dogs can be both intrusive and unhealthy. Unhealthy because it makes it difficult to sleep and sleep is crucial for good health!
TheMArker - enjoy mylotting!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
31 May 08
Oh I wouldn't call them, unless, like in the case of my landlady - she kept talking to her neighbors about their dogs incessant barking - plus the fact that the poor dogs were kept out 24/7 in freezing weather. Cruelty and abuse. Just what animal control is for.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
I believe in always being polite but I don't think anyone should allow themselves to be walked over or be in situations that are uncomfortable.
@getnbuy (1312)
• United States
31 May 08
Yes, I once had neighbors who had 2 barking dogs. For some reason they couldn't hear them. Maybe the wind blew the noise our way, I don't know. Finally I called then in the middle of the night and they brought the dogs in. Then , one day, the neighbor lady was at my house and heard the dogs. She said "I don't believe it!" They never heard their own dogs at their house. Strange, but true.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
31 May 08
fortunately i havent a neighbor whose dog barks all day...of course if happened to me and it disrupts me especially during the night then surely i will informed our nice neighbor about the disturbances that causes her dog..and of course nice and orderly fashioned and must have arrive some agreement about the dog..
@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
30 May 08
I don't really think animal control is really a necessary thing to do - especially if you can speak to the person & they're happy to help fix the problem.
Ask her if she'd mind maybe leaving the dog in the house while she's away as he's barking a lot & that could be a sign that he's lonely or suffering from separation anxiety - especially if they had previously spent a lot more time together :)
I think leaving him inside with items that he can associate with her will make him feel less anxious or lonely but that's about all i can come up with. All my dogs have always been outside dogs so they don't get thrown out to be along when i am not around.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
30 May 08
As I said, I called and left a message and later chatted with her about it. I did say in the message that I would happy to help out in anyway. Besides working she's very social and is gone a lot so I know he needs to be let out and paid attention to!
I'm always afraid it will rain or something. I feel so sorry for dogs left out all the time in all kinds of weather. Poor pups!
Great ideas about what to do when leaving him.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
30 May 08
I think you handled it well. That is a good way to keep relationships with neighbors in tact. As yet I haven't had a problem like that.I would handle it in much the same way. Good for you.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
Yes I agree. Good communication skills are key to any situation. I bet you're a great neighbor!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
26 Jun 08
Yes, I agree. If the dog is still a nuisance, talk again, and if its not resolved, then take further action. Most dogs bark out of boredom. She admits that he does - she's gone most of the time.
@ycpgoldberg (807)
• Malaysia
30 May 08
If this happen to me,
I will try to contact my neighbor and have some conversation.
Asking animal control or flaming wouldn't change much,
but only to make you and your neighbor relation turn bad.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
30 May 08
Yes. I agree. And she was so nice about it too! Now my landlady did call on her own neighbors - because she'd asked several times that they do something about incessant barking - plus the animal cruelty of keeping dogs outside in freezing weather!