Will you say hello to your friend if you see him/her online?
By youless
@youless (112481)
Guangzhou, China
37 responses
@roger3611 (200)
• China
30 May 08
yes i do, why not?
just like when you are home you say I AM HOME to your family.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
30 May 08
do you mean see people on web camera, or just noticed that they are on line?
@Elixiress (3878)
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31 May 08
I will only say hello if I have something more to say, because I hate generic conversations:
Person 1: Hi
Person 2: Hi
Person 1: How are you?
Person 2: Fine you?
Person 1: Fine =D
-silence-
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@Elixiress (3878)
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31 May 08
Yeah at the beginning that is okay, but when that is the entire conversation, because neither person can think of anything to talk about is annoying, which is why I always have something in mind to talk about before saying hello.
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
31 May 08
I agree and i actually prefer not to say hello in the first place, except for the moments i have not said hello for a long time - but in that case i also start a discussion, but in general with my best friends, we talk only when we need too, no matter the topic, but we don't always say hello.
@jyoti_medha (567)
• Mauritius
30 May 08
Ya I'll surely do it. Usually i do it but you are right, sometimes I feel that maybe am disturbing them too much as they dont come to say hello sometimes.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
31 May 08
Of course I will say hello to my friends when I see them on line. If they are busy, they can tell me "Hi, can I call you back?" and I'll be able to take it. I'm not so insecure as to be bothered because they may be busy, just as they are not worried that I might be busy. We are friends, and we will all get back to eachother soon enough.
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@chrissieatu (1033)
• China
30 May 08
I don't usually to that either. I am not always a active person even online. If I don't have something to talk with my friends, I prefer just leave it there.
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@yanna1027 (248)
• United States
1 Jun 08
I don't usually say hello to my online friends because I know that most of them are at work and I try not to disturb them. Some instances that I may pop a hello first would be when I have something important to say to them, I haven't chatted with a friend for a long time and just want to say hi, or when I am down and needs to chat with a friend. Usually, if my chat would be something important and might take longer than a usual hi/hello, I ask my friend beforehand if he/she has some time to spare. Then, I make sure that I can engage in our conversation so that I will not bore my friend and waste his/her time.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
31 May 08
Hello youless!:-)
I, much like you are, don't feel like bothering my friends even if I have something to say. Especially when they have busy sign on as their status. Even if busy sign is not on, I feel that I might be bothering them by saying hello and they will reply back just out of courtesy. So, I normally wait for them to initialize. I guess, I am not very good at socializing. I'll always reply back though, if they say hello to me and will never abandon them or like them to feel that they aren't welcome.
I really like to talk to my friends online. But, I also like that they feel comfortable with me and one possible way to know is, if they start the conversation. But, if I have something really important to talk to, especially about them or something of concern to them, I'll say hello and try to finish my part as quickly and shortly as possible, just to ensure that they have what they should.
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@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
31 May 08
I usually don't say hi first...not knowing if my friend is busy....or well, one in particular it could be her hubby or kids getting on the computer and not her.
She always asks if it's me first when she gets online. LOL
Marsha
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
30 May 08
Hi youless! Sometimes, I would say hello to them but most of the time, I really don't. Usually when my friends and I want to chat online, we set up a schedule because everyone is busy at home and in their work. So, if I see them online, I will just say hi because I do not want to bother them for they maybe busy chatting about business or things that I am not really involved with.
Take Care and God Bless! Have a smile in your heart always!
@asawanialvin0611 (1877)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
I do send them smileys.I sometimes moved to tears if they are a long time friend
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
30 May 08
i do not always say hello to them coz partly because i'm afraid to bother them,partly i may be busy then.
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