which do you preferred, being single, or be married?

of course, i prefer to be married because i already enjoyed ,in the fullest, my being single before. When your single, usually you donot have direction in your life.Unlike married, you can plan for your family's future. Aside from that, some single persons are easily get mad and sometimes irritable. It's nice being married especially when you have kids because they can take away the stress from you from office works.

i'm single right now and i never been married, i think that i would prefer being married cause you gonna have someone that there for you, care and a shoulder to cry on,that if you find your soulmate, and i hope i find mine

Single I have seen my parents fighting ,grumbling on irrelevant stuff,being single u get to do alot of things without being obligated .Right now i want to be single...may be at a later stage i may give it a thought when i m done achieving my dreams ,going to places ...

When I was single I was happy being single. Now that I am married, I am happy in my marriage. I did what was right for me when it was right for me.

I definitely prefer being married. I never really liked being single very much for some reason. I just feel so much more fulfilled now that I am married and have someone to really take care of and someone who takes care of me. I am so much happier than I ever thought I could be now that I am with my husband. I definitely wouldn't trade married life for anything!

I'll still choose to be single and have a partner (without marriage). When you sign the paper, you have to commit a lot of time and effort into it. Besides, you have to make some sacrifes just to maintain the marriage. Which sometimes, you might just wasting your sacrifice and commitment for a wrong husband/wife!!!

i still think that i preferred to be married even though being married means that i lost some of my freedoms... but i gain more in return... i gain a lifetime companionship to share the rest of my life with... and i am really happy with that... take care and have a nice day...

Hello again dear Bebs. Thank you for your nice discussion. There are advantages and disadvantages as to being single or being married. Here please allow me to skip those advantages and disadvantages for comparison. I am married and I think that I love the life after marriage instead of my life as a bachelor. Married life is more comfortable and enjoyable for me as a married man. I love my married life and I am very happy to be a family man.

i haven't been married before but i used to have a boyfriend who's really possessive. when i got out of that relationship i had decided, i'm not into marrying. i'd be single for a long time until i'm mature enough to approve on being chained :D

yeeeeeeeeeeeh marriage i hate well according to me i like to be single rather getting married becouse i dont think that i can carry a girl with me the whole life but i want to spend my life only with a single girl but no marriage after marriage baby na na na never but bout you.

i prefer being married...i m never alone i always have the company of my husband..i have someone to share my happiness with and to take care of me...i feel I am wanted..he depends on me for the very same reasons..and we have an adoring and very very naughty three year old son...it is a bliss being married...

i am married,and my wife is my classmate .if i were to choose being married or being single ,i will choose being married if my wife is still my classmate and we will fall in love very soon,because she is the figure i like best.

Being single you have all the liberty to do what you want their would be no obligation regarding any issues best to be single and enjoy life. But life has to go on everybody needs a companon ultimately is'nt it? And more than us our parents will be concerned about us.

I have been a married woman for four years. I am now forty years old and this is my second time around with being a wife. At this point in my life I am happier being in the union of marriage. I don't want to be out in the dating scene. Yes, I can imagine there might be some bonuses to being single and coming and going a little more often but if you do find the right person you will be happy. Marriage is not for everyone but it is something nice for me. My husband and I also have a five year old at home that we are raising.

I love being a wife and mother. I would'nt want to have to deal with the dating bs again. I must admit though, I didn't have too much experience being single-I met my husband when I was a senior in high school and we got married a year after I graduated college. I went from mom and dad to him. If for some reason I ended up single again, I'm sure my main goal would be to get remarried! lol

i personally prefer singleness right now because theres so much i want to do that i couldn't do if i were married. i want to travel more, go a few places. do some things ive never done. and i feel that entering into a marriage without doing those things will actually do me more harm then not because i will not have grown from those experiences. never run into a marriage before your ready...cause it can be a double edged sword and you could end up regretting that you got married and not be able to do anything about it.

Hi Bebs this is a nice topic and I want to comment!I do really have lots of happy and remarkable memories in my single life and they really make me laugh whenever they flash on my mind. I also love the freedom that goes along with singlehood and the fun of being with friends in going to different places and also the excitements of being courted and saught after by guys and ohhh....falling in love!!! But given the choice I would still prefer my life now as a married woman despite the duties, obligations, hardships, trials and restrictions that go with it. It's wonderful to have a family that I and my husband have built in love. It's a heavenly feeling to have a home I can liken to a little piece of heaven on earth. It's woderful to wake up each morning with my husband embracing me and making me feel how much he loves me. It's a blessing to have someone to lean on, a loving and supportive partner in all undertaking, a true friend, a shoulder to cry on. How much more, my marriage brought about one of the most wonderful things that happened to me and that is... Motherhood. To me, being married is a bliss and I am very thankful to God for this. God bless!