Are MEN born INSENSITIVE?

@debshie (392)
Philippines
June 1, 2008 10:25pm CST
i do not say this to make men look bad. it is just an observation but not in all cases though. i think some men are so wrapped up in their own world and women ae ot. i mena, some women are overly insensitive as well, but i'm seaking general tersm. is this you observation as well? i would gladly aprreciate the enlightenment from the men out there and the opinions of our women readers.
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@chiyosan (30181)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
i think all are born sensitive, sensitive to every feelings and emotions in this world. but of course we tend to have different ways to copy up with criticisms. i think sometimes men become more sensitive to issues because they do not talk about most of it like women do.
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
2 Jun 08
Again, human gender doesn't reveal the secret of what will the personality speaks of. What is the majority influence is on how kids grab their own sample from their parents. A man could be grown resembles a woman's behavior if he was compounding his femininity larger than his masculinity in his growth, and this is the most proportion he could gain on how his mother treated his father and vice versing, or any environment which he decided to follow with. And so did the same for with the girl's growth. Kids will always select the most secure environment and adapt to it. Then as a result, we may find a man who acts likes a woman, and a woman who does else. Speaking of the truth, a man who faces such emotional changing inside him when gets married to a pure woman will face a dilemma in supporting their femininity side. Since both of them needs it heavily. The same with the girl who also plays much with his masculinity. But if the partner can sway for the right understanding on this type's behavior, it would gift the unexpected emotional gift which will endure the marriage life. But could the partner could face heavily emotional overwhelmed simultaneously? What you had mentioned about men identical to less-sensitive is the right nature for him. But it could create a problem for a woman who impresses with her genuine nature. It takes time to understand and match for both puzzle before enduring the relationship into the last phase, which is every couple's dream. The true love.
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@urbandekay (18278)
8 Jun 08
No, it is rather that women have a non-symmetrical use of th word sensitive; when a woman says she is sensitive, she means men should be sensitive to her feelings and when she says a man is sensitive she means that he is sensitive to her feelings. But reverse the rhetoric; how many women are sensitive to men's feelings? Generally, they are too wrapped up in their own feelings to notice the feelings of men! Of course, that's just a perspective and no more true, nor no less than your observation. all the best urban
@theprogamer (10532)
• United States
8 Jun 08
I can assure you men aren't born insensitive. By the way, it may have helped if you could bring for instances, situations or stories on your end to help your discussion instead of just coming with a claim based on nothing.
@theprogamer (10532)
• United States
8 Jun 08
The assurance of men not being born insensitive, just look around and really observe. You'll find your jerks but you'll also find some decent people. Another assurance of men not being born insensitive, check the profile and best responses.
@jtr115 (722)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I don't believe anyone is born insensitive. That type of behavior is taught to them by their parents, friends, TV/movies, etc. If anything, I was overly sensitive as a child and still am today. If something bad happens to someone else, I react as if it happened to me.
2 Jun 08
I guess they are not insenstive rather they have a BIG MALE EGO.