how can i get a girl ?

China
June 2, 2008 6:30am CST
Now i have a strong desire of getting a girlfreind.but i really don't konw how to do .it is very boring.
11 responses
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
i think love is about taking your time to get to know a certain girl.. love is not picking a dish out of a menu.. you should hang around girls long enough to get to know which one is relly the one suitable for you. as in, you can get along great together.. through communication or feeling comfortable with each other.. my advice is, to take it slow.. take your time would allow the girls to see you for the real you, to know how they think and feel about you.. going slow and easy also shows that you are really sincer in getting to know them.. making that an extra plus point for you into getting a girlfriend.. PS: love is not boring.. it's a 'game' that involves you and the other person.. it's getting to know a certain someone better.. to me, that's fun!!!!!!!
• China
4 Jun 08
Yeah ,maybe everyone love this fun,but in this greatly pressed society,at least for me ,it is very hard to start a romantic story .This story takes a lot of time ,energy ,money and so on,which are all of my lackness.
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
well maybe it take time and skills.... welll... eish you all the best in your love life :)
@shynest (81)
• United States
19 Jun 08
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• China
7 Jul 08
Many thanks for everyone. i'm really sorry that i was not able to reply each response.I'm so busy and have little time to be here.Maybe there will be a watershed in the soon-coming future and everything will changes ,quien sabe,(my pet phrase,lol.spainish,it means who knows)
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
3 Jun 08
go hang out with friends at busy and fun places, and relax, socialize and have fun. u never know who u will meet by accident if u dont think about it. u will meet her when u least expect it.
• China
3 Jun 08
thank all of you ,maybe i need take more time ,but there is a little time for me ,it is a big trouble.
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 08
Well, I think you have to identify who is the girl that you are interested to date. Then, buy her flowers and start inviting her for dinner, movie and etc. If you need some guidance, I recommend you to watch the Hitch played by Will Smith. This movie is really teaching you how to date a girl in a romantic way! All the best!
• China
2 Jun 08
The most important, you should be brave. Then you can talk to the girl to show your merits.But it all depends actually.I hope you will find your spouse one day.
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
First know the things that the girl you like is interested in. Then try to talk to her friend if they can introduce you to her, then try to have a long conversations tackling the things she like the most...then the rest is up to you....
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
Thank's I needed that, I beginning to get sleepy...God Bless you friend.....
@JLS_12 (41)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
go to quezon ave in the middle of the night. however beware of the fake girls.
• China
4 Jun 08
thanks ,but maybe it is a great idea of meeting fake girls,lol
• China
7 Jun 08
oh i have the same desire as you! but i think the comments below seem not to suit me chinese. in my country, girls may not appreciate the one that are always keeping himself around girls.
@wy2008 (185)
• China
19 Jun 08
wow , that is very interesting! i always believe that there is some right time to meet right person , so take the time !
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
The question is, why do you have that strong desire of getting a girlfriend? Each and every one of us comes to a point wherein we all want someone with us. Love isn't a one way street. Relationships are fun but isn't quite the big HOORAH either. It's a challenge and if you aren't ready for it, you'll get sucked in it. People should go into relationships not because one seeks something from someone else. It works best when you have much to share to another person. It's not more on the taking, but on the giving. It's like friendships but more commitment. You're more liable of the other person. If you aren't ready for it, cool it. Don't rush into things just because you gotta join the bandwagon of having a girlfriend. Prepare yourself, and when you're ready for it, and you do find someone, I'm sure, you're in for a wonderful ride. :) Live life. Girls don't want guys who seeks nothing for themselves. Make goals. Dream a life. Live it. You might not know, but someone might fall in love for you and on your passion. Nothing beats the guy who knows that he himself can. :)
• India
2 Jun 08
It depends upon a girls taste, every girl is different, what i advice you is to be yourself, you will get the right girl who is made for you.
• India
2 Sep 08
Hi, The best way is to be your own when meeting or talking to a girl. Don't try to copy anyone and dont try to impress her. Things will happen naturally.