is she feel shame cause of me?!

Hey ...why her friends think should nt matter to her...What she is feel is more important.....so just approach her and be near her man....her frnds are teling she is wrong...you have to prove tht she is right...fight for her...

don't feel that you are a loser! fight for your self! love your girl! and be confident to what you are! be real to yourself and to others even to your girlfriend!

Sounds like her friends are jealous of you. Maybe their boyfriends are overweight or obese and old looking. Like some of the other replies, what matters is what your girlfriend thinks. If you really feel so unhealthy, maybe you would like to improve your diet or fitness regime, just so that you feel more confident, but I wouldn't worry too much about that. Keep your head up, feel proud man, that you're not some overweight slob! All the best.

Just ask yourself whether you love her.If you love her and she loves you too,there is no problem between you.Just do what you want to do,innocent the others.If your girl friend chooses you,you must have your own charm,just pull yourself together,be more confident.You will won,trust me!!

I think first you should trust the "love".What is the love? It is powerful ,and can not be mattered by the looking \age\status and so on.You should trust the "love" between you . And second you should make youself know that looking is not all for a man. Many famous men are very short,such as napoleon in French,Dengxiaoping in China,they are short,but they are charming.SO just trust youself .

Hey dude, What I think is that if your girlfriend has got a genuine feeling for you then you shouldn't worry about What the other girls are saying to your girfriend. Because i am damm sure that if your girlfriend has a genuine feeling for you and likes you then she would never listen to what other girls are saying. And dude if you are thin and if you are a little immature then it shouldn't matter more because if you like the girl then this all little things are left behind as days pass. And public says a lot of things and they also might make a fun of yours,but with my past experience I have seen in such cases that as days pass you would feel more confident about your relationship and people around you who make fun of yours would also keep their lips shut. So dude if you like that girl then don't ever leave her because of these kind of silly things...this is the way life keeps on moving. Live your life to full extent.

Do go on for looks that much. It is the mental adjustment that pays off in the long run. You need not at all bother for third-party opinions in this regard.

if you love her and she loves you, forget those people, they are not friends, and they do not care about your feelings or your girlfriend's feelings.

Woah, that was a really difficult situation DexterLab. All I can say is, be proud of who you are. If you love each other and you two are for each other, then, you would get over all the challenges God had given you. If she loves you enough, she will not leave of you, and instead, be proud of you. If you love her enough, you will stand strong for your relationship and be brave. Do not be easily moved by those kind of remarks. Remember that a relationship lasts not because of the people around the couple but because of the strength and love the couple offers for each other.

if you love the person, you never mind what other people will tell you. it is not easy to be in such a situation, that is why only love could stand it. if you feel that you really love your girlfriend, and that she really loves you, you must go on with your relationship. it is not the other people who will handle your relationship, but the two of you.

First of all, aren't there business. Second, they probably are after you; and your girl friend must leave you, so they can jump all over you. It's your choice, girl friend or her friends. Sounds interesting, why not turn things around them; Tell your girlfriend about it.

Hi dexterlab. All depend of your feelings about her. If you don't love her but only like her, it is simple. Tell to her that you know what her friends talking about you and leave her free to do a choice. If she feel shame of you I don't think that you and your girlfriend go so long with your relationship. This way I think that is better leave her free and you became free too to meet a nice person that don't care about looks or other superficial thing like this. good luck.

As long as your mind is mature, the appearance doesn't matter.

dude. it really does not matter how you look like or how you like. what all that matters is if both of you are loving and caring for each other, and if both of you understand each other well, also if you both think you both match, than thats that. No need to worry about what the public, or your friends or her friends are saying. Remember that they do not know how you and your girl friend feel when both of you are together. If your happy with her and if she is happy with you than thats that. Forget them and live your life. Just ignore them.

i think the way you are thinking is making you more sad. no, only looks can't be hindrance in any relationship.if she is really in trouble, then talk with her and know her views. hope she can clear you.

Ignore anyone who gives you trouble about your appearance or size or looks in comparison to your girlfriends or not! How your body is buiolt and how you look is none of anyone elses business. Just be happy in the skin you're in and forget anyone else.

Sounds to me like your girlfriend has the wisdom to know what is right for her. And it sounds like her choice is you. How can you be an insult if she has freely chosen you? Are you not worthy of her choice? And should anyone ever feel ashamed of being with you, then they are the ones deserving of shame for judging on physical appearances rather than the integrity of the whole person. As far as the general public goes, even though it may seem that a lot of them are looking at you, the vast majority of people have their own world of woes that occupies them to the exclusion of all else. Another consideration: those who may be noticing you ... perhaps they are noticing your happiness, or at least your girlfriend's happiness in being with you. Be happy in your relationship.

well., of course not.. you should feel happy because your gf really loves you a lot... so cheer up! looks doesnt matter... we all gonna be old some day... what matter most is what is within you.. and your gf see something special to you thats why she chose you... dont listen to others...they dont know you that much and still they judge you that easily... so if i were you i just dont mind them.,.. they exists but they dont matter... because those who are judging you without knowing who you really are... is not worthy to know who you really are.. dont let them put you down... be strong for your gf...