Do you like eating alone when you go out?

United States
June 2, 2008 1:36pm CST
I just responded to a discussion that asked if you like shopping alone or with other people. I replied that I liked shopping alone, because I can do what I want, whenever I want, I don't have to worry about anybody else. Well why is it, that I don't like eating alone. I hate having to go eat at a restaurant or fast food place by myself. I keep thinking people are looking at me and saying awww..look at her, she has to eat by herself,she must not have any friends...lol. I don't why I think that, maybe I'm wierd. Does anybody else out there ever feel that way? Am I the only wierd one here?
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@tdemex (3540)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I don't like eating alone either. But in my job, road warrior, I fly alot all around the USA, and live in Mexico. I'm normally by myself and forced to eat alone either in my room or the place where I get the food. At home we have a big family and we usually eat together. I'm a white american and my Mexican family loves when I cook! Thanks! tdemex
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• United States
2 Jun 08
Its nice to have family around you...I have a big family also, and we eat together you better watch out...thanks for responding
@nenagirl (38)
• Belize
2 Jun 08
hey there walijo, i guess i must differ with you when it comes to shopping alone.i prefer company.but not just anybody.i dont like people who try to tell me what to buy or not to buy a certain item because its too expensive you know? honestly, i must confess that whoever goes with me has to have a lot of patience caz i'm a bit indecisive at times.cant make up my mind as to what to purchase,especially clothes! anyhow addressing the original question, i must agree with you.i feel totally uncomfortable eating alone.i too feel as if everyone is looking at me.i always avoid those situations.i prefer ordering food to go..and here i thought i was the only one!!lol
• United States
2 Jun 08
No, your not the only one, when it comes to eating alone. I just feel wierd, like everybody's looking at me..lol. And the shopping thing, we're alike in one way, you said that you can't make up your mind what you want. I'm the same way, I'll have a cart full of stuff but by the time I get to the registers I've already put most of it back..lol. I tell myself I'll get it later, which I never do. If my mom is with me, she'll talk me into getting it, and she won't let me put stuff back because she knows how I am...haha.
• Belize
4 Jun 08
jeje!! glad to know i am not the only one.haha!!! all is good with the world then lol.
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
4 Jun 08
I don't like eating alone, period. I overeat when I am by myself. I have a small fear of being alone, so eating out in public wouldn't go at all for me. I am self conscious when I eat anyways. I always think someone could be staring. It isn't a big problem yet, but I think I have gotten a handle on it.
• United States
5 Jun 08
Thats good if you've got a handle on it. I didn't realize there were so many people out there that felt this way also...I tend to overeat all the time...lol. no matter if I'm alone or not...Thanks
@kame_w (104)
• China
7 Jun 08
I don't like eating alone. It will make the dishes out of delicious for me. Sometimes I have a special feeling that someone looks pity when he eating alone in a restaurant. I enjoy eating out with my friends.
• United States
8 Jun 08
I enjoy eating out with others too. Just today, I ate out with my mom and my nephew and there were a couple men that were eating by themselves. I found myself looking at them, and I was thinking hmm...they must not have anybody to eat with, how sad....lol. See we all think that way about people eating by themselves....haha.
@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
19 Jun 08
No, not when I go out to eat. I also think people are looking at me weird. I like to eat alone at home though.
• United States
19 Jun 08
Yeah, I do too...I eat at home alone during the day, when my hubby's at work. thanks
@wahm805 (76)
• United States
17 Jun 08
I hate to go out and eat alone at a restaurant. I just feel so bored and lonely because I have noone to converse with. I've done it a few times during my lunch hour but the only time it has ever been ok with me is if I'm finishing up a work project or have a good book I'm trying to finish reading. But in general, I enjoy a dining mate.
• United States
19 Jun 08
Yeah, I'd rather dine out with someone too, its more fun, when you've got someone to hang out with..Thanks
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Jun 08
i dont think that people who eat alone are loners or whatever..i guess its you only?(thinking of)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I'm not a loner, its just nice to have someone to go and eat with sometimes. I'm a stay at home wife, and I'm by myself all the time everyday, and the friends that I have all work during the day. I can usually get my mom to go with me tho...Thanks
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
LOL, do I like living my life alone? That is cool. If I am out alone, then I have to eat alone. If I am with someone, I may eat with that someone. If I am out alone and want to have company, I will try to get company. Chances are that I will end up sucking thumb and being alone. Friends. That's what friends are about. Generally they are not there when you need them.
• United States
3 Jun 08
Hey....good response....thats true about friends...Thanks
@bobet17 (158)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
I dont want to eat alone outside because I feel so boring,I need someone to talk while eating,my sister and I love to eat, during weekend we always eat in the mall after that we watch movie,and I realized that being alone makes me crazy I cant live without friends and family.
• United States
3 Jun 08
Yes, friends and family are good to have around. Thats nice that you have your sister to hang out with. Thanks
• India
3 Jun 08
I also eat alone. Its just that I do not sit there and eat. I grab what I have to eat and head out. i love eating out in the open. Although I don't eat at restaurants. I like road side open cafes. Even If I had to eat out alone, I would without any problem because I like being alone. "I'm hungry and I'm eating." That's the kinda look I give people who are staring at me, when I'm eating Alone. bourne
• United States
3 Jun 08
Thanks....good response
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I like eating alone... Most times I don't get to do that because of my daughter or girl-friend... I love eating with them too but more often then not, I prefer eating alone... When I go to get something to eat on my lunch break at work, sometimes coworkers will as me if I wanna do lunch with them... I tell them I'd rather eat alone, in a nice way... I don't think I'm a loner but somethings I like doing alone & eating is one of them...
• United States
3 Jun 08
Well thats nice...I can understand that, you probably want to get away from the workplace and co-workers for a little bit, and take a break. Thanks
• United States
3 Jun 08
I hate eating alone.....makes me feel ever so lonely..rather go without a meal...i am a people's person,so would love to eat in the company of my spouse or friends..
• United States
3 Jun 08
Yeah, thats me...I don't like eating alone. I do get to eat with my husband, its just that during the day, he's at work, and if I go to town, I usually have to eat by myself, if I don't go to lunch with him....Thanks
• Cyprus
3 Jun 08
Don't worry, I don't think that you are wierd. I don't like to eat alone as well. Not just in restaurants, for me it is the same when eating at home. At least there has to sit someone together with me at the table, otherwise I don't have any appetite.
• Belize
4 Jun 08
i have to differ with you on this note.when i am home it doesnt bother me if i have company or not.but when it comes to eating out alone,i must have someone with me.someone i like being with though.i dont know,but dont you find it a bit frustrating/exasperating when you're with someone that you dont really want to be with?or is just me?...
3 Jun 08
If someone offer company,i would like to accept.I think it is not strange to see a person eating alone and shopping alone.you needn't think a lot.Just be yourself and enjoy your own shopping and eating.Have fun!
• United States
3 Jun 08
Thanks for responding, and I think thats what I'll do is just have fun.....
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
LOL ^_^ I dun shop alone, and so i definitley wun eat alone too.. It's just so weird and funny when i'm eating, ple will be looking at me.. ANd when i'm alone, i will tend to look around while waiting for my food, but when i'm with fren, i will be talking to them and wun be looking around.. hehe ^_^ And so when being alone, we tend to be more observant about things around us and thus makes me even more uncomfortable.. haha ^_^ In the end, i will just finish my meal quickly and leave the place.. hehe
• United States
3 Jun 08
haha..why do some people feel that way and some don't? I've always been that way, I've always worried what other people think of me. I guess thats the reason huh? Thanks
@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
2 Jun 08
Sometimes I like to go out to eat all by my self. I have two children so going out to eat with them and going alone is alot different! I sometimes enjoy just going out to eat by myself and enjoying the peace and quiet.
• United States
2 Jun 08
Yeah, I could understand that, especially when your used to having the kids with you and kids tend to like to be noisey, I know my nephews are. Thanks
@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I never ever do in fact I go eat by myself alot during lunch at work. I dont need someone to hold my hand. Sure it would be nice to have someone to eat with but its not a must. Try not to worry bout what others think:)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I will try to do that....someone said that other people are only worrying about what they are doing, instead of thinking about what your doing. Thanks
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
hello, no, I don't like eating alone. It's pretty lonely though sometimes I also felt like what you think and feel, but for me it's more sad and lonely eating alone. There were no one to talk to, well, for me, I'll appreciate more if I had some company while eating. It's kinda sad eating alone.
• United States
3 Jun 08
Yeah, I hear ya...it is lonely sometimes. I keep thinking that people are probably saying awww she don't have any friends...lol. It is sad...Thanks
@sun2day (1062)
• Virgin Islands (U.S.)
3 Jun 08
I like shopping with others, because I can always ask their decision on things that I want to buy. My daugther and I use to ejoy shopping, especially when we would go to the thrift stores and the others. We'd spend hours just looking at about everything in the stores. Just us gals. lol
• United States
3 Jun 08
Good for you, that you have your daughter to do things with. Family is so good to have around. I usually take my mother with me, if she's around. All my family live away from me so we don't hardly get to do stuff like that. Thanks
• Malaysia
3 Jun 08
It's nothing wrong or weird about eating alone, go shopping alone or even to the cinema. Who care what others might think. Yes, it's much more fun to have company and not something "glamour or hip" thing that you must have someone to have fun with. I usually do on my own when my friends are not available and when I'm alone, I would like to enjoy the experience still. I certainly would like to enjoy my food and care less what others might think and spoil my meal. And I always try to engage a conversation with someone new and learn something along the way. At times, I think I appreciate the little things more when I am on my own. I prefer to do shopping alone and not with my friends if I could, no offense intended to my friends...lol
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Hie :) Thank you for given me the mark and hope you are having a nice time whether alone or with your friends.