Do you tell anyone you are trying?

I guess I tell my best friend, but probably no one else. I really want to be TTC'ing right now, but we have to wait a bit longer, and BF wants us to be married first (I can understand all that, and I appreciate that he wants us to be right first) BUT I want a baby!! WAHHHH!! (that's me crying... LOL)

I don't think we did with the first one when we were actively trying, and with the second one it was more of an 'oops'. Now we're thinking of trying for a 3rd, and I have told some friends about it. The thing is, if it doesn't happen, then you can get support from friends who are aware of your situation. I would say, just confide in a small group of friends, so you don't have everyone coming up to you every month and doing a nudge, nudge, wink, wink!

I don't think we told anyone we were trying, we just tried & when it finally happened, we told people that we were pregnant. I don't really think anyone needs to know if we're trying or not because they always seem to look disappointed when you tell them you're trying but obviously haven't managed to conceive yet. My Mum knew when i had my implant removed but she didn't know whether we'd actually started trying to conceive or not - just that the implant was coming out & so if we fell pregnant then we'd let them all know.

My husband and I are TTC too. I have told a few people, but I kinda like to keep it to myself. I've told a few people that I wish I hadn't now too. I get nagged about how it's going all the time and asked overly personal questions and all that stuff. You probably know what I'm talking about. I feel like the more people you tell, the more people are in your business and it takes away from the intimacy of it and the special feeling that you and your husband should be feeling, you know? It's already stressful enough to be trying let alone having people giving you pointers and all that. Ha ha. Good luck to you guys and I hope it happens for you soon!