bontheka

@bontheka (65)

Hong Kong • Age 54

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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I bought 2 rings at a jewelry auction!

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 3 Jul 08

I went to my first ever jewelry auction last Sunday and ended up buying an emerald ring with diamonds, and a sapphire ring with diamonds, costing almost USD4,000. When I got home my husband was shocked to say the least as it was...

How do I put a picture/photo in my Mylot avatar?

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 28 Jun 08

Sorry, this should be fairly simple but I have not been able to find an answer to this. How do I put a picture or photo in my Mylot avatar? Someone please tell me...

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bontheka Thanks everyone. It was very simple. Just didn't know/realise that it was under 'edit your preferences'.

30 Jun 08

How do I put a picture/photo in my Mylot avatar?

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 28 Jun 08

Sorry, this should be fairly simple but I have not been able to find an answer to this. How do I put a picture or photo in my Mylot avatar? Someone please tell me...

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Are you affected peoples comments about you?

mely123 @mely123 (65) • Philippines 26 Jun 08

There are some people who are affected about comments about him or her. He or she worried to recieved negative comments. I know negative things will shape you more.

comments

negative

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bontheka If someone says something negative to me, I usually try and explain or justify if I think I'm right, but I won't simply go on the defensive. It however does upset me very much and I find that I can't easily forget what's been said. I am usually very thoughtful...

26 Jun 08

ttc

sugaredprincess @sugaredprincess (66) 4 May 08

Hi All, For those trying to conceive, how long have you been trying for and do you take any supplements like folic acid etc?

pregnancy

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bontheka I plan to start trying for my 3rd next month, but if it doesn't happen next month, then we're going to take a few months break before we start trying again. It's just that we'll be moving in a year's time and I want to make sure that I've either already had...

24 Jun 08

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Australian toddlers starved to death by their mummy

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 18 Jun 08

This story beggars belief. The decaying bodies of 18 month old twin toddlers (a boy and a girl), were found by a sibling in their room, after he decided to investigate an unusual smell in their suburban home in Brisbane. The...

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bontheka I really cannot understand how the mum could do that to her own kids. They were 18 month old twins and yet they weighed only a little bit more than a newborn. It seems she hardly fed them, hardly changed their nappies. In the latest news report, it says the...

20 Jun 08

Do I spend enough time with my kids

m0mmy0f03 @m0mmy0f03 (364) • United States 19 Jun 08

I have 3 kids and I stay at home with them. Sometimes I feel like I don't do enough with them. I'm always doing something. Laundry,dishes,picking up toys,vacuming and so on. The when I get a change I jump on the computer and do...

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bontheka Janeycat, I could have written the above myself, except that I have two little boys. I too think that I spent more quality time with my eldest. He now goes to kindergarten in the mornings for 3 hours each weekday, and during that time, I have the younger one...

20 Jun 08

Australian toddlers starved to death by their mummy

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 18 Jun 08

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How would you feel if you lost your kids?...

xXxMikesWifeyxXx @xXxMikesWifeyxXx (3072) • United States 16 Jun 08

I have a friend,who husband and her agreed to let the granparents take their 2 kids for a few months. well a few months is now almost a year. and before i knew her they had the one child for 7 months. so for about 1 year out of...

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bontheka My older brother and his wife both work. She's a flight attendant so sometimes she's got a stretch of days off, then other times, she's away on work for up to 2 weeks. They've got two daughters. The elder girl will be 5 in September and the younger one will be...

16 Jun 08

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Officer kills man who beat child to death - This is just terrible.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 15 Jun 08

This is one of the worse stories I've read in a long time. Can someone please tell me what is going on in the minds of some people. Since the man who committed this crime is already dead, there is no use saying what should be...

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bontheka I'm a mother to two little boys under the age of 4. It makes me sick to hear of something like this. Why did the coward have to vent his rage on the poor, defenceless child? If he hated the baby so much, it would have been better if he'd just put a bullet to...

16 Jun 08

Do you wear glasses, contact lenses, or none?

biobio55 @biobio55 (281) • Indonesia 30 May 08

I am wearing contact lenses at day time. At night time, before sleeps, I wear my glasses. I have a bad eye sight and I want to get a lasik procedure. Lasik is an eye correction procedure. But, I don't know if it is safe and I...

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bontheka Thank you for selecting my contribution for best response. It's the first time I've got a best response. Thanks again. It's really put a smile on my face.

16 Jun 08

any natural way to reduced the belly of pregnancy?

cheri_janine @cheri_janine (115) • Philippines 13 Jun 08

After pregnancy, I got even bigger belly because of the effect of pregnancy. Do you have any natural way on how to reduce it?

belly of pregnancy

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bontheka I don't have an answer for you as I'm in the same boat. After two kids, I didn't have a problem with shedding the pregnancy weight, not that I'd put on much extra weight to start with, but I do have a jelly belly. Quite often, I have a bloated belly as well,...

13 Jun 08

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how many referral you have on mylot

onthetop @onthetop (193) • United States 12 Jun 08

i dont have any right now.... how many you have......

referral

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bontheka No, I meant on other websites.

13 Jun 08

how many referral you have on mylot

onthetop @onthetop (193) • United States 12 Jun 08

i dont have any right now.... how many you have......

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bontheka I sent out referral emails to 3 friends whom I thought might sign up. I was quite pleased when 2 of them did. Unfortunately, that is all they've done so far. They're totally inactive. I don't want to chase them about it. It's really up to them. I'm new to all...

12 Jun 08

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Free designer product, which one?

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 12 Jun 08

I live right next to a luxury shopping mall that has lots and lots of luxury designer boutiques like Prada, Gucci, Chanel, Loewe, Celine, Dior, Burberry, etc. If I didn't have to, I probably wouldn't enter the mall but for the...

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Sorry about what I said

dlm6171 @dlm6171 (60) • Trinidad And Tobago 10 Jun 08

last night while having a discussion about life in general, I told my husband that if I had to life my life over I would choose to remain single and have no children. It is not that I do not have a wonderful marriage but sometimes...

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bontheka No, I don't think you're being selfish. If I were to say you're being selfish, then I'll have to give myself the same label. I'm a stay-at-home mum to two kids and I usually wish that I hadn't got married and had children, following an arguement with my...

10 Jun 08

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what do you do after you've had a row with your partner/spouse?

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 8 Jun 08

I suppose like all couples out there, I hate having a row with my husband/partner. Well, I've had a row with him this morning, and I'm still feeling a lot of anger towards him. I've heard of a lot of couples saying that they...

an encounter with a crazy person

bontheka @bontheka (65) • Hong Kong 6 Jun 08

I took my toddler shopping the other day. He was in his stroller. On our way back, I was just getting to this busy street with pedestrian crossing lights when I caught sight of a woman loitering around the area. There was...

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What does it mean?

Simoneetah @Simoneetah (420) • Canada 5 Jun 08

Have you ever heard words used and just don't know what they mean? You hear them all the time but one day you finally ask "What does that mean anyway?" I was reading a post and the person wrote "contempt" and "disdain". Now I've...

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understanding

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bontheka Yes, there are words that I too have heard many times, but wasn't too sure about the meaning or simply didn't know. I'm usually too lazy to check out the meaning. Sometimes, I ask my husband and he'll try to explain it to me. Worst bit is, when people use it...

5 Jun 08