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By shan13
@shan13 (11)
Jamaica
June 8, 2008 2:18pm CST
i am in a situation and honestly i am real confused, i am with this guy because i want to get over my ex, but i have come to have feelings for him but at the same time i dont know if i want to be with him but we are doing intimate things. we talked alot and he is sweet but i dont know if i should trust him.he gave me 4 options that i should choose from/or what i want to be with him:(1)having him as a friend with benefits(a person who can give me things(2)an exclusive relationship (3) have an open relationship (4) just be friends(and if we r in the mode have do intimate things).can someone tell me what they think please
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3 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
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8 Jun 08
Well for a start why is he giving you options? no relationship should be based on someone giving options and the other having to choose one.
You should never ever be with someone to get over someone else it will not help you get over your ex infact all it sounds like is that it has given you yet more reason to be sad and unhappy.
I think you need some time alone by yourself to think about yourself and no one else and get over your ex that way, if this man is meant to be for you he will still be there when you are emotionally ready for another relationship, because right now you arent being fair to him or your self
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
8 Jun 08
I am suggesting that you give this guy a break. You are on th rebound and this is not right. Going in a relationship and you are not over your ex will only confused you more. Tell this person that you need some space and would like to think it over. Having a considerate friend is nice but having seen and read were a lot of girls make this mistakes and live to regret it afterwards. If and when you decide let it be known that you are ready for another relationship.
