shan13

@shan13 (11)

Jamaica • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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During a hot summer day, could you sleep without air condition in your room?

DevilHands @DevilHands (573) • Philippines 3 Mar 08

Oh my! I definitely can't, specially in our country and the city side I've been living. There's almost no wind here. I really have a very hard time sleeping when there's a sudden blackout/brownout at night, no electricity means no...

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shan13 yes i can sleep without air condition,i dont have one now and it is drawing near to summer,so when i am hot i just take all my clothes off and sleep in my birthday suit (naked.

10 Jun 08

urgent please help

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 10 Jun 08

hi all well i am a little confused with everything in my life right now. i am this guy for some months now,where i live is not very spacious so most of the time we talked outside,i told him that already,so i hope he...

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how can i be a good woman

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 9 Jun 08

i am a 19 year old and i am involved with a 29 year old guy who i dont know if i like or not but. but i dont know how to treat him,i dont want him to go.so what i am asking is how do i treat am man that is a lot older than me

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what is love

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 9 Jun 08

i am confused with infatuation and love. at times i feel like i am in love but when i taught about it,it seems impossible. i dont know how to differ them both.so how do u know the different for each other?

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about oral intimacy

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 8 Jun 08

in the country where i am in there is a big deal about oral intimacy (u know what i mean the s word) from i was growing up.so right now i am confused weather to believe it is right or wrong. i have gotten it done yes but never...

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shan13 thank you

8 Jun 08

How do you know if a guy LOVES you or just LIKES you?

cheri_janine @cheri_janine (115) • Philippines 8 Jun 08

Sometime we are too much confused of this two words, LOVE OR LIKE especially if we are in love. How do we really know if i guys just like you or if he is truly in love with you?How can we measure it? or justified it?

love or like

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shan13 i dont know when a guy love or like me or like me,but normally i heard that is what they do and say but i have noticed that even when they dont like or love they do nice things, so i really dont know,but what i do is try and take precautions where that is...

8 Jun 08

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about oral intimacy

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 8 Jun 08

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about me

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 8 Jun 08

i am in a situation and honestly i am real confused, i am with this guy because i want to get over my ex, but i have come to have feelings for him but at the same time i dont know if i want to be with him but we are doing intimate...

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Should I change, for him?

kavanaugh @kavanaugh (1) • United States 7 Jun 08

Im in a relationship for a little over a year. This is my first real relationship. I love him, if he has a number of things he thinks I should change about myself, does he have a right to ask this of me? Am I wrong for changing...

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shan13 well i was in a relationship like that and i taught about i think the reason why he wanted me to changed was because he love me but after a time i found out that it was not that it was that he could not accept me fior who i am. he wanted to control me,like...

8 Jun 08

Are you willing to give up the one you love??

baleleng2008 @baleleng2008 (917) • United States 7 Jun 08

What you do,guys when you found out that the person whom you love most already married??Are you willing to give up or fight for your love? It happen to me when I fall inlove with a wrong man bcoz after I got pregnant I...

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shan13 well i have been in that situation once and honestly i felt like fighting over this man who cared nothing about me but i loved him. he had a family and he did not tell me about it so i got caught up but when i found out i was willing to stay with him but his...

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why do we often feel left out

shan13 @shan13 (11) • Jamaica 8 Jun 08

why do we often feel left out,even when we know the guy do cares,or why is it hard to trust a guy