If you are given the chance to choose what would you prefer, a boy or a girl?
By arlene05kang
@arlene05kang (277)
South Korea
June 9, 2008 6:12am CST
Here's the situation. You already have a four year old son. You and your husband decided to have another child.. If you were to choose what would you prefer a girl or a boy ?
6 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
9 Jun 08
I would choose to have a girl. That way with a boy and a girl it would be a gender balanced family. My sister has two boys and two girls and people say that was great planning. I have a 13 year old son and a 1 year old son. I would love to have a girl. Toys and clothes can be passed down if a family has all boys or all girls. This is convenient but I still wish to have a girl next time.
@arlene05kang (277)
• South Korea
10 Jun 08
I talked to my sister, i told her that if she gets pregnant and it will be boy then i will give her my sons stuff.Then If i gets pregnant and its a girl she should give me her daughter stuff. Funny isn't it. Thanks for dropping by.
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
9 Jun 08
There are advantages to having either one for your son. He can play with either one of them and he will grow close to either one. I myself would like to have a girl just so I'd have both, a boy and a girl. But really I would not care either way.
Some might say it's better to have another boy then things can be passed down and so forth.
You son may not like this when he is older most do not like to have something others had first.
Having a sister would be good for him to give him experience with a girl and possibly have more respect for a girl since he has a sister. You never can tell.
I would mostly hope that whatever the child is that he/she is well developed and with no problems. That he/she will be a happy child.
@arlene05kang (277)
• South Korea
10 Jun 08
That's exactly what's in my mind why I choosed a girl. That's for the comment.
@baleleng2008 (917)
• United States
13 Jun 08
For me arlene really it doesn't matter.Whatever God given to us I will be happy.Hmmmmm.....are you planning to have one ...wink!
@arlene05kang (277)
• South Korea
9 Jun 08
that's my choice too. Since I alread have a son. Children are blessings from god.Thanks for the comment. Keep on mylotting.