What is the best way to chastise a child when it's naughty?

thewriter_ your choices are limited because the mom sets the tone for the child's actions. Kids sometimes behave more when they are not with their parents. My general guideline is reward the good and ignore the bad. Kneel down eye level and make eye contact. Using the childs name (Brad) Tell him you love him, but not his behaviour. Kids want to please their parents. Suggest an alternative positive activity. Tailor your corrections so they are appropriate for the child's age. Including a child's name in the dialogue, the child takes responsibility for his actions. Brad, it makes me happy when you_ Use positve words. don't get caught up in the world of negatives. Use do words, not don't words. Always use the child's name. Examples. Instead of telling or yelling Brad don't run Say _ Brad, remember walking feet? Rather than Brad don't yell (shout) Say_ Brad, remember inside voices. I like it when you speak quietly. Those are a few of several ways to improve a child's behaviour in a positive manner. Negative doesn't work. Try not to yell.

time outs and privelages are taken away the same they parents would do if they wont do it with their parents they shouldnt do it with you.

Time outs, toys taken away, or, since you don't see them as often, a reward for good behavior while in your care. But make sure you tell them why they are punished or why they don't get the reward.