The hairdresser's choice...

@youless (112507)
Guangzhou, China
June 9, 2008 9:01pm CST
My colleague had a haircut a few weeks ago. She asked the hairdresser to have a haircut for her, but the hairdresser refused to have this kind of haircut as this style wasn't suitable for my colleague. But my colleague still preferred to have this style and she didn't mind even if it didn't work well for her. However, the hairdresser still made up his decision and didn't have this haircut for her. He insisted in this didn't suit her. So my colleague said she wouldn't go there any more. Do you think the hairdresser shall listen to his/her client or he/she has to sticks to his/her own decision?
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@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
10 Jun 08
I think the hairdresser was right in telling her that the style didn't suit her but if she still wanted it cut that way then the stylist should have done it. Its their job to make the client happy if they can.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
I think the hairdresser shall be honest to give his/her opinions, but when the client insists in his/her style, then the hairdresser shall give in.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
11 Jun 08
ya, but when that client walks out looking bad, word of mouth is the hairdressers bread and butter. I don't blame her a bit for turning that person down. I would rather lose one customer who didn't like my call than 20 who saw the results and didn't like them either. There is always someone who is willing to give you what you want even if it looks horrible.....a good hairdresser is honest and upfront with you.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
10 Jun 08
bad hair day - very bad hair day
I think the hairdresser was right. He didn't want to be responsible for bad haircut. People always look at celebrities instead of creating something individual. If he rather didn't make money and loose potential client, my head down for him. This way we have more good looking people walking on the street. I have seen bad haircuts, just because people wanted them at all cost. In the end, hairdresser was blamed. People are coming to hair salon with Model picture and they think it will change their life for better. Hairdressers that are working for models try to create individual style for model face, not other way around. Most of the time hairdressers listen to the client, because they don't care. They just want to make money. Good hairdresser is always honest and will tell you if your hair structure and your face is not good for selected style. Hair style can change anyone look for better or for worst.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I like my hair long. It is working for me the best. I look my best when I take care of my hair myself..... KISS principle is working for me.... (acronym for "Keep It Simple, Stupid") HUGS
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
It seems you haven't be affected by others' comments and you post your own comment Actually it's hard to tell whether this hairdresser is right or wrong. I have been there twice, but I wonder whether I will go there the 3rd time. I was satisfied with the first time. The second time was so-so. This hairdresser wanted me to have curl hair as he said I would look better. I like my flat hair, and I don't want to change because I don't like medical treatment. Besides, curl hair is hard for me to handle. I want to get up, then comb my hair and go out. I can't spend more time on my hair such as gelling it etc. Of course making curl hair is much more expensive than a haircut, but this is not my reason to client to have curl hair. Perhaps this hairdresser felt disappointed and therefore my second time haircut didn't have my expected result as well as the first time.
@dfollin (25347)
• United States
12 Jun 08
Hairdresser - Someone who is supposed to style or cut hair to the customer's request.
I know that the hairdresser should have done what she asked.As the saying goes,' the customer is always right '.I hope your colleague reported her to the manager.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jun 08
Thanks for your response.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
10 Jun 08
I think that maybe the hairdresser has no idea how to make the new hairstyle that your colleague wants to have, so he keeps saying that it does not suit her as an excuse. That is my assumption. Have a good day, youless.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
Haha, you can be a good detective
• China
10 Jun 08
I would be happy to, lol. Thank you.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
11 Jun 08
One of my best friends is a hairdresser and she absolutely will not cut a style that she feels strongly is wrong for the person. I completely understand her thinking here. I was friends with her for years before I would let her even come close to me with a pair of sissors. I had long waist length hair and did not like sissor people....my mom was a hairdresser so I had issues in that area. I watched her over time and no one ever ever left her looking bad. She was and is the best hairdresser I have ever encountered. Why won't she cut your hair if she knows it will look bad for you?....because others will know she did it and therefore it is worth it to her to lose a customer. I was getting older and the hippie look just was losing it's appeal...actually making me look much older. I finally one day over coffee told her to get her sissors and do me up but don't put me into shock. I was not ready for the poodle look. Oh my lord..I should have trusted her way before I did. A really good hairdresser will never let you leave his/her place looking bad. in this case the hairdresser was right and your friend should have taken the constructive critisism for what it was.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jun 08
But sometimes maybe it's still worth to take a risk?
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
12 Jun 08
It wouldn't be worth it for me. I guess Im just way too fussy about my hair and I trust my hairdressers professional judgement. It took me along time of watching her work and results. By the time I actually let her take her sissors to my locks, I trusted her and her good judgement 100%. I have never been disappointed and many people ask me who does my hair and so it is good for her business as well.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jun 08
hi youless here in the states we have a saying, the customer is always right. The hairdresser must listen to his customer and give her the cut that she wants, not go 'against her wishes. he was in the wrong, and she was in the right.
@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Jun 08
I agree to this saying.
@Darkwing (21583)
10 Jun 08
Most definitely the hairdresser should listen to his clients as to how they want their hair cut or styled. They're paying the money for the haircut they want, not the one the hairdresser wants to give them. I would have refused to pay him, I'm afraid, and I also think he's in danger of losing a lot more customers if he doesn't start complying to their wishes. Brightest Blessings.
@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
What you said is reasonable.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
10 Jun 08
I believe the hairdresser should give his/her opinion about what hair style looks good for that client but the final decision should be left up to the client/customer.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
I think that's not a good attitude to refuse what the client wants.
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
oh, how i hate those kind of hairdresser..that is the same reason why i don't change my hairdresser and don't go just anywhere to have my hair done..i experienced a lot of those kinds where you already stated what you want but they cut it the way they wanted it still..i believe hairdresser's are known to be creative and sometimes they wanna get that creative with their customers but as far as i'm concern i always choose what for the hair cut..i say and explain what i want and thats just how they should do it..if they suggest something i listen to them but still i get what i want for my hair not what they want..
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
I think the hairdresser shall listen to their client anyway.
@chrissieatu (1033)
• China
10 Jun 08
Whenever I go to the barber's I will just give the hairdresser a free hand to do whatever he/she wants to. Because I am not so sure what I want and would like to save trouble. But generally they will communicate with me first. I surely want the hairdresser listen to the customers. After all, it's the customers' hair right?
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
In fact most of the time I let the hairdresser to have a free haircut for me, but I just don't want any medical treatment such as curling the hair etc.
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@Elixiress (3878)
10 Jun 08
I think that a hairdresser should listen to his or her client as they are paying to get the haircut done that they want and if it wasn't for these people paying then they would not get paid. I think that hairdressers should voice their opinion, maybe say well this would should you better than that, or if I altered it in this way it would look better. But if the client is against it then they should do what the client wants, otherwise they are going to loose custom.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
You are right. At least this hairdresser lost a client because of his own insistence.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
10 Jun 08
I think the hairdresser should have made sure that she understood that this style would not suite her then if she still wanted it he should have done it for her, after all he isn't the one that was going to have to walk around with it.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
Thanks for your response.
11 Jun 08
I think the hairdresser didn't know that how 2 make a hairstyle as u wish because this is their duty to fulfill that what the customer asked ......... i think this is the reason
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
Perhaps you are right.
@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I've had a hairdresser say the style I like isn't suited for me. I endd up going elsewhere. I think they should offer input, but in the end it should be the customer's choice
@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jun 08
I think so.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
10 Jun 08
i still think that what the hairdresser does is totally wrong... he should have listen to what your friend wants even though the hairstyle won't look nice on her... we pay for the service and we should have the freedom to choose what hairstyle we want... i will be very mad if i am your friend and i will refuse to pay for the service as well as the hairdresser refuses to follow my request... take care and have a nice day...
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
You are right and it is reasonable. We pay and we expect to have a pleasant service, rather than the refuse.
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Yes! The hairdresser is ultimately responsible for how you look leaving his shop. He should have explained what about the cut/style he didn't think would work for the client and suggest a modification that will keep elements of the desired style but will not make the client look bad. Ultimately though it is the client's head and if she/he wants to look stupid, it is up to him/her. Maybe they should draw up a form that states you are getting a style that is not recommended by the stylist and that you won't hold them liable when it doesn't look the way you wanted it to. Kind of like when you leave the hospital before the doctor thinks you should, they make you sign a "leaving against medical advice" form so you can't sue them when you get sicker instead of better!
@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
I think if the hairdresser can't persuade his/her client, it's better to follow their requirements. But to be frank this is a very tough choice.
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
10 Jun 08
The customer is always right! It's the stylist's job to give the client advice about what they think will work best, but, bottom line you do what the client wants. The hairdresser doesn't want anyone leaving their salon looking bad, as it reflects poorly on them, so, they will try to tell them what will work best.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
In fact I don't like the hairdresser always asks me to make curl hair. I like my flat hair and I don't want to change. I know why they want to persuade me to do so. As making curl hair will earn much more. Having haircut only won't earn more.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
The hairdresser should have listened to your friend... since in all business establishment... the customer is always right... even if it is so clear that he/she is wrong... this is like the essence of a good customer service... and the hairdresser is not right in not giving in to what your friend wanted... If it were me... i also would never go back to that salon...
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
You are right. Customers are always right.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
10 Jun 08
although it was nice the hairdresser was honest enough to point out to your friend that the style may not suit her,i think he should have given her the style she wanted,because it the old saying the customer is always right,its bad for business.cheers sue
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
I agree with you. At least this hairdresser shall try to make it better to suit my colleague's requirements.
• Indonesia
10 Jun 08
the hairdresser was so selfish. if he didn't want to make such kind of haircut then he should have boldly refused to cut your colleague's hair at all. what kind of service was that?? I was even thinking that he still tried to get her money but refused to do as she requested. your colleague was right, she should never go back to that hairdresser anymore. the hairdresser was only making excuse. he might not have that skill to cut such kind of haircut and probably he only wanted to cover his 'lack of skill'.
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@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Jun 08
That's a good reason. Besides, if everybody is a movie star, no matter what kind of hair style, it will usually look good. This is why the hairdresser needs to work harder for common people.