Are you going to get mad?

Well that would be annoying thing. Maybe the BF should just be made aware that what he is doing annoys the GF. I think that the BF does not realize that yet and is not sensitive of how the other girl would feel.

maybe not the first couple of times, I would make a joke out of it, after a while and then I would be annoyed, and say go back to her. But, then after a bit, I guess, knowing me, I would ask him, why he compared me to her. Maybe who knows he still loved her, he was angry with her and did not forgive her, what ever it is, I would have to talk about it with him, so we could fix this problem, I am a talker, and I need to know the answer even if it is wrong. This gets me into problem sometimes, however. its me.

i never like to be compared... especially with my hubby's ex... i will be very mad if that happens... me is me and i am unique... if he loves his ex so much, why doesn't he marry her and not me??? that's what i will be telling him... i definitely won't tolerate my hubby keeps on comparing me with his ex... one or two times are OK... but continuously??? no way... it is really annoying for me... take care and have a nice day...

I won't be that very mad, but I will be very irritated with my husband if he ever does that. I hate to be compared ESPECIALLY to his exes!But there were times he compared me to one of his ex-girlfriends. But he did it in a nice, tactful way. With your friend's boyfriend, she needs to have a talk with him. Tell him honestly that she's not comfortable with him comparing her all the time with his ex. Maybe in his part, he thinks it's just ok with her. I think when she finally tells him that she'll appreciate it better if he just avoids making comparison. That way, any conflicts in their relationship can be avoided, too.

Em, well if it was my boyfriend, I'll surely get mad. That was his past and don't compare me with others since he told me I'm the best among all his ex-girls*if the guy told the same thing to your friend* And i think, by comparing his current gf with his ex, seems he still can't forget about his exs which is hurt his gf's feelings. People don't like to be compared to anyone else. For better or worst, still, they are comparing us with someone else. Comparing is not good and i hope the guy will realize his mistake before it's too late and your friend will ask for a break. ;|

of course i will get mad, the important thing is, if he think his ex-gf is very perfect, why he don't come back with she. in this case, your friend just like a scapegote, what ever how wonderful she did just can "like my ex-gf", so, to get mad is the suitable way to catharsis her feeling. what's more, i do not think that guy is a nice person who can care about others feeling.

If I were your friend, I would tell this guy to either beat it or get rid of his annoying habit. I don't know how your friend tolerates him. Nothing wrong in going mad at him. What he is doing amounts to mental torture. I suggest your friend ( is she really wants him) have a heart-to-heart talk with him and let him know how much his habit of comparing is annoying her. If he still doesn't respect her, she is better off without him. Imagine spending a lifetime with a man who compares his wife to his exes... LOL Cheers and happy mylotting

I would kind of get mad. But just mad enough to tell him that I don't appreciate being compared to his ex-girlfriend. And if I remind him so much of her, he can go back to her. Why did he change partners? I if we're so much alike. I would'nt even want to keep hearing about how we're different. I'm quite sure if she was to compare him to her ex, favorably or not, he wouldn't like it. Humans have so many characteristics, it's easy to find a few similiar ones between two people. He must just have a shallow knowledge of both.

I dont think any woman likes to be compared to an ex girlfriend or ex wife so the guys should use some other comparison so the woman will get that he is pleased with her. this is really quite stupid of the man involved. he should know better than that by now. I would have told myhusband off if he had evedr done that tol me. but he never did.

Once or twice might be OK, but any more than that, and it is time to get angry. I would start to wonder if possibly the only reason he was dating me is because I remind him of his ex-girlfriend. I wouldn't want to be anyone's substitute.

Yes i would be mad. My bf would only talk about his ex'es if i ask him. But he would not do this to me. Maybe if it's once, I can let it go but if it's on a regular basis, I would tell him to stop that and me doesn't equal to his ex. If he couldn't stop mentioning his ex, i would tell him to go back with his ex if he can't get over it.

I am not sure, I think that if it was the odd comment then I would probably not even notice it, but if it is a constant thing then I would probably say something along the line of "Well go out with her then" and would probably end it. I think that if someone is still constantly on about their ex then they are probably not over them and it would only be right for them to give them the time.

Of course, I will get mad. Once is enough in saying those things to your gf or bf. But if its always, its no longer appropriate and healthy in talking about it anymore. That means he or she is not moving on...

Never ever, ever ,ever take out your previous relationships onto the new one. There is no sense in comparing anyone like that if you no longer hold feelings for them. I see no purpose in talking about anyone i have broken up with regardless of reason. If I am with one person it is all them. I am married now but have always felt this way. Why bring up past relationships if you are happy with the one you are currently in? He should ask himself that.

No one really likes being compared to someone else even if it's in a postiive vein. If I heard that all the time it would remind me that he is still thinking about her. I would say what's unique about me? Why are you with me now?

Definitely YES!!! It's his past so let go! WHy not let go of that.. His relationship with the past will be a past..It's different now. Talk to him because of his unethical doing. If he still acting like that, get out to the relationship. LEt go!