what will you do if you have quarreled with your friends?
By summerrain
@summerrain (355)
China
June 15, 2008 8:40pm CST
Several days ago,I was chatting with one of my best friends through internet.When we talked about something with which we have different opinions,we quarreled with each other,very furiously.At last,I said some angry words to her,and so did she.She said that she would never talk to me,and never be my friend.Out of angry,I replied the same words to her.Druring these days,I looked back upon our relationship seriously.Actually,she was one of my university roommates,and one of my best friends.We kept contacting each other after graduating,even though we lived far away from each other.I feel sorry about my saying that day and feel pity if we break down our friendship for just an internet chatting.What should I do?
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6 responses
@rirbry (353)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
I quarreled with my best friend for several of times, someone need to say something first if you just wait her to appologize and she also wait for you to apologize then you two will never talk to each other ever again, sometime friends do fight because no one is perfect, if you never fight with someone then something must be wrong =)
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
16 Jun 08
Hello, rirbry, I agerre with you, one must first break the ice, discussion can only be started after that. You two are good friends, there's nothing can't get over. See you miss the friendship, I guess she is the same. It's just that no one speak out.
Go and talk to her, you two will cherish each other more than before
**Enjoy life~~**
@summerrain (355)
• China
16 Jun 08
yes,maybe i should apologize to her first,just waiting cann't solve any problem,as you say.Thanks for your advice.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
16 Jun 08
My friends and I really don't have anything to quarrel about. We have better things to do with our time. If there is a disagreement, we discuss it and work it out amongst ourselves.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jun 08
Hi dear
quarel is always between friends as sure no one will quarel will strangers. if u r really friends then i am sure u might have fughts in past too
the simple way is to call her or meet her and say "SORRY" thats all then have cup of tea and nice discussion. its never bad to go back to friends, i believe friends are more important than EGO
best of luck and first one to call back
@summerrain (355)
• China
17 Jun 08
I've said sorry to her through chatting tools of internet.But she has just replied me nothing.Maybe she is busy with her job,I guess.I am waiting for her forgiving.
thanks for your care,again.
@summerrain (355)
• China
16 Jun 08
yes,there is a saying in our china,that's No discord,no concord.i think i should call her and say "sorry" to her.thanks for your help,my friend.
@tandyth2008 (52)
• China
16 Jun 08
take it easy, maybe she has the same feeling as you do now.
it's improtant that everyone should have his own opinion, and it's really hard for others to change it. we get along well with each other and have different opinions, that makes us friends!
so i think if you cherish your friendship, you should apologize to her. and remember, don't lose a friend for such a tiny reason.
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@summerrain (355)
• China
16 Jun 08
you are right,I chreish our friendship,and I should not lose a friend for such a tiny reason.
@celticeagle (167211)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Jun 08
These things happen. If you genuinely feel badly then send her a pretty friendship card and write a note about your feelings. Then the real stresser begins. Waiting for a reply that may or may not come. Good Luck to you!
@summerrain (355)
• China
17 Jun 08
thanks for your advice and comfort.things will be better,I believe.
