tandyth2008

@tandyth2008 (52)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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I am useless, I am so Lonely, sometimes I want to die...

grecychunny26 @grecychunny26 (9483) • Philippines 16 Jun 08

Is this what we called Middle Age Crisis?..Its been a long time since I last posted my discussion. From that day up to the present, my life became a roller coaster.I experienced problems in different degrees. As a result, I am...

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tandyth2008 you cannot be without others all the time, that's what i want to say. when you feel lonly, or hopeless, you can spend your time with others. that's good for health, no one can be strong enough to go through the pain all by himself everytime.

3 Jul 08

Would you choose the one you love or the one who loves you?

selece @selece (2357) • Philippines 28 Jun 08

Most of us have been in this situation, when we love someone else while we are loved by a person that we don't actually love but care about. If you happen to be in this situation who would you choose? The one who loves you or the...

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tandyth2008 you are totally the same as me! Choose the one i love, that will inspire me to do my best, then i'll be the best guy for her, haha! actually, my girlfriend and i, we deeply love each other. that's an amazing feeling, sometimes when we are ok, we feel happy,...

30 Jun 08

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Left Hand or the Right Hand?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

Are you left hander or a right hander? When you write, can you use either of you left and right or just one of the two? A lot of people based on their saying left-handed people are geniuses while right-handed are likewise...

pen

writers

writing

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tandyth2008 i was a left hander when i was young, but i was forced to use the right hand to do much of the things. so both of my hand can write and hold the chopsticks, but it's more comfortable for me to use the left hand to do these things. i can't say that a left...

30 Jun 08

what will i do?

adfrancisco @adfrancisco (26) • Philippines 30 Jun 08

my dreams is to have my own business, not too succesful but stable that can provide my needs and my family as well, but it's hard for me to do this, because i don't have enough money to establish and my parent don't want to...

my dream

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tandyth2008 if you want to have your own business, you should know there is no stablization to say. and if you just want to meet your parents needs, why don;t you seek a job? i think that's much suitable for you as i find that your character is the opposite one to do...

30 Jun 08

do u love to be seen as idol for any one?

replyashu @replyashu (745) • India 24 Jun 08

do u love to be seen as idol for any one? would u love to be followed by others?

idol

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tandyth2008 why not? i think it's good for you to be seen as idol, as you must promote your ability, your spirity everyday to meet the requirement of them.then you'll be something

24 Jun 08

Good Looks or Intelligence?

weng_08 @weng_08 (282) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

It is said that these two seldom go together, that one can't really have it all. Of course, there are few who are blessed with both...but if you were to choose, which one would you rather have? Which one seems more appealing to...

beauty

intelligence

looks

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tandyth2008 as a man, intelligence is much more important. i don't know what are the women's opinion. but i think they could pay more attention to their appearance. but as we know, the appearance is not as important as the heart.if there is a girl who is shallow and...

24 Jun 08

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Is it possible to love two different men at the same time?

alindahaw @alindahaw (1219) • Philippines 23 Jun 08

This is probably one of those age old questions that we simply can't put a definite meaning on but is it really possible to love two different men with the same intensity at the same time? i really find it quite difficult to...

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tandyth2008 i don't think it's possible. how could this happen?

23 Jun 08

is any chance to improve communication skills by internet?

devenders @devenders (23) 23 Jun 08

in these days many people are surfing the net.so i camre to doubt, by using the internet is any chance to improve the communication skills?

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tandyth2008 i think it's totally opposite way to improve your communication skills by internet. but if you use the mic, it should be better.

23 Jun 08

what is the most important quality that any wife should possess?

painkiller77 @painkiller77 (2073) • India 22 Jun 08

married men are a different lot. they have a life partner with them to lead their life. people sometimes jokingly say that wife is " worries invited for ever."but it is just for jokes. what do you consider the mandatory quality...

different

love

trust

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tandyth2008 women should be independent. that makes the wife and husband respect each other, and makes the wife more attractive, because she's free to be herself.

23 Jun 08

what is the most important quality that any wife should possess?

painkiller77 @painkiller77 (2073) • India 22 Jun 08

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tandyth2008 trust, love. trust is the foundation for two people to tive together. love make the life more wonderful!

22 Jun 08

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have you had a near death experience?

posham @posham (1236) • Philippines 20 Jun 08

just curious. has anyone of you mylottere experienced near death? we don't exactly know what's beyond this life and i don't think we even know if such experience was really near death. i just want to know if you have stories to...

death

flashback

light

near death experience

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tandyth2008 i've learned from VOA that we now can get such an experiance with the new techonolegy.that sounds crazy, but it says that you may see your body in front of you, just like your soul is out of your body.

20 Jun 08

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how can you forget someone who you love most?

knight_rlc26 @knight_rlc26 (362) • Philippines 19 Jun 08

i been in a fresh realationship. I want to stop and leave that person, But, i can't help myself. Still, i entertain that person and have communication with. Im into a hardtime of letting to forget those memories and that person...

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tandyth2008 it's really hard! i think the most effictive way is to make yourself busy. change your habbit, make new friends.

19 Jun 08

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what do you usually say to a person you just met?

allamgirl @allamgirl (2140) • Philippines 19 Jun 08

it's kinda hard to talk to a person you just met, like you have no idea what are the thing he or she is interested in. so how do you come up with things to talk about?

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tandyth2008 for me, if the person i just met is a cute girl, i'll be very active. and then, i'll be very humorous. if the person is a boy, i think there are many things to talk about, football, basketball... if he isn't interested in what you talk about, then change the...

19 Jun 08

Does money matter in love?

ycpgoldberg @ycpgoldberg (807) • Malaysia 18 Jun 08

Does money really a matter in love? I have heard too much that real love have no matter with money. They can still in love even they didn't have money, they can work together to earn. But still, there's also many case...

love

money

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tandyth2008 true love worth us to chase with our life will never connect with money. the standard that make we make the choice is which one can make us more happy. in my opinion, love is the most wonderful feeling in our life, nothing could make us feel so happy like...

18 Jun 08

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how do you make others happy?

kisanchhantyal @kisanchhantyal (420) • Nepal 18 Jun 08

People in this current world are thought to be selfish. They don't have humanity.Do to the global village they are focused on earning money. So how do you think about making other happy without selfishness?

happiness and selfishness

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tandyth2008 well, i don't think everyone is selfish. when we make others feel happy, we are happy too, because when they are happy, they may do the same to you, at least make you feel much comfortable.

18 Jun 08

Under what criteria will consider your life a success?

Katherleen @Katherleen (390) • China 18 Jun 08

I,personally,can't think of anything and feel that might be a source of the frustration i feel .Perhaps your answers will inspire me to find direction in my own life. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

success

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tandyth2008 God gives everyone several decades to act as a man. despite what do you want to do, just don't waste it. you can have fun, and make yourself happy all across your life. you can do great effort to accomplish great affairs, that makes your life a meaning...

18 Jun 08

Is marriage compulsory or what??

nightfoxc @nightfoxc (8) • United States 18 Jun 08

Two people meet,they fell in love and after sometime they get married.Is marriage like a compulsory thing ?? Can two people live their lives together with out getting married?? Tell me ur opinins.

marriage

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tandyth2008 Good question!A question asked by a meditative, brave and open minded guy! It is estimable for you to ask this question, as there is few people dare doubt if it is right when everyone seems to consider it's kinda normal. i think it depends. some of us are...

18 Jun 08

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The Short Quiz That Shows How Dumb You and I Are

Braonvoid @Braonvoid (44) • Philippines 18 Jun 08

Today I would like to discover how dumb you are... Below are four questions and a bonus question. You have to answer them instantly. You can't take your time, answer all of them IMMEDIAATELY, ok? Let's find out just how clever...

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tandyth2008 if we answer these question quickly, then we could get few correct answer. i got "4100"(it's quite simple for a Chinese),"MARY"

18 Jun 08